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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 08:42 AM Original message |
A race/gender question that I really hope doesn't turn into a war... |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 08:46 AM Response to Original message |
1. Women are cast aside at 40. The male movie stars of the 30s/40s got younger co-stars in the 50s and |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 08:49 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. i say throw away. i see women having as big if not bigger midlife than men |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 08:50 AM Response to Reply #2 |
4. Same here. I'm Hell on wheels now. But not in popular culture. nt |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 08:53 AM Response to Reply #2 |
8. True.. the secret is coming to terms with what is..and not beating ourselves up over what |
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Triana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 12:49 PM Response to Reply #2 |
34. women: about the time society tosses them, is when they're at their best really... |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 08:50 AM Response to Reply #1 |
3. Our lizard-brain parts are geared to look for the fertile-young-hot (women) |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 08:52 AM Response to Reply #3 |
6. that is so full of shit..... an illusion told by men over and over ad nauseoun |
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Silent3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 09:05 AM Response to Reply #6 |
14. What part of what you replied to is full of shit? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 09:09 AM Response to Reply #14 |
15. it is ignoring fact to spout young hot girls want old, an young men want young hot,... |
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Silent3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 10:00 AM Response to Reply #15 |
20. Behavior is about tendencies and degrees, not absolutes... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 10:24 AM Response to Reply #20 |
22. statistically by far people marry same age range. you made my point. the unusual is a large age |
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Silent3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 10:57 AM Response to Reply #22 |
24. Marriage is different from fucking... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 11:02 AM Response to Reply #24 |
25. and fucking on mate hits 15% of female and 20% male. no |
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Silent3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 11:19 AM Response to Reply #25 |
26. The argument isn't about how much can change... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 11:34 AM Response to Reply #26 |
27. i understand was on age difference, and as i said, agreeing, no info, so no |
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Silent3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 12:26 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. It's not like I have a pile of studies I can point to off the top... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 12:33 PM Response to Reply #29 |
30. why is it bothersome? it has become a fad story to be told that allows male to continue dominance |
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Silent3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 12:50 PM Response to Reply #30 |
35. How does it "allow male dominance to continue"? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 12:54 PM Response to Reply #35 |
37. firstly.... there is not anything in all that you say, that says much of anything |
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Silent3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 01:38 PM Response to Reply #37 |
42. Biologically speaking, there's more reason for men... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 02:00 PM Response to Reply #42 |
44. and it is a cultural reason why the 20 yr old woman goes for the older male |
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Silent3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 02:28 PM Response to Reply #44 |
46. So the issue is that you consider "security" a purely cultural thing. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 02:39 PM Response to Reply #46 |
48. it certainly is pretty damn important a female "weight" male age in preg. |
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Silent3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 02:56 PM Response to Reply #48 |
51. "i can also make my story as plausible as yours" |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 03:04 PM Response to Reply #51 |
53. by DEGREES? lol,. now your argument is by degree. |
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Silent3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 03:38 PM Response to Reply #53 |
56. My argument has been "by degree" from the start... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 03:52 PM Response to Reply #56 |
59. so the old 18 - 25 was to old for man and needed the "hot" (and to argue any of them hot |
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Silent3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 04:10 PM Response to Reply #59 |
63. I'll try to pick through the broken sentence structure there... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 04:13 PM Response to Reply #63 |
64. talking from prehistoric driving us, life span 18-25, the "old" men (what 25) |
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Silent3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 04:36 PM Response to Reply #64 |
67. Can you try using something resembling English grammar... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 02:57 PM Response to Reply #46 |
52. btw... if it has nothing to do with desire to have children, kinda sorta switched direction |
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Silent3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 03:16 PM Response to Reply #52 |
54. The whole point is that we have behavioral mechanisms that separate... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 03:36 PM Response to Reply #54 |
55. because you ignore a part of the arguemnt, promote specifics arguments |
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Silent3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 03:44 PM Response to Reply #55 |
57. Which arguments have I ignored? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 03:48 PM Response to Reply #57 |
58. you saying women in 30's "near lack" of fertility? how absurd. |
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Silent3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 03:58 PM Response to Reply #58 |
61. You pick a specific age, 30... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 04:07 PM Response to Reply #61 |
62. all of thirties hardly a specific age. so tell me, when is this near impossible fertilization |
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Silent3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 04:24 PM Response to Reply #62 |
65. If I get a chance to find some hard stats... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 04:32 PM Response to Reply #65 |
66. *sigh* again all the way around and around again. hell ya now that you are getting old you |
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Silent3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 05:59 PM Response to Reply #66 |
70. What matters is the likelihood that such an attraction is reciprocated. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 06:08 PM Response to Reply #70 |
71. the general tendencies is to mate same age, and young with young. |
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Silent3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 06:51 PM Response to Reply #71 |
72. The general tendency is for males to be at least a year or two older than females. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 07:18 PM Response to Reply #72 |
74. big fuckin deal. a year or two or five means squat at this age. geeesh. |
