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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-22-07 11:17 PM Original message |
Gays and straights! Could this difficult and heart-rending situation have been prevented? |
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msongs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-22-07 11:27 PM Response to Original message |
1. it seems she is better off without him |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-22-07 11:29 PM Response to Original message |
2. Could it have been prevented? Easily I think |
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Colobo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-22-07 11:30 PM Response to Original message |
3. McGreevey lied to himself, to his wife and to his family |
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Lex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-22-07 11:35 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. Sometimes I think it is very hard 'to be honest with yourself' when |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 01:13 AM Response to Reply #4 |
12. The thing is, he had already been through this with his first wife, |
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ruiner4u (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 01:40 AM Response to Reply #12 |
17. Wow... Did i step into freerepublic by mistake? |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 02:24 AM Response to Reply #17 |
24. You are the one making judgments about something |
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ruiner4u (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 02:30 AM Response to Reply #24 |
27. then you have baggage... |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 02:33 AM Response to Reply #27 |
28. Why is it so threatening to you to hear that |
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ruiner4u (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 02:39 AM Response to Reply #27 |
29. Ignored... But I still say you have baggage... |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 02:44 AM Response to Reply #29 |
30. You have a strange way of ignoring someone |
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libnnc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-22-07 11:40 PM Response to Original message |
5. Well, first of all |
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Bobbieo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 12:17 AM Response to Reply #5 |
6. Gay or straight - the man is a control freak! |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 01:04 AM Response to Reply #5 |
9. Exactly! THAT is how it could have been prevented, by people |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 01:17 AM Response to Reply #5 |
13. You're right, society is what creates these situations. And when I discuss |
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ruiner4u (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 01:41 AM Response to Reply #13 |
18. oh my god... |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 02:28 AM Response to Reply #18 |
26. No, your reading comprehension is low, that's all. |
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Nicole (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 12:41 AM Response to Original message |
7. It would make no difference to me. |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 12:59 AM Response to Reply #7 |
8. Good point, and true enough. However, personally, I think |
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Nicole (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 01:09 AM Response to Reply #8 |
11. It makes perfect sense. |
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Colobo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 01:08 AM Response to Reply #7 |
10. In my case, it wouldn't be that simple... but I definitely admire your stance. |
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Nicole (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 01:34 AM Response to Reply #10 |
16. I guess I'm just simple minded. |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 08:49 PM Response to Reply #16 |
51. I'm truly sorry you had to go through that. I've never been |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 01:22 AM Response to Reply #7 |
14. Here is why it is often worse for these women (or men): |
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Nicole (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 01:45 AM Response to Reply #14 |
19. Well that's not the way it works for all women. |
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ruiner4u (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 01:48 AM Response to Reply #19 |
20. yeah as unfortunate as it is... |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 01:53 AM Response to Reply #19 |
21. You're saying that some women married to straight men have had those |
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ruiner4u (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 01:57 AM Response to Reply #21 |
22. So all straight men are saints and marry for love? |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 02:25 AM Response to Reply #22 |
25. No, I didn't. n/t |
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Nicole (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 02:08 AM Response to Reply #21 |
23. I didn't dismiss anything. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 01:26 AM Response to Original message |
15. I think you should invite her. I heard, from someone who has worked with |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 03:49 AM Response to Original message |
31. My three dollars. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 04:12 AM Response to Reply #31 |
32. When you ask "why the concern" about the children, are you asking that |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 02:25 PM Response to Reply #32 |
38. "Won't someone please think of the children?!?!?" |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 02:43 PM Response to Reply #38 |
40. If he's a good parent, then he did just what you suggest -- called |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 03:08 PM Response to Reply #40 |
41. I think I understand where you are going with this. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 03:26 PM Response to Reply #41 |
42. No, you don't understand. These are examples straight from his book. |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 03:40 PM Response to Reply #42 |
43. Thanks for the clarification. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 03:51 PM Response to Reply #43 |
44. Thank you for reconsidering. We clearly agree on the most important |
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ieoeja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 04:11 PM Response to Reply #44 |
46. There is something seriously wrong with you two. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 05:29 PM Response to Reply #46 |
47. You got me, ieoeja! |
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Laughing Mirror (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 08:12 AM Response to Original message |
33. Why should he apologize for saying "I'm a gay American" on national TV? |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 12:23 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. He said a lot more than that, on his book tour and in his book. |
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Laughing Mirror (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 02:18 PM Response to Reply #34 |
37. "I apologize for marrying you in the first place." |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 02:29 PM Response to Reply #37 |
39. How about "I'm sorry I used you?" Or "I'm sorry I wasn't honest with you"? |
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LeftHander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 12:57 PM Response to Original message |
35. What people expect.... |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 01:20 PM Response to Reply #35 |
36. Your situation is what I try to explain to opponents of gay marriage. |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 03:57 PM Response to Original message |
45. This is a sad story |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 05:39 PM Response to Reply #45 |
48. Politicians, as a group, don't seem to be that great |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 05:46 PM Response to Reply #48 |
49. There are some who are great and others who aren't |
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foreigncorrespondent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-23-07 05:47 PM Response to Original message |
50. Absolutely it could have been avoided! |
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