from u of mich commencement speech 2006
http://www.umich.edu/news/index.html?Vid/ca_sprcom06snip:
And then, when I was about 20, a revolution hit my country and overnight we were strangers in our own homeland. We lost everything...home, possessions and people. We watched in horror as our friends and family members were arrested, jailed, tortured and some even executed. My world and my worldview turned upside down.
But I quickly decided to turn loss and failure into my driving force. And I would say, never be afraid of failure or loss. Use it.
Nearly 30 years ago, like so many refugees, I came here. to America. where I had heard and I had read that if you have a dream, if you have a goal, if you work hard, you can make your way in this world.
And I loved every hard-won step along the way. I loved being at the University of Rhode Island in the United States, where I learned so much about American values and culture. I got only slightly miffed, only slightly upset, when, to the tune of "Barbara Ann," fellow students would sing "Bomb, bomb, bomb, bomb, bomb Iran." Let's hope that that song doesn't become popular here again.