Have YOU ever cheated? (Spouse, significant other, etc.)

[Bicoastal]

Your anonymity is assured--unless, of course, you're dating one of the Mods.

[Deja Q]

1. Nope. I'm not that vile.

[Mike 03]

5. Outstanding way to begin a thread on such a sensitive topic.

That is really going to encourage people to participate.

[Bicoastal]

8. As the OP, I'm surprised.

I thought no one would click on the first option and everyone would click on the third.

[ejpoeta]

2. My husband and I have been together for like 12 years or so.....

we have two kids now. And early on we had a few problems. Two people in a studio apartment with no escape except the bathroom..... anyone would be ready to go crazy in that situation. but I have never even thought about cheating on bob. I trust him and he trusts me and I think we have respect for each other and have a friendship that anchors our relationship. I hope we have the ability to make it for the long term. He does drive me crazy sometimes though. And I drive him crazy. LOL!

[provis99]

3. No. Been cheated on by several girlfriends though.

:cry:

[TheCowsCameHome]

4. Never tempted in 45 years of marriage.

[billyoc]

6. What kind of a scumbag do you think I --

Okok, I do it all the time.

[L. Coyote]

7. I got cheated once.

When I was seven a four year old girl asked me to play peepers.
I discovered girls had nothing to peep at. I felt cheated! :rofl:

[panader0]

10. It's the nothingness that's so attractive.

[Hekate]

9. Never--not on a boyfriend, not on a husband. nt

[asdjrocky]

11. Yes I have.

And I have been cheated on. I try to not be a hypocrite about it, and I've never ran on a family values platform.

[Hell Hath No Fury]

12. The correct reposnse is --

#3, of course.

But I will 'fess up that I did cheat on a long distance boyfriend when I was 19. I was so guilt striken I never did it again, though I will admit that I have been tempted a few times. Seriously tempted. But chose to deal with what was going on in the existing relationship that would cause me to entertain the thought instead.

[LostInAnomie]

13. Nope. Women don't seem to have a problem cheating on me though.

[panader0]

14. Once

And she left her underwear under the bed on purpose. Busted big time.

[bigwillq]

15. Yes.

And I've been cheated on. Didn't feel bad when I was cheated on. And I didn't feel bad when I cheated. I was safe, we did our thing and it was over. Until there is a ring, or a commitment of marriage or the like, I believe one can do what they please in the bedroom. Once you choose to be with that person "forever" then the fun and games with other people is over.

[LWolf]

16. No.

I would no more betray a partner than I would abuse my children.

It's just not who I am.