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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 12:50 PM Original message |
Tampa mom makes son wear sign announcing 1.22 GPA |
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socialshockwave (637 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 12:52 PM Response to Original message |
1. Really? |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-23-11 12:38 PM Response to Reply #1 |
389. i bet you'd improve your grades though, wouldn't you? n/t |
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FLAprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 12:52 PM Response to Original message |
2. Great! It's nice to see that the parents are trying, unlike so many other parents nowadays |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:02 PM Response to Reply #2 |
18. You think humiliating a kid is "trying"? |
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FLAprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:26 PM Response to Reply #18 |
45. Seems to me like they've exhausted all of their options... |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:07 PM Response to Reply #45 |
177. Or simply cannot think of additional, valid options... |
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cleanhippie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 10:59 PM Response to Reply #177 |
315. Or maybe there just are not any more options. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 01:22 PM Response to Reply #45 |
365. And that justifies being a sadistic fuck to a kid, exactly how? |
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Brilliantrocket (196 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:35 PM Original message |
Americans are more worried about self esteem than accomplishments. |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:53 PM Response to Original message |
80. Americans like you are more worried about accomplishments..See, this is the trick: |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:54 PM Response to Reply #80 |
82. self esteem does not guarentee follow thru. one can have self esteem and be lazy |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:15 PM Response to Reply #82 |
115. It doesn't guarantee it, but makes it more likely |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:17 PM Response to Reply #115 |
120. s i said in original post, i wouldnt beat mom up for doing this. |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:29 PM Response to Reply #120 |
137. Well, I think I know where you're coming from |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:32 PM Response to Reply #137 |
143. i have watched too many kids, and my brothers three kids go in a horrible direction |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:10 PM Response to Reply #143 |
181. no, not contradictory at all - good parenting. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:13 PM Response to Reply #181 |
184. firm limits and enforce them in a kind, but consistent manner |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:57 PM Response to Reply #80 |
85. Oh please. The laziest, most worthless people on Earth |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:13 PM Response to Reply #85 |
112. I think you're confusing "self-esteem" |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 07:45 PM Response to Reply #112 |
300. +1 .... |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 11:20 PM Response to Reply #85 |
324. But those people aren't humiliated by their parents as kids, or by society. They are coddled. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:00 PM Response to Reply #80 |
265. You have that backwards |
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Art_from_Ark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 10:57 PM Response to Reply #265 |
314. You praise them when they succeed or at least show effort |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 09:14 AM Response to Reply #314 |
349. And if they don't succeed or show effort? |
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Cid_B (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 11:05 PM Response to Reply #80 |
320. He can't do arithmetic but as long as he feels good about himself... |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 02:33 PM Response to Reply #320 |
369. These comments come out |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:08 PM Response to Original message |
178. One does not deny the other. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 04:58 PM Response to Reply #18 |
263. Isn't letting him graduate |
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pipoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 10:28 PM Response to Reply #263 |
311. It isn't like the choice is one or the other.. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 09:15 AM Response to Reply #311 |
350. Sounds like they've been trying other things |
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BanzaiBonnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:16 PM Response to Reply #2 |
30. I understand the parents frustration |
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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:20 PM Response to Reply #2 |
36. Michael Landon became a competitive runner because he wet the bed and his mom |
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FLAprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:30 PM Response to Reply #36 |
50. It's not like he could choose not to wet the bed.....this kid could choose to at least put forth an |
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upi402 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:59 PM Response to Reply #2 |
90. humiliation is abuse, not help n/t |
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FLAprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:01 PM Response to Reply #90 |
94. I have a hard time feeling sympathetic for someone who has oh-so-clearly spurned help at every |
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Common Sense Party (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:28 PM Response to Reply #94 |
206. Sew what? |
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superduperfarleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 04:38 PM Response to Reply #206 |
253. Sounds like someone needs to spend a little time on the street corner. n/t |
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TBF (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 04:46 PM Response to Reply #94 |
257. This is a 15-yr old we're talking about - not an adult. |
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pipoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 10:32 PM Response to Reply #257 |
312. Really? |
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TBF (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 07:51 AM Response to Reply #312 |
340. I don't think you understood my response - I'm against the humiliation. nt |
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gatorboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 12:52 PM Response to Original message |
3. The wording of the sign suggests that the mom just might need an education herself. |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 12:53 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. Maybe Mom knows from experience what a lack of education |
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gatorboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 12:54 PM Response to Reply #4 |
5. Touché! |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 12:55 PM Response to Reply #5 |
8. Yay! What do I win? |
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gatorboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 12:56 PM Response to Reply #8 |
12. A Zomg! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 12:54 PM Response to Original message |
6. i am not going to beat parent up for this. creative. humiliating? well |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 12:58 PM Response to Reply #6 |
15. I agree. I'm shocked taking away his cell phone didn't do |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 12:59 PM Response to Reply #15 |
16. i guess they could give up. let him be a drop out and do nothing all day. that option |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:03 PM Response to Reply #16 |
