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mudesi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:22 PM Original message |
Verbal abuse is at least as harmful as physical abuse |
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Colobo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:22 PM Response to Original message |
1. My mom has been verbally abused by my father for 26 years |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:27 PM Response to Original message |
2. I imagine this is to do with the Baldwin business. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:30 PM Response to Reply #2 |
5. sounds like to me he was worried sick and freaked out |
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JNelson6563 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:08 PM Response to Reply #5 |
95. Another thing to keep in mind |
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butterfly77 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:36 PM Response to Reply #5 |
112. I agree... |
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spoony (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:55 PM Response to Reply #5 |
127. Yeah that's why he kept mentioning "me me me" |
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bouwob1 (93 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:31 PM Response to Reply #2 |
7. to many |
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Divernan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:41 PM Response to Reply #2 |
17. Here's what I posted in an earlier thread today. |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:30 PM Response to Reply #17 |
59. I couldn't get your link to work but found another that I think is the same. |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:39 PM Response to Reply #17 |
72. "This was a one time thing - not repeated verbal abuse. " |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:27 PM Response to Original message |
3. oh for the love of! |
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mudesi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:29 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. Ignorance |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:34 PM Response to Reply #4 |
11. i'm not the one who is ignorant my friend |
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hippiechick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:39 PM Response to Reply #11 |
14. ... misinformed, then, perhaps. |
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mudesi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:39 PM Response to Reply #11 |
15. Just because you say so doesn't make you right |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:43 PM Response to Reply #15 |
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Pugee (295 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:22 PM Response to Reply #18 |
46. You are comparing apples and oranges |
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Amelie (138 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 04:15 PM Response to Reply #18 |
135. That dad probably called his kid "pig" at some point before |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 04:30 PM Response to Reply #18 |
143. I've known kids who were so traumatized by the verbal abuse |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:02 PM Response to Reply #15 |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:17 PM Response to Reply #35 |
38. You keep saying that |
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mudesi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:27 PM Response to Reply #38 |
50. Who said anything about prevalence? |
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ChairmanAgnostic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 05:01 PM Response to Reply #35 |
151. and you did a yeoman's job, Lynyrd. |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:40 PM Response to Reply #11 |
16. It's a lost fight. The i-wanna-be-a-victim-mob is VERY large, numerically... |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:44 PM Response to Reply #16 |
20. obviously so, a child in my community was KILLED by his dad yesterday |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:56 PM Response to Reply #20 |
83. You do realize that all physical abuse |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:59 PM Response to Reply #83 |
88. I so agree with this |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:51 PM Response to Reply #11 |
81. You Have No Idea |
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electron_blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:18 PM Response to Reply #11 |
104. compare physical and verbal abuse, not murder and verbal abuse |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 06:21 PM Response to Reply #11 |
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LibertyorDeath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:54 PM Response to Reply #4 |
24. This is not an either or thing |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:36 PM Response to Reply #24 |
65. Tell that to the OP. |
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mudesi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:41 PM Response to Reply #65 |
75. Here |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:45 PM Response to Reply #75 |
77. No one denies that some people *think* being yelled at is just as bad as being raped... |
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mudesi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:47 PM Response to Reply #77 |
78. 'Some people'? |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:50 PM Response to Reply #78 |
79. Show me a link that says the "vast majority" of *scientists* think that... |
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mudesi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:56 PM Response to Reply #79 |
84. Take a psychology course (nm) |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:17 PM Response to Reply #84 |
102. nice try. nt |
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mudesi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:23 PM Response to Reply #102 |
107. It's your choice to be willfully ignorant |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:37 PM Response to Reply #107 |
114. I should clarify. |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 04:59 PM Response to Reply #114 |
150. aside from the baldwin drama |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-21-07 02:42 PM Response to Reply #150 |
188. I completely agree with you that children should be treated well. |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:58 PM Response to Reply #78 |
86. bwah! |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:59 PM Response to Reply #77 |
87. What ignorance. You think verbal abuse is being yelled at. You just negated your credibility. |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:07 PM Response to Reply #87 |
94. Dammit. Why didn't somebody tell me I had credibility? |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-21-07 02:44 PM Response to Reply #94 |
189. lol. nt |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:30 PM Response to Reply #3 |
