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that religious/parochial schools tend to spend more time talking about things like abortion, premarital sex, etc. For example, when *I* was in high school, we never really heard or thought much about abortion. I hardly knew what it was until I was a grown adult, and I had no idea where abortion services might be found. Many of my classmates and neighbors were poor people. Girls who got pregnant weren't ostracized or criticized--the community accepted that it happens sometimes, and moved on. Birth control was something that every poor girl learned about pretty early, though, and nobody gave them a hard time about using it. I never knew a girl who'd had an abortion until we moved to Virginia when I was almost 16.
On the other hand, my better half Rhythm went to a private, parochial, fundie Baptist high school. Sex, abortion, sin, sin, sin--those kids heard about that stuff Every. Single. Day. The school showed them where all of the local abortion clinics were, because they sent kids out to protest and hold signs. They knew the administrative/bureaucratic procedures for getting an abortion without parental knowledge or consent, because the school taught them in order to help them write detailed letters of protest. Most of all, the school expelled ANY student who got pregnant outside of marriage, or who was caught using birth control pills without a doctor's note saying that it was only for medical reasons. Those kids had all of the knowledge for getting an abortion, and had a LOT of motivation to do so based on fear of expulsion/ostracization/etc. if they had a premarital pregnancy. A clandestine abortion solves the problem and frees the kid to go back to being a little fundie angel of "purity," promise ring and all.
Basically, the uber-hyper focus on "sexual sin" has a tendency to backfire--badly. Constant exposure to, information about, and focus on things like sex, opposition to birth control, and abortion would make it easier (and therefore more likely) for a religious school student to have an abortion than a "normal" student. For the vast majority of young people, social acceptance is a LOT more important than strict religious piety, and abortion keeps the social acceptance that they need intact. I suppose they tell themselves that God will forgive them if they pray and repent, and that makes it all better.
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