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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 02:39 PM Original message |
In defense of monogamy. |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 02:41 PM Response to Original message |
1. ... |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 05:13 PM Response to Reply #1 |
27. What does "..." mean? |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 06:46 PM Response to Reply #27 |
45. Well, yes, like the anonymous "U" |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 10:51 PM Response to Reply #27 |
85. Generally, It Means the OP Is Pure Flamebait: an Intentionally Stupid Post Designed to Stir the Pot. |
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shadowknows69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 07:51 AM Response to Reply #85 |
104. I need to go edit about 100 posts of mine then |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 08:23 AM Response to Reply #104 |
105. Me too, Shadow. nt |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 09:05 AM Response to Reply #104 |
108. It doesn't mean anything specific in that usage really. |
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Kalyke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 08:25 AM Response to Reply #85 |
106. Except this one isn't. |
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MoonRiver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 02:43 PM Response to Original message |
2. Thanks. It does get creepy around here sometimes. |
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rd_kent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 05:14 PM Response to Reply #2 |
28. As far as YOU know....... |
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MoonRiver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 05:36 PM Response to Reply #28 |
32. Very funny. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:17 PM Response to Reply #32 |
56. he's jealous... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:17 PM Response to Reply #2 |
55. it gets soooo |
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MoonRiver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 07:26 AM Response to Reply #55 |
102. I think the bottom line is that some people just can't do commitments. |
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ElboRuum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 02:43 PM Response to Original message |
3. I detect personal investiture here. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 02:50 PM Response to Reply #3 |
8. Well yes. |
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ElboRuum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 03:12 PM Response to Reply #8 |
14. So this is more of a statement in the abstract? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 03:19 PM Response to Reply #14 |
17. Well it was inspired by comments in another thread. |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 02:45 PM Response to Original message |
4. Those poor, oppressed monogamists. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 02:47 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. lol... no... just refuting junk science. |
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PVnRT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 02:49 PM Response to Reply #4 |
7. Yes, that's exactly the point of the thread |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 04:58 PM Response to Reply #4 |
26. indeed. how will they ever live the oppression down? and not to mention the sheer stigma attached to |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 02:46 PM Response to Original message |
5. Word up girlfriend |
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ashling (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 03:07 PM Response to Reply #5 |
12. Ya know, that's a pretty good rule regarding Any kind of relationship |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 02:50 PM Response to Original message |
9. Recommend. For those who choose it, monogamy is great. |
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ieoeja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 02:53 PM Response to Original message |
10. "we are way past the desperate need for diversity in the gene pool" |
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Kalyke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 08:29 AM Response to Reply #10 |
107. Uhh.... maybe you need to learn some respect, as well. |
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ieoeja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 02:20 PM Response to Reply #107 |
122. Lighten up, Francis. |
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mamaleah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 02:53 PM Response to Original message |
11. Somehow I haven't felt oppressed or forced into monogamy at all in my marriage |
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ashling (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 03:10 PM Response to Original message |
13. For 29+ years my wife and I have been extremely married. . . |
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ElboRuum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 03:15 PM Response to Reply #13 |
15. Why am I picturing your wedding at a supercross stadium? |
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ashling (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 04:53 PM Response to Reply #15 |
25. Extreme Marriage |
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Prophet0621 (38 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 03:17 PM Response to Original message |
16. Monogamy needs to be defended? |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 06:23 PM Response to Reply #16 |
42. Which is why some won't confer for agreement and do it behind their backs... |
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Rhiannon12866 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 01:42 AM Response to Reply #16 |
93. I'm not sure if this is an ongoing discussion, either, but I'm guessing that it relates |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 03:37 PM Response to Original message |
18. I would posit that we are NEVER past the need... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 03:42 PM Response to Reply #18 |
20. Yes, we will always need it. |
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RaleighNCDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 03:42 PM Response to Original message |
19. As my ex-second wife put it, we are designed for serial monogamy. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 03:44 PM Response to Reply #19 |
21. It's simply a choice. It has nothing to do with kids. |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 06:20 PM Response to Reply #21 |
40. Quite the contrary; the expectation - as defined by "peers" - is multiple, haphazard, pairings, |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:25 PM Response to Reply #40 |
65. It's different for different people... |
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philly_bob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 03:48 PM Response to Original message |
