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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-01-11 10:27 PM Original message |
Slut Shame: Why Do We Still Attack Women for Having Sex? |
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Tansy_Gold (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-01-11 10:31 PM Response to Original message |
1. K&R from a proudly unrehabilitated sexual woman |
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Xipe Totec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-01-11 10:33 PM Response to Original message |
2. You Men - by Sor Juana Inez de la Cruz 1651-1695 |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-01-11 11:47 PM Response to Reply #2 |
13. I like this poem, but... |
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Xipe Totec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-01-11 11:56 PM Response to Reply #13 |
17. Consider her position as a nun in the Spanish society of the XVII th century |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 12:05 AM Response to Reply #17 |
19. Believe me, I know who Sor Juana was. |
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Xipe Totec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 12:21 AM Response to Reply #19 |
25. But that's exactly how her poem reads to me |
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meow2u3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 09:55 AM Response to Reply #2 |
49. She was definitely born about 400 years too soon |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-01-11 10:33 PM Response to Original message |
3. I call it the legacy of Eve... |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-01-11 10:42 PM Response to Reply #3 |
7. Yup. And the serpent who led her astray was only 6" long, not ... |
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midnight (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 05:02 PM Response to Reply #7 |
74. O god that is too funny..... In all the years of the snake story never heard it put better... |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 07:11 PM Response to Reply #74 |
78. . |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-03-11 09:45 AM Response to Reply #7 |
109. like |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-03-11 01:36 PM Response to Reply #109 |
114. thanks |
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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-01-11 10:34 PM Response to Original message |
4. k&r |
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provis99 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-01-11 10:35 PM Response to Original message |
5. I wonder though; |
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leftstreet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-01-11 10:36 PM Response to Reply #5 |
6. I rarely hear other guys use that term |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-01-11 10:43 PM Response to Reply #6 |
8. Precisely. |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 08:11 AM Response to Reply #6 |
45. No, men use the "C" word |
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vssmith (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 12:28 PM Response to Reply #45 |
60. Bill Maher recently used the "T" word |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 09:22 PM Response to Reply #60 |
90. Just as reprehensible. |
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unc70 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 05:44 PM Response to Reply #45 |
77. Use of "C" word, like the "D", is more like "AH". Not really about sex |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-03-11 09:44 AM Response to Reply #77 |
108. Well, I have never used the "C" word. |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 09:21 PM Response to Reply #45 |
89. I HATE that word!!!! |
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janet118 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 10:03 PM Response to Reply #89 |
95. There is something more repulsive about that word than the others |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 08:46 PM Response to Reply #6 |
85. I have heard from men who enjoyed time with the women they called "sluts." |
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socialist_n_TN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-03-11 09:25 PM Response to Reply #85 |
124. Don't put us all in the same boat......... |
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Liquorice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-01-11 10:48 PM Response to Reply #5 |
9. The type of man who devalues |
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TorchTheWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 12:20 AM Response to Reply #9 |
24. and the ones that won't have sex with them are called bitches |
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Liquorice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 12:44 AM Response to Reply #24 |
28. Oh yes, the "stuck up bitch" who won't sleep with them. |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 11:04 AM Response to Reply #24 |
54. yes |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 08:48 PM Response to Reply #24 |
86. Yes, we're either sluts or bitches; imagine if men faced that kind of judgment about their sexual |
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av8rdave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-03-11 09:54 PM Response to Reply #9 |
125. What I find ironic about this is... |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-01-11 11:39 PM Response to Reply #5 |
12. I think women slut-shame other women far more than men do. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-01-11 11:48 PM Response to Reply #12 |
15. i agree with you |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 12:13 AM Response to Reply #15 |
22. Thanks! |
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dana_b (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 12:09 PM Response to Reply #12 |
57. regarding |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 08:18 PM Response to Reply #57 |
80. Um, a feminist is anyone who believe that women deserve human rights |
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apocalypsehow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 03:26 PM Response to Reply #12 |
66. I think this post should be its own OP: I haven't thought along these lines before, and I learned |
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Yavin4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 04:26 PM Response to Reply #12 |
70. +1 |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 10:10 PM Response to Reply #12 |
96. That was a main premise in Warren Farrell's book |
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tammywammy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-03-11 02:24 PM Response to Reply #12 |
116. Good point n/t |
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ceile (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-04-11 04:09 PM Response to Reply #12 |
130. +1 n/t |
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grahamhgreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-01-11 11:03 PM Response to Original message |
10. K&R. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-01-11 11:13 PM Response to Original message |
11. We're in a deeply conflicted society. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 12:19 AM Response to Reply #11 |