19. Which is why I give these exasperated parents the thumbs up. |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:05 PM Response to Reply #6 |
20. Yeah sure.... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:06 PM Response to Reply #20 |
21. if you read, they took those steps first. and yes, i have heard. my kids get positive |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:07 PM Response to Reply #21 |
22. I did read |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:08 PM Response to Reply #22 |
23. what really sucks is failing out of HS. nt |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:12 PM Response to Reply #23 |
26. What sucks more is failing at trust and self-esteem..HS can be postponed easier than the former.n/t |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:14 PM Response to Reply #26 |
28. trust? what, trust in the kid he will be responsible and do what he is suppose to do in school? |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:34 PM Response to Reply #28 |
53. True self-esteem |
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Brilliantrocket (196 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:38 PM Response to Reply #53 |
60. Sorry love is not unconditional. |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:44 PM Response to Reply #60 |
66. Sorry, but love is unconditional when you do it right.. |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:45 PM Response to Reply #66 |
68. You don't think these parents love their kid? nt |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:47 PM Response to Reply #68 |
70. I know of parents who beat up their kids and still claim to "love" him or her. |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:49 PM Response to Reply #70 |
74. These parents weren't beating up their kid.They were setting |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:50 PM Response to Reply #74 |
76. Humiliation is emotional abuse...Normal expectations can't be met by humiliating them. |
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cleanhippie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 11:02 PM Response to Reply #70 |
317. But this parent did not "beat up" her kid. |
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Arkansas Granny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:26 PM Response to Reply #66 |
133. Sometimes that unconditional love means letting the child experience |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:30 PM Response to Reply #133 |
139. kid probably will put his head down and work now, out of guilt he got his parents in trouble |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 12:23 AM Response to Reply #139 |
329. I'm sure a dose of public humiliation would make you a better wife/mother/citizen too! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 12:41 AM Response to Reply #329 |
333. my husband does not have authority over me. but that is a given, isnt it kitty? and |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 12:57 AM Response to Reply #333 |
335. Which is why it surprises me that you'd endorse the behavior in the OP. |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:43 PM Response to Reply #53 |
64. No love is unconditional. It never should be. nt |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:49 PM Response to Reply #64 |
75. Wrong...I hope you're childless. n/t |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:14 PM Response to Reply #75 |
186. ouch, no need to attack since you didn't what codeine |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:18 PM Response to Reply #186 |
278. You're right.. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:22 PM Response to Reply #278 |
285. put an angel face.... lol lol |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:25 PM Response to Reply #285 |
287. Thanks!. n/t |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:51 PM Response to Reply #53 |
77. true meaning of unconditional love is even in discipline the kid know... KNOWS he is loved |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:18 PM Response to Reply #77 |
122. Again...Not saying they should "shrug it off". |
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bighart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:33 PM Response to Reply #122 |
215. To me the kid is humiliating the parents and himself by his own |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 11:17 AM Response to Reply #215 |
351. Best rationalization for child abuse in this thread! eom |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 11:25 AM Response to Reply #351 |
355. my mom told me when i was a teenager.... |
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bighart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 11:32 AM Response to Reply #351 |
357. I don't condone what they did, I would never do it. |
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bighart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 11:38 AM Response to Reply #357 |
358. Oh and by the way his degree is in eductaion. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 12:18 PM Response to Reply #357 |
359. hey... my son is right there with yours. he has chemistry and algebra 2 |
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X_Digger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:35 PM Response to Reply #28 |
54. But, but, but.. He's a special snowflake, and deserves to be a winner, no matter how well he did! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:53 PM Response to Reply #54 |
81. i am a .. not messin around .... kinda momo and kids clearly know i love them and expect the best |
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Raschel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:15 PM Response to Reply #26 |
29. Mom and dad should be forced to wear signs announcing their shortcomings. |
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haele (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:36 PM Response to Reply #29 |
221. Actually, if I got to that point where nothing would reach that kid other than |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:39 PM Response to Reply #221 |
227. you took the time. this is how i see it. thanks. nt |
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Sen. Walter Sobchak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 03:25 AM Response to Reply #221 |
337. Meet my brother... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 06:55 AM Response to Reply #337 |
338. maybe, it is people like us with sibling like this.... lol, that allow us to see |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 02:29 PM Response to Reply #337 |
368. Clearly, the lack of public humiliation is what caused your brother's lack of ambition. |
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Sen. Walter Sobchak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 02:50 PM Response to Reply #368 |
375. It isn't simply about humiliation, it is about discomfort |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:27 PM Response to Reply #29 |
290. Best reply in the thread! |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:18 PM Response to Reply #26 |
35. Treating your child like a precious little snowflake does more |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:22 PM Response to Reply #35 |
38. you know, it really depends on the child. children are individuals |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:27 PM Response to Reply #38 |
46. I'll agree to that. I know you're a parent and I am too. Personally, |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:16 PM Response to Reply #46 |
188. big meeting with school and psycho-ed evaluation |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:55 PM Response to Reply #38 |
83. true that. i do both my boys differently, cause they are different. nt |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:28 PM Response to Reply #35 |
47. "Nothing wrong with letting your kids know failure is not an option"? |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:30 PM Response to Reply #47 |
49. I meant failure at school,but I think you knew that. nt |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:56 PM Response to Reply #47 |
84. kids will meet expectation. and if that expectation is nothing, that is what you will get |