22. Worst case: one partner claims monogamy but cheats. n/t |
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WildEyedLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 04:26 PM Response to Original message |
23. K&R |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 04:31 PM Response to Reply #23 |
24. Aw, thanks. |
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etherealtruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 05:21 PM Response to Original message |
29. Serial monogamy ... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 06:05 PM Response to Reply #29 |
36. As long as you let your partners know up front that that's your limit... |
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etherealtruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 06:13 PM Response to Reply #36 |
37. Sadly, I always believe .... |
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tavalon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 05:26 PM Response to Original message |
30. I was all ready to get fiesty on you |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 05:35 PM Response to Reply #30 |
31. Ah no... poly is not the same as philandering. |
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tavalon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 05:39 PM Response to Reply #31 |
33. Don't I know it! |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 05:54 PM Response to Original message |
34. choose? i wasn't aware people chose their orientation/desires/drives |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 06:00 PM Response to Reply #34 |
35. No, it has nothing to do with religion. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 06:41 PM Response to Reply #35 |
44. but if a poster said he was gay, or a child molester, then you WOULD buy |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:16 PM Response to Reply #44 |
54. Why are you bringing sexual orientation into this? |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:19 PM Response to Reply #54 |
57. it seems simple to you because you've never experienced a strong urge |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:23 PM Response to Reply #57 |
62. You're completely wrong. Might want to stop assuming things... |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 06:18 PM Response to Reply #34 |
39. I only need 6 words to prove the point: |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 06:51 PM Response to Reply #39 |
47. what do you look like and what do you do? heh heh |
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Caliman73 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 06:40 PM Response to Reply #34 |
43. Everything we do involves some kind of choice |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 06:17 PM Response to Original message |
38. +1,000,000,000,000,000 |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:22 PM Response to Reply #38 |
60. Heheheh... |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 06:22 PM Response to Original message |
41. I agree on all points. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 06:48 PM Response to Reply #41 |
46. speaks a person of low hormone level |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:00 PM Response to Reply #46 |
48. The stupid....it pains me. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:08 PM Response to Reply #48 |
50. you know |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:25 PM Response to Reply #50 |
63. From a veteran DUer like you, that means a lot. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:26 PM Response to Reply #63 |
66. lol |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:15 PM Response to Reply #48 |
52. it's the 21st century and you never heard of a fucking rubber? |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:43 PM Response to Reply #52 |
72. You are adorable! |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:20 PM Response to Reply #48 |
58. "Are you really relating orientation with being loyal to a partner?" |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:25 PM Response to Reply #58 |
64. i'm relating having a sex drive w. having a sex drive -- it is not a choice |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:27 PM Response to Reply #64 |
67. what fuckin blow your mind assumptions.... bah hahhaha. n/t |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:31 PM Response to Reply #64 |
69. lol... no... having a sex drive is not a choice... acting on it is. |
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Caliman73 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 02:05 AM Response to Reply #64 |
97. You do know that the sex drive and orientation are not the only things that are wired right? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 09:08 AM Response to Reply #97 |
109. ... |
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misanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 09:04 PM Response to Reply #48 |
77. "Low behavior?" So you believe you're somehow "more evolved" or "better" than those... |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 09:56 PM Response to Reply #77 |
81. No. |
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misanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 01:05 AM Response to Reply #81 |
92. Have fun on your superiority high horse... |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 01:53 AM Response to Reply #92 |
94. Really? |
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misanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 09:02 PM Response to Reply #46 |
76. "Higher" is indicative of a sort of value judgement... |
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Caliman73 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 02:22 AM Response to Reply #76 |
99. Should your expanding circle include sex between an adult and a child then? |
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smalll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 11:05 PM Response to Reply #46 |
88. Those big-sticking players who have never known betrayal, rejection and abandonment should stop |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:05 PM Response to Original message |
49. who says evolution choses to have more than one mate. i can challenge that |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:15 PM Response to Reply #49 |
53. You could easily argue that an alpha male could handle a harem. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:21 PM Response to Reply #53 |
59. you could also argue |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:28 PM Response to Reply #59 |
68. No, it's based on evidence. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:33 PM Response to Reply #68 |
70. The key word there is "once". |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:50 PM Response to Reply #70 |
74. Oh for sure... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 09:23 PM Response to Reply #74 |
78. we dont know |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 09:43 PM Response to Reply #78 |
79. Sure we do. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 09:46 PM Response to Reply #79 |
