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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-06-11 10:02 PM
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I am glad Huma Abedin was not by his side
This whole Weiner thing is very upsetting. I will say, whether she chose to not stand by him as he delivered this apology, or whether he had the courtesy to not request that she does, i liked it.

I always hate when the wife has to stand by her man, in what must be so humiliating for her.

I hope he has not jeopardized her career.
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DevonRex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-06-11 10:05 PM
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1. ITA. It takes strength to not cave in
when obviously every single pol advisor has told her to do the SBYM thing.
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DURHAM D Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-06-11 10:13 PM
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2. Haven't you heard ?
She is Hillary's lesbian Al Queda muslim lover.

Weiner is her beard.

everything is cool
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-06-11 10:14 PM
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3. what?
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DURHAM D Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-06-11 10:15 PM
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5. This has been the story in freeper world for at least 3 years.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-06-11 10:14 PM
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4. wonder who un-rec'd this and why
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PeaceNikki Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-06-11 10:16 PM
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6. Very good point. Agree 100%.
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ChrisBorg Donating Member (411 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-06-11 10:16 PM
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7. Agreed. I also thought Tweety was showing ignorance by saying...
"Perhaps she's partially responsible if she knew about it." What an overwhelmingly stupid thought to even entertain.
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elleng Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-06-11 10:18 PM
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8. Not a surprise, from that twit.
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thewiseguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-06-11 10:37 PM
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10. She did not know about it until this morning
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Doctor Hurt Donating Member (472 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-06-11 10:32 PM
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9. eh, maybe she doesn't care
Edited on Mon Jun-06-11 10:33 PM by Doctor Hurt
not every wife cares if her husband flirts with women online.

I sure as hell wouldn't give a damn if my wife did the same.
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thewiseguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-06-11 10:39 PM
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11. You call this flirting? Really?
Sending a picture of your dick to women and having phone sex with them is flirting?

:eyes:
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Doctor Hurt Donating Member (472 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-06-11 10:45 PM
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12. who cares what I call it?
Edited on Mon Jun-06-11 10:45 PM by Doctor Hurt
Maybe Huma doesn't care.

My wife could send pics of herself, naked, to whomever she wants. How's that hurt me?
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thewiseguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-06-11 10:50 PM
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14. wow
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-06-11 10:58 PM
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15. i see your point, but i doubt it. reason i doubt it, is that huma has a high stakes
and high visibility career. even if she wouldnt otherwise care, her career would make her care
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Doctor Hurt Donating Member (472 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-06-11 11:46 PM
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16. You're likely right.
That's another thing that bothers me: the presumption of a particular structure of sexual relationship as "appropriate" for our public figures.

We're in the process of normalizing Gay marriage. And that is a great thing. An AWESOME thing, really, although it's happening far too slowly. But it's still a very narrow window of relationship types that we're approving. Imagine public figures who are avowed swingers. Or have an open marriage, or a stable polyamorous relationship.

Just once I'd love to see a politician and his wife admit that they can get freaky at times, and tell the prudish media to go pound sand.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-06-11 11:50 PM
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17. sadly people like that dont get to become politicians
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Doctor Hurt Donating Member (472 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-06-11 11:58 PM
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18. only one exception I know of: Roy Romer, former Colorado governor
Edited on Tue Jun-07-11 12:01 AM by Doctor Hurt
had an open marriage for 16 years or so:

http://www.mynewsletterbuilder.com/email/newsletter/1409961677 (page down a bit...)

press found out about it, and he said it wasn't going to stop...so they lost interest.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-11 09:47 AM
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19. i think gov paterson and his wife saw other people for a while in their marriage
they said this when spitzer resigned. however for many reasons, he sadly did not get to run again
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Little Star Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-11 09:54 AM
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24. prove it
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-11 09:57 AM
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26. prove what? that he doesnt care? lots of people dont
thats what open marriages are. many marriages are open to some degree. maybe its ok to watch porn and masturbate to having separate relationships. its hardly that uncommon
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pipi_k Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-11 11:25 AM
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33. Hey, that's cool...
Really. As long as both parties consent, whatever you do is your business.



I still don't think his wife knew about it, though.

I mean, supposedly she knew he had done it before they were married. Maybe he told her he had stopped and she believed him...
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Left coast liberal Donating Member (889 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-11 09:49 AM
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20. I know, that is what gets me...
...Hey dudes! News alert! Your dick is ugly! We don't want to see it. If it turns you on, look at it but don't send me a picture.

Sheesh!
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pipi_k Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-11 11:33 AM
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35. hahahahah!!! I was never into
looking at those things myself either.


I'd rather see a guy with toned muscles in a pair of tight jeans

:7

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JoePhilly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-11 09:58 AM
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27. If the women were consenting adults, its flirting.
I've yet to hear that any of these women were offended. I get the sense that the pics were part of the excitement for all involved.

I can see his wife being very angry with him. But I'm not sure why everyone else thinks it is their business.
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Garbo 2004 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-06-11 10:47 PM
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13. She's a longime aide to Hillary Clinton & also a congressional rep's wife--she would care since
she would know the potential for exposure and the repercussions.

Phone sex, sexting and photos? Yes, she would care if she knew.
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SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-11 09:50 AM
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21. "Frank"ly, a one year marriage with this sort of thing, may just not last
no matter how much HE says she loves him...and how much he loves her.. well, he does not respect her, does he?

All that picture taking & tweeting & facebooking takes time.. time he might have spent with her
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-11 09:50 AM
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22. she travels a lot. so i doubt he was doing it with her in the next room
she is an aide to HRC
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SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-11 09:53 AM
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23. still, what he did does not show her much respect.
Why BE married at all, if one plans to still troll the internet...looking:(
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-11 09:55 AM
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25. because some people need more thrills than others?
i dunno, its not my marriage. its his and huma's and i wish them well.
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Never Stop Dancin Donating Member (173 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-11 10:00 AM
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28. Abedin must take lessons from her mentor, Hillary
on how to handle this with style and grace.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-11 11:18 AM
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31. i think she will do it her own way, as she already has
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Never Stop Dancin Donating Member (173 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-11 10:06 AM
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29. can't anyone else see that this is just a marriage of convenience?
Edited on Tue Jun-07-11 10:07 AM by Never Stop Dancin
We were all naive about Weiner once, let's not repeat the same mistake again.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-11 11:19 AM
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32. we were not naive about weiner, he just had a private life which we found out about
unfortunately.

what concerns me is how he votes, and that i know a shitload about
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sufrommich Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-11 11:26 AM
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34. " a marriage of convenience"
What would the convenience be?
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PRETZEL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-07-11 10:08 AM
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30. I totally agree,
I think this is his issue and his responsibility for the public embarassment but the resolution and the issues they have to deal with as a couple should remain private.

My take, I doubt that she even knew that he was doing this.

Fortunately, I think her career and her ability will stand on its own merits. She has a longstanding relationship with Hillary Clinton which would be as good a recommendation as anyone can ask for.
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