6. It comes from the everybody-wants-to-be-a-victim thing.... |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:34 PM Response to Reply #6 |
12. i'm afraid i agree, blooinbloo EOM |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:21 PM Response to Reply #12 |
42. Oh baloney, nobody wants to be a victim of anything, |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:25 PM Response to Reply #6 |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:33 PM Response to Reply #49 |
62. "Mr know-it-all" is verbal abuse |
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bling bling (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:38 PM Response to Reply #62 |
71. Mr. know-it-all shows up in 75% of all threads going off on people. |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:40 PM Response to Reply #71 |
74. No one can make you abuse |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:43 PM Response to Reply #74 |
76. Deleted sub-thread |
BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:35 PM Response to Reply #49 |
63. ACK! I've been abused! Abuser! ABUSER! |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:40 PM Response to Reply #63 |
115. Hey, I hear you can get SSI for that! nt |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:11 PM Response to Reply #6 |
99. Man, I Hate to Burst Your Bubble |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 04:03 PM Response to Reply #6 |
131. acknowledging one thing does not diminish another |
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in_cog_ni_to (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:32 PM Response to Reply #3 |
9. You're wrong. |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:16 PM Response to Reply #9 |
101. Well, there are a couple of issues here. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:32 PM Response to Reply #3 |
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bling bling (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:23 PM Response to Reply #3 |
47. Your response is further proof that this is an important discussion. |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:28 PM Response to Reply #3 |
51. self delete |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:10 PM Response to Reply #3 |
98. Comparing verbal abuse's effect to being shot in the face, is like saying that rape is not so bad... |
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Big Blue Marble (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:54 PM Response to Reply #3 |
125. Actually at least in my case, you are very wrong! |
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ends_dont_justify (367 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 06:18 PM Response to Reply #3 |
165. So we're out of our mind? Not only do you support verbal abuse, you manipulate us with it |
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meldroc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:31 PM Response to Original message |
8. Verbal abuse is horrible. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:38 PM Response to Reply #8 |
13. how dare you? |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:47 PM Response to Reply #13 |
22. You're ignorance |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:58 PM Response to Reply #22 |
25. Well - that's obviously as bad as being made to stand on heat registers until the skin blisters off! |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:06 PM Response to Reply #25 |
30. Did that happen to you? |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:08 PM Response to Reply #30 |
33. Not allowed to say who it happened to - sorry. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:21 PM Response to Reply #33 |
43. I'm truly sorry that happened to you |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:28 PM Response to Reply #43 |
54. Now you're just making shit up - lol! |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:30 PM Response to Reply #54 |
58. If that comforts you to think that |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:32 PM Original message |
I wasn't *un*comfortable before... but... okaaay.... Does it help to know that I was a counselor... |
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spoony (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:58 PM Response to Reply #25 |
128. And what are the long term damages from all abuse? Psychological damage. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:00 PM Response to Reply #22 |
26. sorry, even LOTS of name-calling is not as bad as being shot dead |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:13 PM Response to Reply #26 |
34. What's with the competition? |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:20 PM Response to Reply #34 |
41. the original poster started the competition |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:28 PM Response to Reply #41 |
52. I don't think of it |
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mudesi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:29 PM Response to Reply #41 |
56. Stating what the majority of the psychiatric community concludes.... |
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endarkenment (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:58 PM Response to Reply #56 |
85. Do you have evidence that the majority |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:25 PM Response to Reply #34 |
48. The level of ignorance is amazing, no? |
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endarkenment (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:28 PM Response to Reply #34 |
53. No one is competing here? |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 04:25 PM Response to Reply #26 |
138. verbal abuse may lead to suicide |
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Morereason (496 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 10:45 PM Response to Reply #26 |
178. There is something seriously wrong with your comparison and attitude friend |
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countryjake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:07 PM Response to Reply #13 |
32. Is this a "degree of abuse" contest? |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:21 PM Response to Reply #32 |
44. yes, the OP made it a contest w. his claim that verbal abuse was "at least as bad" as physical abuse |
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mudesi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:36 PM Response to Reply #44 |
64. It is not a 'claim' |
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countryjake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:38 PM Response to Reply #44 |
69. I'm referring to your "How dare you?" response to meldroc... |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:30 PM Response to Reply #32 |
57. Yes - "verbal abuse" people claim it's just as bad as being beaten, raped, what-have-you... |
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countryjake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:09 PM Response to Reply #57 |
96. What "verbal abuse" people? |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:19 PM Response to Reply #57 |
105. Two points about verbal abuse... |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:42 PM Response to Reply #105 |
118. Wow, really good post. |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:53 PM Response to Reply #105 |