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Hippo_Tron (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 04:39 PM Response to Reply #84 |
255. It's not all or nothing, though... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:12 PM Response to Reply #255 |
272. the parent is asking the kid not to be a D student. i dont think that is too high an expectation of |
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Hippo_Tron (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 06:32 PM Response to Reply #272 |
297. The poster above said that "American parents could learn more from Asian parents" |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 06:39 PM Response to Reply #297 |
299. ahhh. i see. thanks for the clarification. nt |
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Raschel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:33 PM Response to Reply #35 |
52. That's quite a broad swing from public humiliation to "a precious little snowflake". |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:35 PM Response to Reply #52 |
55. Yes, there is...Thanks for pointing out what should have been obvious. n/t |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:36 PM Original message |
If you read the article, they tried the stable medium. It didn't work. nt |
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FLAprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:45 PM Response to Original message |
67. Yeah, but, yeah but, he's a victim and obviously none of this is his fault. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:58 PM Response to Reply #67 |
87. that is it. this is exactly it. create him as a victim. not responsible for the repercussion of |
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FLAprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:07 PM Response to Reply #87 |
103. Seems like no one can agree on what he's actually a victim *of* though besides big bad mommy |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:10 PM Response to Reply #103 |
108. on the one hand we want them to be able to live an adult world, on other, they are incapable |
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Raschel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:48 PM Response to Original message |
71. They've offered help, asked to see homework, grounded, lectured him and confiscated his cell phone. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:00 PM Response to Reply #71 |
91. check and follow thru with homework. time and effort and patients. school meeting |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:38 PM Response to Reply #35 |
59. Guess what? |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:42 PM Response to Reply #26 |
63. Unwarranted trust and self-esteem can be as destructive as any humiliation. nt |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:46 PM Response to Reply #63 |
69. "unwarranted" ?...Guess you never heard |
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FLAprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:48 PM Response to Reply #69 |
72. So what would your solution be? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:01 PM Response to Reply #69 |
93. unconditional love is a given. and easy. for us anyway. trusting when there is no reason to |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:31 PM Response to Reply #93 |
141. No, what I meant was |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:34 PM Response to Reply #141 |
146. was how i was raised. so easy for me. |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:58 PM Response to Reply #146 |
167. Sorry, but |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:05 PM Response to Reply #167 |
175. ah geez.... |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:22 PM Response to Reply #175 |
196. Okay.. |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:21 PM Response to Reply #141 |
193. I think what you are seeing is a reaction by some parents |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:19 PM Response to Reply #69 |
125. Which do you think is more loving? |
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Drahthaardogs (482 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:47 PM Response to Reply #69 |
232. No, parents give unconditional LOVE |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:59 PM Response to Reply #63 |
169. I'm sure that you think that.. |
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Drahthaardogs (482 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:04 PM Response to Reply #26 |
173. How has this child EARNED trust? |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:28 PM Response to Reply #173 |
207. You are another one.. |
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walldude (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 04:15 PM Response to Reply #207 |
246. Or maybe his trust in the school system |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:07 PM Response to Reply #246 |
270. LOL, n/t |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:13 PM Response to Reply #270 |
274. i thought the post was cute, too. nt |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:15 PM Response to Reply #274 |
276. See that? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:24 PM Response to Reply #276 |
286. lol. i bet |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:25 PM Response to Reply #286 |
288. Yeah, see my edited post. n/t |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:28 PM Response to Reply #276 |
292. ya... i never |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:21 PM Response to Reply #246 |
280. That was funny, Walldude |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:21 PM Response to Reply #21 |
281. He hasn't even been tested for a learning disability. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:26 PM Response to Reply #281 |
289. as i posted below, with one child with learning disabilities and |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:35 PM Response to Reply #289 |
295. I've seen it happen. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:38 PM Response to Reply #295 |
296. that is true. i have seen parents with that attitude. there have been times |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:01 PM Response to Reply #20 |
267. Carrot/stick |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:20 PM Response to Reply #6 |
37. ugh. humiliation is a horrid thing to do to another personl |
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Raschel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:36 PM Response to Reply #37 |
57. It is. I'd like to see signs for the parents, "dad overeats", or "mom drinks too much". |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 02:34 PM Response to Reply #37 |
370. But not if you're doing it to a kid, apparently. |
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somone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 12:54 PM Response to Original message |
7. "My mom says I'm stupid and I hope you agree" |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 12:55 PM Response to Reply #7 |
9. no, his grades show he isnt putting forth the effort... do i need an education? nt |
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Raschel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:17 PM Response to Reply #7 |
31. Reminds me of Michael Landon running home because his mom would hang his wet sheets out the window. |
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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:26 PM Response to Reply #31 |
44. I had the same thought! Posted it above. It was acted out in the movie |
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Raschel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:32 PM Response to Reply #44 |
51. Oh, okay! I saw the movie too. Same concept AFAIC! |
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cleanhippie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 11:03 PM Response to Reply #7 |
318. That's not what was on the sign. Why are you making things up? |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 12:56 PM Response to Original message |
10. In a year, he'll be at a school like mine. |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:25 PM Response to Reply #10 |
200. there's the likely answer- you could argue that these |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:31 PM Response to Reply #200 |
