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Take a look at our prisons, and tell me, are they full of "Prop 8 second class citizens"....or BLACK MEN? Take a look at the unemployment rolls--are they disproportionately populated by "Prop 8 second class citizens"....or BLACK MEN?
There's something woefully amiss in our society when it comes to race. STILL. Skip Gates proved that just the other week.
And while you focus on Prop 8 haters on the west coast, you ignore progress on the East Coast (and elsewhere). Equality has been law of the land in MA for some time (and nobody notices, which is as it should be). And we're not the only state. See, there are STATES where a gay man (or woman) can go and be treated like everyone else--at least, as far as the laws of the state go.
Is there a state in the USA where a black man can go and EXPECT, without any question, without any debate, without any worry, without any concern, to be treated like your Average White Man? The answer is NO. There isn't. STILL. It is now harder for the racist to get away with the shit they used to pull back in the day, but the black man is always looking over his shoulder. ALWAYS. It's a fact of life, still. And the black woman has to deal with the same shit and then some.
What you are, in essence, saying, is that the gay equality fight deserves "more" attention that the fight for racial equality, which has been going on--in the public square, mind you--since well before 1865, when "slaves" became "citizens."
The fight for racial equality also affects every single aspect of American life, from buying a car or a house, to getting a job, a university placement, or a prison sentence. Are people denied credit for being gay? "Quota'd" at colleges and universities? More likely to be sentenced to jail time? Less likely to become employed? More likely to be arrested for driving while black, "loitering," or things of that nature? Followed around the department store?
If that's your perspective, that it's the "turn" for gay equality, well, you're certainly entitled to it. I think, however, as relative newcomers to the organized efforts of the Equality fight (compared to blacks, who have been in the game for well over a hundred years, or women--who have been asking for an ERA for only, what--eighty six years?) there are some who might say you have done far better than some without paying half as many dues--and you continue on a positive trajectory. Equality IS the law of the land in many states....and like I said, I don't know a state in the union where a black man can drive a hundred thousand dollar car through a tony neighborhood without having that 'idea' in the back of his head that a cop could pull him over for driving a "too nice" car, and suspecting that he stole it.
It would be nice if America could walk and chew gum at the same time, but they do tend to focus on some issues, like those surrounding matters of equality, in sequential order.
While it's nice that Skinner issues congratulatory messages, that are certainly appreciated, I'm sure, it's wrong, in my opinion, to look to him for leadership in that way, and expect his "message from on high" to be the arbiter of what issues matter and which ones don't. He's a guy who owns a website we use. He's not the Pope. We didn't elect him to anything. I'm pretty sure I don't march in lockstep with every view he has, or he with me. What I do, though, is read his rules for his website, that he owns, and do my best to follow them if I want to play in his playground.
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