123. The OP started the not-a-contest. |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:27 PM Response to Reply #13 |
109. You need to stop using the "shot dead" example. So few cases of physical abuse end that way. |
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Progressive_In_NC (448 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:28 PM Response to Reply #13 |
110. It's a fine line in your argument there |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:37 PM Response to Reply #110 |
113. You sound like me. |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:53 PM Response to Reply #13 |
122. Namecalling itself is probably not as damaging as |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 04:28 PM Response to Reply #122 |
140. systematic and continuous abuse that happens to be verbal |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 06:35 PM Response to Reply #140 |
168. If you read my other posts, |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 05:31 PM Response to Reply #122 |
154. "Name-calling" was strictly verboten |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 08:27 PM Response to Reply #154 |
169. "Subtle" psychic violence |
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InvisibleTouch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:43 PM Response to Original message |
19. Agreed... |
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LibertyorDeath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:44 PM Response to Original message |
21. My Dad did this to me...... I'm still not sure why |
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laylah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 01:52 PM Response to Reply #21 |
23. .. |
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LibertyorDeath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:06 PM Response to Reply #23 |
29. Thanks Jenn. You can't choose your parents but you can |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:37 PM Response to Reply #21 |
67. If the punches hadn't come |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:02 PM Response to Original message |
27. It's isn't just CHILDREN! Verbal abuse is harmful to all! |
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Individualist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:14 PM Response to Reply #27 |
36. You're right |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:16 PM Response to Reply #36 |
37. I'm sorry you went through that. |
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Individualist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:22 PM Response to Reply #37 |
45. Thank you |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:37 PM Response to Reply #45 |
68. Having come out of an emotionally abusive and neglectful home, |
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Individualist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:53 PM Response to Reply #68 |
82. I'm so sorry |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:04 PM Response to Reply #82 |
92. Thank you for understanding and caring. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:20 PM Response to Reply #36 |
40. ... |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:19 PM Response to Reply #27 |
39. Yep, see my post above |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:38 PM Response to Reply #39 |
70. . |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:07 PM Response to Original message |
31. Yes it can break your health. |
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Nutmegger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:29 PM Response to Original message |
55. I can't believe what I'm seeing here. |
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spoony (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 04:02 PM Response to Reply #55 |
130. Me neither. |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:30 PM Response to Original message |
60. Psychology 101 |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:36 PM Response to Reply #60 |
66. CONSTANTLY belittling? Do we KNOW that is what the guy did? Hell, he was noncustodial. |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:01 PM Response to Reply #66 |
89. Didn't know |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 10:42 PM Response to Reply #89 |
176. Self examination is great. Diagnosing someone from a single out-of-context phone message |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 05:41 PM Response to Reply #66 |
156. it was certainly inappropriate |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 10:45 PM Response to Reply #156 |
177. Of course it was inappropriate, but unless the KID is a DU member and can |
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Morereason (496 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 10:55 PM Response to Reply #177 |
180. Nobody here is really discussing specifically the Baldwin thing |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 11:01 PM Response to Reply #180 |
181. Well, the originator of the thread brought the guy up |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:32 PM Response to Original message |
61. K&R...n/t |
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mudesi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:39 PM Response to Original message |
73. MORE INFORMATION HERE |
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Anwen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 02:51 PM Response to Original message |
80. I agree with you completely. |
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ananda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:02 PM Response to Original message |
90. Totally agree. |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:02 PM Response to Original message |
91. The Denial In This Thread Is Amazing |
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Le Taz Hot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:09 PM Response to Reply #91 |
97. The calouse, ignorant, |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:12 PM Response to Reply #97 |
100. Me too |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:51 PM Response to Reply #100 |
121. And at the risk of repeating myself from above, me three. |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 04:41 PM Response to Reply #100 |
148. hi madspirit... |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:17 PM Response to Reply #97 |
103. Sorry, Taz |
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Dora (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 04:55 PM Response to Reply #91 |
149. Thank you, Crisco, for the sensibility of your post. n/t |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 09:11 PM Response to Reply #149 |
173. I'm Still Waiting For An Answer to My Question |
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countryjake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 09:59 PM Response to Reply #173 |
175. Doubt you'll get one... |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-21-07 07:24 AM Response to Reply #175 |
185. No, That's Okay |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:06 PM Response to Original message |
93. "there is something wrong with them, because they are verbally abusing their own children" |