213. wht ultimately set the parents off to this, they were at a school meeting and the kids showed |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:38 PM Response to Reply #213 |
224. I've seen that many times in my work = |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 08:00 PM Response to Reply #213 |
302. Classic coping skill. |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 07:58 PM Response to Reply #200 |
301. Many of our students' parents are at their rope's end. |
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meegbear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 12:56 PM Response to Original message |
11. Kid's gotta learn you don't get any pudding if you don't eat your meat |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 12:57 PM Response to Reply #11 |
14. lol. i like. nt |
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Ozymanithrax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 12:56 PM Response to Original message |
13. How do you cure a case of "Don't give a f__kitis..." |
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MattSh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:09 PM Response to Reply #13 |
24. Well, that's just fine... |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:26 PM Response to Reply #24 |
202. schools usually have some of these services available inter= |
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Ozymanithrax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:47 PM Response to Reply #24 |
231. Didn't say it would be easy. I have a child with Aspbergers, and it has be dificult... |
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exboyfil (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:18 PM Response to Reply #13 |
33. At 18 put his |
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Ozymanithrax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:50 PM Response to Reply #33 |
236. I don't see children as throw away items. |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 08:04 PM Response to Reply #33 |
304. What if they stop trying for a reason that's reasonable but you don't like? |
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exboyfil (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 08:45 AM Response to Reply #304 |
348. But I would bet in most cases it |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 12:51 PM Response to Reply #348 |
361. That's an easy cop-out, saying they are refusing to grow up. |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 08:01 PM Response to Reply #13 |
303. I don't think that's the problem. |
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pipoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:02 PM Response to Original message |
17. Humiliation is ineffective |
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socialshockwave (637 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:10 PM Response to Reply #17 |
25. Yup. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:13 PM Response to Reply #25 |
27. offered help, asked to see homework, grounded, lectured him and confiscated his cell phone. |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:23 PM Response to Reply #27 |
40. perhaps he has psychological problems |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:03 PM Response to Reply #40 |
98. perhaps. or learning disabilities. with the little info we have, it seems none of that is the case |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:09 PM Response to Reply #40 |
107. post #97 below |
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Raschel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:18 PM Response to Reply #17 |
34. And kids develop differently at different times. He may be great college material 20 yrs from now. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:03 PM Response to Reply #17 |
268. Humiliation is quite effective actually |
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superduperfarleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:20 PM Response to Reply #268 |
279. Yes, the public stocks were a splendid idea. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:21 PM Response to Reply #279 |
284. Yep, that's exactly what this is |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 01:48 PM Response to Reply #284 |
366. It is exactly what it is. eom |
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joeunderdog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 09:40 PM Response to Reply #268 |
309. Short term gains. Long term problems. Why do you think the kid's passive aggressive? |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 02:35 PM Response to Reply #309 |
371. Because he hasn't been 'given' |
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pipoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 10:35 PM Response to Reply #268 |
313. I'll bet you love Sheriff Joe Arpaio..n/t |
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cleanhippie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 11:05 PM Response to Reply #17 |
319. Perhaps, but all other efforts were ineffective too. |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:17 PM Response to Original message |
32. While I sympathize with her frustration, I cannot condone her actions. |
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azurnoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:22 PM Response to Original message |
39. the kid is 15 anyone that supports this act |
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lonestarnot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:24 PM Response to Original message |
41. This is fucking ridiculous. She should be chained with a sign around her neck saying I'm a stupid |
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sarge43 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
42. As usual this article doesn't address important questions |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:29 PM Response to Reply #42 |
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chowhound (109 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:04 PM Response to Reply #48 |
99. parents who apparently didnt teach u about name calling |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:27 PM Response to Reply #42 |
205. exactly... |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 04:42 PM Response to Reply #42 |
256. Excellent points! |
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sarge43 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 04:56 PM Response to Reply #256 |
261. The kid might be a bad seed or a slacker. However, |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
43. "someone reported Holder to the Department of Children and Families" |
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dembotoz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:35 PM Response to Original message |
56. oh shit--this sounds like my kid |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:39 PM Response to Reply #56 |
61. Yeah, my sister took away her my niece's phone and |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:36 PM Response to Original message |
58. He knew by age four that school wasn't meant for him. |
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FLAprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:41 PM Response to Original message |
62. I still don't understand why the kid is being absolved and the parents are being vilified |
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chowhound (109 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:51 PM Response to Reply #62 |
78. or taught that there are consequences to your actions |
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emilyg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:52 PM Response to Reply #62 |
79. +1 |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:23 PM Response to Reply #62 |
197. "Absolve"? AH, yeah, right, the old False Dichotomy fallacy. -nt |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 04:47 PM Response to Reply #62 |
258. Failure in logic on your part. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 02:37 PM Response to Reply #62 |
372. Because humiliating him is a sick and mean thing to do. |
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Brilliantrocket (196 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:44 PM Response to Original message |
