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Lisa0825 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-14-09 06:19 PM
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Houston Bar Refuses to Admit Gays - Union Bar and Lounge
I am SEETHING! I hate it when an idiot bigot makes me ashamed to be from this area!

http://capitolannex.com/2009/03/14/houston-bar-refuses-to-admit-gays/


A Midtown Houston bar last night refused to serve nearly 100 gay patrons, making them to wait in the rain while others were admitted to the bar–Union Bar and Lounge.

Via press release from the Houston GLBT Political Caucus:

Patrons started lining up at about 9:40 p.m. and were told to wait in line and not allowed inside, even as straight-appearing people were waved through. As the line grew and patrons waited in the rain, employees at the door told those who were that they were maintaining a “ratio.” Later, the bar employees simply indicated they had the right to refuse anyone.

“I was shocked to be a victim of that kind of discrimination in a city like Houston in 2009,” said Neal Falgoust, a Houston law student. “I have never experienced anything like that before in my life.”

A patron who arrived at the bar early reported that the bar was nearly empty at about 9:40 p.m., when gay people started arriving and were stopped at the door.

Gay people continued to line up to the street and around the corner as people who appeared to be straight went to the front and were ushered in. Kris Banks, who stood at the front of the line, said the bar employees were asking the women who were entering with men if the men were accompanying them. If the men were with the women, they were allowed in.

“I arrived and heard that they were not allowing gay men in, so when I got to the door with three women I asked if we would be allowed in, and the door employee said ‘I was told to keep you out,’ ” said Lindsey Dionne. “This was supposed to be a social event, but now it’s political.”

That this kind of discrimination is still legal in Houston makes it more outrageous. A coalition of GLBT rights groups, including the Houston GLBT Political Caucus, the Houston Stonewall Young Democrats, the Harris County Impact Houston and Amicus at South Texas College of Law said Saturday that the incident is proof of the necessity of legal protections for sexual orientation and gender identity for public accommodations.

“Houston is the only major city in Texas without a law that prevents this kind of discrimination,” said Jerry Simoneaux, GLBT civil rights lawyer. “This incident is exactly the reason Houston should implement such an ordinance.”

The event was organized as Houston’s first “Guerilla Gay Bar,” a tongue-in-cheek event that has been popular in other cities in which GLBT individuals come to traditionally straight bars to interact with other communities. Though Guerilla Gay Bars are usually a surprise event in other cities, Houston organizers informed the bar owner in advance out of courtesy and were told they would be welcomed.


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tbyg52 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-14-09 06:49 PM
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1. Stupid, stupid owners. Or at least the manager that night. nt
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Lisa0825 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-14-09 06:57 PM
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2. update - message from the owner
NOW he wants to try to "explain."

"can you contact me asap 281-xxx-xxxx

Sadly this has been a massive misunderstanding between the G&L community and Union Bar. We are trying very hard to make things right but there are two sides to the story and we need to tell and show ours."

From what I read, he was there when the gay couples who did get in before they stopped letting them in all started closing their tabs, and didn't seem to care about explaining then. I think he's just scared about the bad PR and trying to do damage control. Still, maybe there's a chance for education here.
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FreeState Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-14-09 10:48 PM
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10. The owners are lying their pants off
From many reports there were only 30 people in the bar when they stopes the gay men from entering, the bar was not full.
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-14-09 07:37 PM
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3. Next time they have a "guerrilla gay bar," lesbians and gays should enter together,
then sort themselves out when they get inside.

Show how insane this is.
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Lisa0825 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-14-09 08:16 PM
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4. Yeah, I mentioned that on Facebook.
Lets see how much harder it is to throw people out than refuse entry.
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friendly_iconoclast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-15-09 06:12 PM
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14. Great idea!
Some civil disobedience would do this bigoted idjit a world of good...
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KamaAina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-15-09 06:44 PM
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16. Fifties Night!!!!!
How stupid can the bigots possibly be?? :eyes:
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WillowTree Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-14-09 09:33 PM
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5. Curious.
How did the people manning the door know which people trying to get in were gay and which were straight?
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Lisa0825 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-14-09 10:45 PM
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7. Some self-identified because the event was pre-arranged with the management.
Others were there in couples and answered honestly when asked which party they were with. Some of it was just assumptions based on same-sex couples. Two men were not allowed in together, for example.

The bar is saying it was all a misunderstanding, and that would be great, but so far their explanation appears to be weak. The message is posted at the Facebook link I posted.
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FreeState Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-14-09 10:46 PM
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8. They only let male female couples in n/t
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Telly Savalas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-14-09 09:57 PM
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6. Will they let me in if I leave my StraightID at home?
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Lisa0825 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-14-09 10:47 PM
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9. If you show up with a woman, probably!
Hey, I'm just reporting the story.... if you're skeptical, more info is available at the links provided.

Honestly, I hope it turns out to be a misunderstanding. I hate to think the bar owner was this bigoted AND stupid.
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-14-09 11:38 PM
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11. Here's the message to straights: don't go there with your buddies, expecting
to meet girls, because that bar will tell everyone you're GAY!

Let the word get around. It won't do much for business.
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FreeState Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-15-09 04:30 PM
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12. or better yet just dont go there :) n/t
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Toasterlad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-15-09 06:01 PM
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13. It Doesn't Help to Reinforce the Noxious and Tedious Notion That Being Gay Is Bad.
Boycotting the place is a much better tactic.
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friendly_iconoclast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-15-09 06:15 PM
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15. Going 'undercover' to get in and *then* sort out will discourage this kind of thing
Not to mention the fact that the really severe homophobes will never, EVER be caught
dead there again!
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