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It's very hard to overcome conditioning.
I often envision a group of people talking as sitting around a fire, the fire being the subject, each person looking at the fire from their unique point of view. Each person sees a different view of that fire. And the group of people have a choice, to argue about what they see, opposed to what others see, or they can share. If they choose to share their points of view, the fire can gain dimension like a hologram, everyone can see what everyone else sees.
And then, when my point of view is uncomfortable or leading nowhere, I know that I can get up from that place around the fire, and sit in a more comfortable position. I know I have the ability to change my point of view, even if it just for a moment in order to imagine what another person is seeing- for greater understanding and insight. I do not compromise my identity in doing so, just the way I perceive.
What I see is a lot of people who are overly invested in their place around the fire, they have been conditioned not to move, that it is weak to do so. But if this country needs anything right now, it needs more flexibility, not rigidity. Too much rigidity eventually cracks and breaks. And this is what has happened to a lot of people. their rigid points of view have broken their ability to communicate. We cannot force someone to change their point of view, I think all we can do is work around them, not allowing their polarity to cause us to become rigid too. Our strength is in our flexibility, our abilities to listen and to cooperate. We can work together.
Peace, and have a good Labor Day, Windoe
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