65. I think the whole "try your best" attitude is bunk. |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:57 PM Response to Reply #65 |
86. They want to be their "friend." It's pathetic. n/t |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:06 PM Response to Reply #86 |
101. that is the big one. i agree. nt |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:05 PM Response to Reply #65 |
100. "When I have kids..." |
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Brilliantrocket (196 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:12 PM Response to Reply #100 |
110. The Asian parenting style seems to work best. |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:16 PM Response to Reply #110 |
117. What is "best"? |
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Arugula Latte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:51 PM Response to Reply #110 |
164. sounds like "Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother" |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:59 PM Response to Reply #164 |
168. That Asian mom is the extreme and not typical of most asian |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:12 PM Response to Reply #110 |
273. Yes, because the non-achievers have the decency to kill themselves |
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Hippo_Tron (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:07 PM Response to Reply #65 |
104. Which often leads to kids with serious issues later in life |
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Brilliantrocket (196 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:17 PM Response to Reply #104 |
119. Well we can just disagree then. |
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Hippo_Tron (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:45 PM Response to Reply #119 |
159. Why do you equate academic success with life success, though? |
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Kievan Rus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:58 PM Response to Reply #159 |
240. Agreed. Bill Gates was a bad student and is now one of the richest people in the world. |
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Kievan Rus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:59 PM Response to Reply #119 |
241. You do realize Bill Gates was a bad student, right? |
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AlabamaLibrul (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 08:26 AM Response to Reply #119 |
346. I'll just be frank, it sounds very Randian. What if your child is born with a learning disability? |
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Arugula Latte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:47 PM Response to Reply #65 |
161. "When I have kids I will FORCE them to be the best." |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:07 PM Response to Reply #65 |
176. "When I have kids I will FORCE them to be the best." |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:36 PM Response to Reply #65 |
220. So, what if there's another three kids with "good" parents in the same class... |
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Brilliantrocket (196 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:38 PM Response to Reply #220 |
225. Top 1% is good enough |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:42 PM Response to Reply #225 |
228. How magnanimous of you. |
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walldude (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:52 PM Response to Reply #65 |
238. Oh yeah let's be more like the Chinese... |
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Oak2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 09:52 PM Response to Reply #65 |
310. Chinese kids do better in math because the Chinese language makes the answer to math problems |
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southernyankeebelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:48 PM Response to Original message |
73. Congratulations parents now you enforced your son's insecurities. Way to go. I |
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Brilliantrocket (196 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:18 PM Response to Reply #73 |
121. Yelling is useless ,but I can see studying until you get it right. |
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GSLevel9 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:58 PM Response to Original message |
88. fantastic... BRAVO!!! As a father of a 16 year old |
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Poll_Blind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 01:58 PM Response to Original message |
89. It IS humiliating, but it's nothing compared to the humiliation he's going to have to endure for... |
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Hippo_Tron (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:11 PM Response to Reply #89 |
109. I don't think this is comparable to scared straight |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:01 PM Response to Original message |
92. As a parent I find this disgusting. |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:02 PM Response to Original message |
95. Disgusting |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:08 PM Response to Reply #95 |
105. Was hoping you'd chime in... |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 04:23 PM Response to Reply #105 |
249. I never approve of public humiliation |
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FourScore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 04:14 PM Response to Reply #95 |
244. Yep. I agree. n/t |
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pipoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:02 PM Response to Original message |
96. I would like to know if those who defend this woman |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:03 PM Response to Original message |
97. This from a Yahoo poster who lives in Tampa and saw the |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:07 PM Response to Reply #97 |
102. Natural consequences are for the best. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:13 PM Response to Reply #102 |
111. statistically look at the numbers of kids that age that fail, who end up dropping out of HS |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:18 PM Response to Reply #111 |
123. That's because they weren't given another way out... |
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Hippo_Tron (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:26 PM Response to Reply #123 |
132. As I said below, put him to work for his dad until he gets his shit together |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:38 PM Response to Reply #132 |
152. Agreed. |
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Hippo_Tron (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:54 PM Response to Reply #152 |
165. The European model restricts access to higher education by doing that, though |
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superduperfarleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:13 PM Response to Reply #97 |
113. Yes, the yahoo message boards are a wonderful place to find reliable sources. |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:42 PM Response to Reply #113 |
157. It sounds like the original news story on TV was more detailed than |
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Hippo_Tron (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:22 PM Response to Reply #97 |
128. Why don't they pull him out for a semester and put him to work for his dad? |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:25 PM Original message |
In most states that would be considered truancy. |
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Hippo_Tron (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:27 PM Response to Original message |
134. I think in most states they can do it once he's 16 |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:36 PM Response to Reply #134 |
148. not in texas. not even 17. watch brother with his boys. parents are fined and jailed. nt |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:37 PM Response to Reply #134 |
149. That's how it is here... |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 04:52 PM Response to Original message |
260. Florida: Homeschool Letter of Intent. Problem solved. |