80. of course |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 10:48 PM Response to Reply #80 |
84. Where did we get common sense from? |
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smalll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 11:09 PM Response to Reply #53 |
89. Yeah, that works biologically -- but it results in a fucked-up society |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 09:11 AM Response to Reply #49 |
110. No, they come to those hypotheses - *not* assumptions - by observing physical evidence. |
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fishnfla (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:12 PM Response to Original message |
51. monogamous by choice? yes |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:23 PM Response to Reply #51 |
61. bless the english hedge sparrow then! |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:35 PM Response to Reply #51 |
71. Heh, many species are... |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:48 PM Response to Original message |
73. What I give up... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 08:54 PM Response to Reply #73 |
75. :) |
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ourbluenation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 09:58 PM Response to Original message |
82. going on 24 years. anyone looks down on me for that I'll shove a pencil up their nose... |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 09:13 AM Response to Reply #82 |
112. LOL |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 10:47 PM Response to Original message |
83. Where Have You Seen This Vast Coalition of People Attempting to Destroy Monogamy? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 09:12 AM Response to Reply #83 |
111. Post 14. And it's hardly rare. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
86. "The truth is that monogamy is a choice." Does that mean it's not a right? |
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smalll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 11:03 PM Response to Original message |
87. K and R --- |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 09:15 AM Response to Reply #87 |
113. Yes, I agree with you about how laughable that claim is. |
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Naturyl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 11:20 PM Response to Original message |
90. Rec'd. For too long on the left.... |
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GaYellowDawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 11:26 PM Response to Original message |
91. What I really hate is nonogamy. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 09:20 AM Response to Reply #91 |
114. Why do people love making assumptions? No, I don't have a partner. |
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Prism (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 01:54 AM Response to Original message |
95. Interesting bits of puritanism in this thread. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 09:22 AM Response to Reply #95 |
115. TL/DR past the first few lines. |
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Rhiannon12866 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 01:56 AM Response to Original message |
96. I think that it requires maturity. When you make a promise, you should keep your word. |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 02:09 AM Response to Original message |
98. Thanks redqueen. 18 years of monogamy here and still WAY in love. |
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armyowalgreens (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 02:28 AM Response to Original message |
100. I think the point should be that people should do whatever floats their boat. |
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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 02:46 AM Response to Original message |
101. Well, it could be said that most people aren't really wired that way |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 09:24 AM Response to Reply #101 |
116. See post 97. (nt) |
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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 11:39 AM Response to Reply #116 |
117. I'm not sure what this has to do with what I said... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 11:58 AM Response to Reply #117 |
118. "biological imperatives still push people in that direction" |
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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 04:22 PM Response to Reply #118 |
124. Upper class? You mean nobility? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 04:28 PM Response to Reply #124 |
125. Noblewomen didn't screw around? |
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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 05:26 PM Response to Reply #125 |
129. I'm sure it happened... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 06:34 PM Response to Reply #124 |
130. from what i understand |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-24-09 12:08 PM Response to Reply #130 |
133. They screwed around as much as they pleased. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-24-09 12:09 PM Response to Reply #133 |
134. i am sure. |
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Unvanguard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 07:47 AM Response to Original message |
103. Oh, certainly it shouldn't be opposed on "survival of the species" grounds. |
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Evoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 01:19 PM Response to Original message |
119. "Monogamy would be a lot easier if there weren't so many hot chicks around" |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 04:29 PM Response to Reply #119 |
126. Yeah but the point is, whatever the reason for the choice... it's a choice. |
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Prophet 451 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 01:41 PM Response to Original message |
120. "trying to normalize philandering" |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 04:30 PM Response to Reply #120 |
127. I've thought about it. |
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Prophet 451 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-24-09 11:34 AM Response to Reply #127 |
131. So you're not actually defending monogamy |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-24-09 12:07 PM Response to Reply #131 |
132. No... see post 17. |
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walldude (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 01:44 PM Response to Original message |
121. It works for me... |
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EndersDame (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 02:29 PM Response to Original message |
123. I like monogamy because it is uncomplicated |
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GliderGuider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-23-09 04:42 PM Response to Original message |
128. To each their own, but honesty is always the best policy |
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