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undergroundpanther (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:22 PM Response to Original message |
106. This is true |
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HughMoran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:23 PM Response to Original message |
108. You are absolutely correct! |
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Ariana Celeste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:35 PM Response to Original message |
111. You're right. |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:40 PM Response to Original message |
116. I agree completely and I've seen people who have suffered from this |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:54 PM Response to Reply #116 |
124. Hmm I didn't notice the "at least as bad as" part of what you said |
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electron_blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:40 PM Response to Original message |
117. I agree. I used to think the opposite, until I read volumes of studies, and managed to leave an |
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meldroc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:46 PM Response to Original message |
119. Now this is turning into a who can abuse the most thread. |
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Kerrytravelers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:48 PM Response to Original message |
120. While I agree with the concept, I'm not sure the Baldwin even is a good example. |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 03:55 PM Response to Original message |
126. You know, verbal abuse may be hurtful, but |
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spoony (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 04:05 PM Response to Reply #126 |
132. "The extent of the hysteria over words spoken in anger is new" |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 04:13 PM Response to Reply #132 |
134. No, I'm talking about something very specific. |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 04:18 PM Response to Reply #134 |
136. Do you think people weren't crippled by words before the 1980s? |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 06:05 PM Response to Reply #136 |
160. No, if you look at my other posts, |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 06:14 PM Response to Reply #160 |
163. i finally understand your argument |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 08:49 PM Response to Reply #163 |
172. I suspect we agree on more than you think. |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 04:27 PM Response to Reply #134 |
139. My mother grew up in a verbally abusive household. |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 04:30 PM Response to Reply #134 |
144. that's not what i'd call verbal abuse...no "anger" necessary |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 05:47 PM Response to Reply #144 |
158. The problem is that many people would. |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 06:01 PM Response to Reply #158 |
159. i think it's exactly opposite |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 06:30 PM Response to Reply #159 |
167. The biggest problem in mental health care today |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 04:23 PM Response to Reply #126 |
137. No offense, but... |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 04:33 PM Response to Reply #137 |
145. the clue is the language this poster uses |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-21-07 12:16 PM Response to Reply #137 |
187. Wow, some venom there. |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 08:40 PM Response to Reply #126 |
171. No Media Training Is Needed |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 04:01 PM Response to Original message |
129. Thanks for posting this. |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 04:11 PM Response to Reply #129 |
133. Nice rant |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 04:28 PM Response to Reply #133 |
141. Sadly, I think the attention it will get |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 04:35 PM Response to Reply #141 |
146. Yeah, well |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 04:38 PM Response to Reply #146 |
147. Thanks! |
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Dora (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 04:29 PM Response to Reply #129 |
142. Good post. Thanks for sharing. n/t |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 05:16 PM Response to Reply #129 |
153. makes you wonder about the kind of viciousness displayed here |
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etherealtruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 06:09 PM Response to Reply #153 |
162. My first thought about some of the responses ... |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 09:19 PM Response to Reply #153 |
174. I Know Exactly What You're Saying |
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Cabcere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 05:42 PM Response to Reply #129 |
157. Wonderful post, distantearlywarning. |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 06:06 PM Response to Reply #157 |
161. "Stirring shit up" |
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Cabcere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 06:16 PM Response to Reply #161 |
164. Yeah... |
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etherealtruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 05:08 PM Response to Original message |
152. Thank you for this post .... |
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Donald Ian Rankin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 05:37 PM Response to Original message |
155. That's a meaningless claim. |
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kskiska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 08:34 PM Response to Original message |
170. John Lennon told his son Julian |
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flying_monkeys (519 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 10:51 PM Response to Original message |
179. I think you'd get farther citing "emotional" abuse over "verbal"... |
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ends_dont_justify (367 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 11:29 PM Response to Reply #179 |
184. It's all a different category, IMO |
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Dinger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 11:22 PM Response to Original message |
182. I Have Seen The Absolutely Devastating Effects Of Verbal Abuse Firsthand K & R |
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Dinger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-20-07 11:27 PM Response to Original message |
183. If A Child . . . |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-21-07 07:40 AM Response to Original message |
186. verbal abuse can be MUCH worse than physical abuse. |
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TNMOM (735 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-21-07 05:00 PM Response to Original message |
190. good thread. tx for posting |
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