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superduperfarleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:25 PM Response to Reply #128 |
131. Great idea. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:37 PM Response to Reply #131 |
150. parent would be fined and jailed for the kid not being in school. so no. nt |
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superduperfarleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:39 PM Response to Reply #150 |
153. He's not in school 24-hours-a-day. |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 04:50 PM Response to Reply #128 |
259. That's a great idea and could easily be done in Florida. |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:27 PM Response to Reply #97 |
204. This makes the idiotic stunt LESS justifiable, not more. |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:15 PM Response to Reply #97 |
275. It's still public humiliation regardless of the reason |
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superduperfarleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:09 PM Response to Original message |
106. This is probably just part of a pattern of emotional abuse. |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:16 PM Response to Reply #106 |
116. Or it may just be a shitty kid. |
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superduperfarleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:20 PM Response to Reply #116 |
126. He's 15, for christ's sake. |
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guruoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:28 PM Response to Reply #106 |
135. Biggest warning sign, to me... |
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superduperfarleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:34 PM Response to Reply #135 |
145. Yep. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:15 PM Response to Original message |
114. I don't know the family or their situation but wish them good luck in life. EOM |
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guruoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:17 PM Response to Original message |
118. 15 year old boy submissive enough to agree to this must have been abused as a child, IMO. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:19 PM Response to Reply #118 |
124. well, i have an almost 16 yr old and never been abused. if i told him |
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superduperfarleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:21 PM Response to Reply #124 |
127. Or fear. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:23 PM Response to Reply #127 |
129. hm... not much it seems. the parents spent a lot of time on other forms of repercussions |
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superduperfarleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:25 PM Response to Reply #129 |
130. For a 15-year-old to agree to something like this, clearly the alternative was worse. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:28 PM Response to Reply #130 |
136. i dont agree. i think it is evidence there is still that respect toward parents and maybe |
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superduperfarleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:33 PM Response to Reply #136 |
144. Eh, this reminds me of me when I was that age. |
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guruoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:40 PM Response to Reply #136 |
156. You would make them stand on a streetcorner, proclaiming to the world that they're a loser? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:42 PM Response to Reply #156 |
158. no, i wouldnt. i would be down at their school, draggin by ear to teacher |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:51 PM Response to Reply #158 |
163. Oh my God. That is perfect." Improve your grades or we'll be |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:09 PM Response to Reply #163 |
180. ya know. we have this wonderful thing, skyward. that gives all the kids grades |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:12 PM Response to Reply #180 |
183. We have it too. Although my son is way past high school age. |
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guruoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:35 PM Response to Reply #124 |
147. I really doubt you would make you're kids stand on a streetcorner with |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:39 PM Response to Reply #147 |
154. no, i wouldnt. their ass would be at boys ranch up the street. a great place |
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guruoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:46 PM Response to Reply #154 |
160. That's better. |
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superduperfarleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:48 PM Response to Reply #160 |
162. Shit, if I'd ever gotten arrested at that age, I'd be begging the police to keep me in jail. n/t |
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Hippo_Tron (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:57 PM Response to Reply #162 |
166. My parents knew the judge who oversaw the local jail |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:14 PM Response to Reply #162 |
185. lol lol. that is funny. nt |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:11 PM Response to Reply #160 |
182. i wouldnt make dad do shit. kids have to call him and beg. personally, their ass can sit in jail |
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superduperfarleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:22 PM Response to Reply #182 |
194. I know we disagree on this issue, but you sound like you've done a great job with your kids. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:29 PM Response to Reply #194 |
212. thanks super |
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guruoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:29 PM Response to Reply #182 |
211. You are indeed lucky... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:33 PM Response to Reply #211 |
216. all around |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:39 PM Response to Reply #118 |
155. 15 is plenty old enough to run away. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:04 PM Response to Reply #118 |
269. Listening to your parents = abused? |
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Romulox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:30 PM Response to Original message |
138. What are we "educating" our children to do, exactly? Work retail? nt |
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Incitatus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:30 PM Response to Original message |
140. So they can make him stand with that sign for 4 hours but can't make him do his homework. |
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WilliamPitt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:32 PM Response to Original message |
142. That's something my mom would do. |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 02:37 PM Response to Reply #142 |
151. +1 |
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Paladin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:00 PM Response to Original message |
170. You Can Be An Effective, Demanding Parent, Without Being An Asshole. |
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FLAprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:02 PM Response to Reply #170 |
172. What should they have done? |
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superduperfarleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:04 PM Response to Reply #172 |
174. Psychological testing. Make him work for his dad. |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:20 PM Response to Reply #174 |
191. That is the correct answer. |
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FLAprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:24 PM Response to Reply #174 |
199. They may not have the money to do testing or send him to military school though.... |
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superduperfarleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:28 PM Response to Reply #199 |
208. Oftentimes, the school will offer it. Then there's various state services available for low-income |