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Silent3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 11:00 PM Response to Reply #74 |
77. Whether you think "a year or two or five" means "squat" or not... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 11:46 PM Response to Reply #77 |
78. except the old man cant defend and protect the young female so she says wtf... i will |
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Silent3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-15-09 04:17 AM Response to Reply #78 |
80. Are you capable of arguing subtleties? |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-15-09 02:26 PM Response to Reply #42 |
89. Biologically speaking, one of the reasons why younger females might be attracted to older males... |
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la_chupa (357 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 01:18 PM Response to Reply #15 |
40. depends on how much $$ is involved |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 01:35 PM Response to Reply #40 |
41. even at $ has nothing to do with attractive. but i get the humor. nt |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-15-09 10:33 AM Response to Reply #6 |
85. Ummm, Actually The Post Was Pretty Much Spot On And Is Established Fact. |
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Sinti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 08:58 AM Response to Reply #3 |
11. It's not nature, that's nurture |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 09:01 AM Response to Reply #11 |
13. conditioning. old women like young men too, just not stupid or illusional enough |
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Sinti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 09:11 AM Response to Reply #13 |
16. Yes, and part of that I believe is nature |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 09:29 AM Response to Reply #16 |
19. no mre so than if an older woman wanted to preg, would want young. male peaks at 19 |
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AlienGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 12:44 PM Response to Reply #3 |
32. Why would someone break that pattern? What motivates a person to act unlike a mammal? |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 12:52 PM Response to Reply #3 |
36. No, that's social conditioning |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 02:37 PM Response to Reply #3 |
47. IF men were looking for fertile women, it would be ones with big hips and fat since they would |
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theHandpuppet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-15-09 05:11 AM Response to Reply #47 |
81. Finally -- someone needed to make this point |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-15-09 01:31 PM Response to Reply #81 |
87. That is because I am on everyone's ignore list, except you. |
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notadmblnd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 04:47 PM Response to Reply #3 |
68. I'm 50 years old and you would not believe the number of young men that chase me |
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Thothmes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 07:12 PM Response to Reply #3 |
73. Wrong, it is our mammal-brain parts |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 07:20 PM Response to Reply #73 |
75. cause those cavechicks were so hot. another, you are so full of shit. nt |
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jonnyblitz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 09:26 AM Response to Reply #1 |
18. gay guys are cast aside at 35 years old, the common cut off |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 12:48 PM Response to Reply #1 |
33. I don't think that's true anymore |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 08:51 AM Response to Original message |
5. I don't think it's just an American thing. nt |
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Vinnie From Indy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 08:52 AM Response to Original message |
7. Them's fightin' words! |
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valerief (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 08:54 AM Response to Original message |
9. Women suck everywhere, because men have stronger upper torsos and beat us. nt |
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winyanstaz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 01:09 PM Response to Reply #9 |
39. only if the woman lets them...they gotta sleep sometime you know. |
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valerief (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 03:55 PM Response to Reply #39 |
60. The Burning Bed comes to mind. And I don't mean the hot sex kind of bed. nt |
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BuyingThyme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 08:54 AM Response to Original message |
10. A fifty-year-old woman generally gets much more sympathy than a fifty-year-old man. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 09:00 AM Response to Reply #10 |
12. old men are told to buck up. man up. but then they have been told that all their lives |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 09:24 AM Response to Reply #10 |
17. Yeah. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 10:13 AM Response to Original message |
21. American society doesn't place much value on maturity |
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Mari333 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 10:30 AM Response to Original message |
23. here come the 'its human male nature' crowd piffle. anyway...LOVE YOURSELF |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-15-09 10:37 AM Response to Reply #23 |
86. Huge Applaud For Your Post! |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 11:35 AM Response to Original message |
28. Ridiculous Theory. |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-15-09 10:09 AM Response to Reply #28 |
82. No, it's not nonsense. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-15-09 10:27 AM Response to Reply #82 |
83. It's Total Nonsense. |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-15-09 02:09 PM Response to Reply #83 |
88. Thank you for explaining my own motives to me. |
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lunamagica (430 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 12:34 PM Response to Original message |
31. I grew up in Central America. |
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winyanstaz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 01:07 PM Response to Original message |
38. In the majority of Native American tribes.... |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 01:55 PM Response to Original message |
43. I'll tell you what, Girlfriend |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 02:02 PM Response to Reply #43 |
45. solving sexism would solve many of "mankind's" problems... tis true. nt |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 02:39 PM Response to Original message |
49. Many women complain about turning invisible when they turn older |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 02:46 PM Response to Original message |
50. Women without children are useless to society |
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winyanstaz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 09:56 PM Response to Reply #50 |
76. They are not useless to society..they are useless as sex objects |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-15-09 10:30 AM Response to Reply #50 |
84. What A Crock LOL |
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Thickasabrick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-14-09 04:54 PM Response to Original message |
69. Years ago, someone dressed up as an older woman to see what |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-15-09 04:13 AM Response to Reply #69 |
79. I'm able to shave 25 years off my perceived age... |
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