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FLAprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:32 PM Response to Reply #208 |
214. there is very little in the way of state services here, and what is there is mismanaged and |
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superduperfarleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:34 PM Response to Reply #214 |
218. So the better alternative is public humiliation of a child who may have underlying |
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FLAprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:39 PM Response to Reply #218 |
226. and the victimization continues.... |
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superduperfarleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 04:13 PM Response to Reply #226 |
243. It's "victimization" to point out the kid might have underlying mental health issues that need to be |
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FLAprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 04:20 PM Response to Reply #243 |
247. Any "mental health issues" are pure speculation. There's an attitude among many youth these days |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:36 PM Response to Reply #214 |
219. we have boys ranch up the street. this community is lucky. it is a well run adn respected place BUT |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:29 PM Response to Reply #199 |
210. Well, while we're on "may" territory... |
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Jokinomx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:01 PM Response to Original message |
171. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree..... |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:08 PM Response to Original message |
179. maybe a professional psycho-educational evaluation |
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BlueCheese (897 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:15 PM Response to Original message |
187. Much more detail here. |
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superduperfarleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:17 PM Response to Reply #187 |
189. Never been tested for a learning disability.... |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:22 PM Response to Reply #189 |
195. "Until the middle of seventh grade, his grades were fine."nt |
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superduperfarleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:23 PM Response to Reply #195 |
198. So he seems to completely withdraw almost overnight, and you think that's normal? |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:27 PM Response to Reply #198 |
203. I could also be drug abuse or just hanging out with the wrong |
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superduperfarleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:29 PM Response to Reply #203 |
209. I get the impression that the kid is depressed, that's why I used the word "withdrawal." |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:38 PM Response to Reply #195 |
223. 7th grade is it. i watched both boys, one in 7th now. middle of 7th... boom |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 04:02 PM Response to Reply #195 |
242. If he has a learning disability |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:19 PM Response to Reply #187 |
190. "This is one child who won't be lost to the streets." |
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Hubert Flottz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:21 PM Response to Original message |
192. What's a second grader to do? |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:25 PM Response to Original message |
201. Don't turn your back, Mom. J/s. |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:34 PM Response to Reply #201 |
217. Some people appear to have a need to inflict humiliation rituals the way alcoholics need to drink. |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:37 PM Response to Original message |
222. Hope she has a real good retirement plan. |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:44 PM Response to Reply #222 |
229. She's a hairdresser with six kids, I'm guessing she doesn't. |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:47 PM Response to Reply #229 |
233. Well, she'll learn the lesson she tried to teach the boy. |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 04:25 PM Response to Reply #233 |
250. Maybe you should read the whole article before you get on your |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 04:36 PM Response to Reply #250 |
252. "high horse" |
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JoePhilly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:45 PM Response to Original message |
230. Sounds like she and her husband WAITED TOO LONG. |
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FLAprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:49 PM Response to Reply #230 |
234. Apparently he was doing fine in school up until recently. So it sounds like the kid went wrong. |
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superduperfarleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 04:15 PM Response to Reply #234 |
245. I truly hope you don't have ever a depressed child or a child with a learning disability. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:21 PM Response to Reply #245 |
283. i have a child with learnng disability. i tell him to suck it up and quit whining. |
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JoePhilly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 09:18 PM Response to Reply #283 |
305. I think we are on same page ... |
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firehorse (547 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 04:34 PM Response to Reply #234 |
251. doing well, and then suddenly not... is often a sign of having been abused |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:51 PM Response to Reply #230 |
237. They have six kids, five of them are doing well in school.This |
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JoePhilly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:27 PM Response to Reply #237 |
291. My 3rd grader is 9, My 6th grader is 11. My 17 year old is a Senior. |
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firehorse (547 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:49 PM Response to Original message |
235. "shame and blame" style parenting never works |
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Lucian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 03:56 PM Response to Original message |
239. The responses in this thread are sickening. |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 04:22 PM Response to Reply #239 |
248. Yes. Yes they are. |
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Puregonzo1188 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 04:39 PM Response to Original message |
254. "Honk if I need education." That sounds so productive. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 04:57 PM Response to Original message |
262. Ha! |
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Zephie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:00 PM Response to Original message |
264. As the daughter of a tutor I totally support this mothers actions as long as she's truly at the end |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:00 PM Response to Original message |
266. There must be some other problems going on with the kid |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:10 PM Response to Original message |
271. The kid needs to be tested. |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:16 PM Response to Original message |
277. Too bad he wasn't armed. |
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superduperfarleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:21 PM Response to Reply #277 |
282. Personally, I think switching to a healthy vegan diet would do wonders for him. n/t |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:34 PM Response to Reply #282 |
294. Dammit. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 05:34 PM Response to Reply #277 |
293. lol lol. *sigh*. nt |
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Recovered Repug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 11:12 PM Response to Reply #277 |
322. It might be PTSD from a circumcision. |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 11:27 PM Response to Reply #322 |
326. Next, you're gonna say that the parents smoke |
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superduperfarleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 11:20 AM Response to Reply #322 |
352. The real question is... |
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dogday (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 06:36 PM Response to Original message |
298. About additional tutoring, other schools that cater to slow learners |
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derby378 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 09:20 PM Response to Original message |
306. "Mond. James Mond." |
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Renew Deal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 09:31 PM Response to Original message |
307. If someone tells you that they know what it takes to raise a kid, they're lying. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 05:47 PM Response to Reply #307 |
380. My father used public humiliation on my sister and me. It DID NOT work. |
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Renew Deal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 09:34 PM Response to Original message |
308. I bet this kid wasn't breast-fed as an infant. |
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cleanhippie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 11:06 PM Response to Reply #308 |
321. Actually, he was breast fed, but it was at the Olive Garden. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 11:01 PM Response to Original message |
316. 1.22 is really awful. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 11:14 PM Response to Original message |
323. That'll make him excited about school, I'm sure. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 11:25 PM Response to Original message |
325. Would those of you who approve this feel the same if your boss did it to you? |
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somone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 11:52 PM Response to Reply #325 |
328. "My boss gave me a bad review. Honk if I need termination." |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 12:29 AM Response to Reply #328 |
331. Having been a 15 year old with parents who thought public humiliation was a great idea |
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somone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 12:42 AM Response to Reply #331 |
334. Sorry to hear |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 12:38 AM Response to Reply #325 |
332. we would expect to be fired kitty.... that is the real world. nt |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 01:04 AM Response to Reply #332 |
336. I got humiliated by my father as a child and teenager, in the real world. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 02:37 PM Response to Reply #325 |
373. Parent/child =! boss/employee |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 05:46 PM Response to Reply #373 |
379. Child =! Property |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 09:27 PM Response to Reply #379 |
383. Or you know |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 11:47 PM Response to Reply #383 |
385. Parents who are sadistic asshole bullies. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-23-11 09:25 AM Response to Reply #385 |
386. Yeah there's a big difference |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-23-11 12:21 PM Response to Reply #386 |
387. Reading comprehension is important to learn too. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-23-11 12:28 PM Response to Reply #387 |
388. Nope I did just fine |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-21-11 11:28 PM Response to Original message |
327. Oh, and how about you stay-at-home-parents? |
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Arkana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 12:25 AM Response to Original message |
330. I'm sure they grounded him--sent him to his room, where he has a laptop and a TV |
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DebJ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 07:34 AM Response to Original message |
339. Sounds like they never called the teachers, nor the teachers |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 08:04 AM Response to Reply #339 |
341. i would imagine the slide was more gradual than three yrs of 1.2 gpa and |
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DebJ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 08:07 AM Response to Reply #341 |
342. good counterpoint. n/t |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 08:13 AM Response to Original message |
343. since kindergarten my niece would say she turned in her homework and teacher lost it |
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OneTenthofOnePercent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 08:15 AM Response to Original message |
344. Good. Different kids respond to different motivations. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 08:24 AM Response to Reply #344 |
345. something else with the whole humiliation issue. the kid had no issue with these grades while he |
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OneTenthofOnePercent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 08:31 AM Response to Reply #345 |
347. If the shoe fits, wear it. |
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superduperfarleft (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 11:21 AM Response to Reply #347 |
353. "Discrete solutions have been exhausted." Really? |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 02:48 PM Response to Reply #345 |
374. Why is it so important to you that kids be humiliated for not performing up to some standard? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 02:51 PM Response to Reply #374 |
376. why is it important that a kid should not be proud or indifferent to failure? |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 05:52 PM Response to Reply #376 |
381. No you don't have to answer it |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 06:10 PM Response to Reply #381 |
382. But it's okay for you to do to a kid, right? wrong. and i have clearly stated a number of times |
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joeybee12 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 11:21 AM Response to Original message |
354. The kid's problem is obvious...an asshole for a mother...nt |
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WI_DEM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 11:27 AM Response to Original message |
356. I don't know if I approve of the sign thing, maybe tutoring at school or a special school |
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DireStrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 12:21 PM Response to Original message |
360. Who cares. |
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Javaman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 01:05 PM Response to Original message |
362. I had an asshole living in the house behind mine when I was a kid... |
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snooper2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 01:11 PM Response to Original message |
363. This thread is fucking GREATNESS |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 01:13 PM Response to Reply #363 |
364. Local DJs in Atlanta blame teachers for not doing their jobs. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 01:52 PM Response to Original message |
367. Folks, as I said before, my dad did this to me as a child. IT DID NOT WORK. |
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jdp349 (372 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 03:07 PM Response to Original message |
377. This thread delivers! |
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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 03:25 PM Response to Reply #377 |
378. It sure did. Funny how every topic initiates arguments. |
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Douglas Carpenter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-22-11 10:07 PM Response to Original message |
384. I cannot possibly be reading on a progressive website that there are people who actually think this |
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