23. uh...yeah...women DO get raped, occasionally. |
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davidthegnome (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 12:34 AM Response to Reply #23 |
26. He wasn't saying otherwise |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 12:48 AM Response to Reply #26 |
31. Hello, and no it is not a sensitive subject for me in any way. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 01:05 AM Response to Reply #26 |
33. I suppose I'm wondering why you feel entitled to speak for women. |
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davidthegnome (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 01:54 AM Response to Reply #33 |
37. How am I doing that? |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 02:36 AM Response to Reply #37 |
38. Oh, that's great. Apology accepted. |
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Hugabear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 12:35 PM Response to Reply #38 |
61. Are you talking about that particular person, or all men in general? |
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davidthegnome (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 03:21 PM Response to Reply #38 |
65. Initially I was going to ignore this... however... |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 09:27 PM Response to Reply #23 |
92. I mentioned that some women make misrepresentations... |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 11:43 PM Response to Reply #92 |
103. Not deleted yet? Perhaps there's hope.... |
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Liquorice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 12:47 AM Response to Reply #11 |
30. Yes, men everywhere are at the "mercy of wretched and selfish women." Men |
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davidthegnome (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 12:52 AM Response to Reply #30 |
32. Yeah, that was over the top |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 11:29 PM Response to Reply #32 |
102. No, it wasn't. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 09:49 PM Response to Reply #30 |
94. I beg your pardon? |
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chervilant (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-04-11 02:52 AM Response to Reply #94 |
126. hmm... |
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davidthegnome (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 01:10 AM Response to Reply #11 |
34. Too much zeal |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 11:03 PM Response to Reply #34 |
100. Not 'zeal', just pain. I appreciate your thoughtful reply. |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 03:09 AM Response to Reply #11 |
40. It is not "taken as gospel" |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 09:04 PM Response to Reply #40 |
88. Tell a man who's been shot that bullets don't hurt... |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-03-11 09:19 AM Response to Reply #88 |
107. I don't agree. It's the accuser, male or female, who is taken |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-03-11 05:16 PM Response to Reply #107 |
118. I don't doubt that is often the case, however; |
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JackDragna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-01-11 11:48 PM Response to Original message |
14. ATTENTION WOMEN: Past sexual experience is fine by me! |
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Zoeisright (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-01-11 11:51 PM Response to Original message |
16. Because misogyny is deeply rooted in the human psyche. |
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Mimosa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 12:03 AM Response to Original message |
18. Women are dirty and horny and we attract men? |
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Norrin Radd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 07:04 AM Response to Reply #18 |
44. The Brits call them "dirty pillows." |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 09:04 PM Response to Reply #44 |
87. So did Carrie's mother. |
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blogslut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 12:05 AM Response to Original message |
20. I like the word-reclaiming idea too |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 12:10 AM Response to Original message |
21. If I'm with a man I like, |
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freshwest (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 12:38 AM Response to Original message |
27. K & R |
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Mimosa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 12:46 AM Response to Original message |
29. Reclaiming 'slut' is like people reclaimng the N word: it will harm us. n/t |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 01:30 AM Response to Reply #29 |
35. if it's about sex, who cares?! Sex is something people do. |
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Liquorice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 01:35 AM Response to Reply #29 |
36. I agree. It's just the same. nt |
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upi402 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 03:01 AM Response to Original message |
39. I don't, don't know anyone who does |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 03:10 AM Response to Original message |
41. And "desperate" if we take the initiative |
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no_hypocrisy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 06:33 AM Response to Original message |
42. It's a quaint American/Puritan tradition . . . . . . |
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FLPanhandle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 06:44 AM Response to Original message |
43. Part of it is male ego |
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socialist_n_TN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 11:08 AM Response to Reply #43 |
55. I put it down to more societal expectations......... |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 12:11 PM Response to Reply #43 |
58. Yes. Partly this. |
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Liquorice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 08:31 PM Response to Reply #58 |
83. Women are seen as fully adult in our society. To suggest otherwise is insane. nt |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 11:08 PM Response to Reply #83 |
101. And yet you don't address the point. |
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Liquorice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-03-11 05:38 PM Response to Reply #101 |
119. Do you consider the concept "boys will be boys" a patronizing concept? nt |
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Rozlee (821 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 09:30 PM Response to Reply #43 |
93. I think it's plain gender jealousy. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 11:59 PM Response to Reply #93 |
104. Your last sentence is a good example of the OP's example from the female POV |
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FLPanhandle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-03-11 09:50 AM Response to Reply #93 |
110. I don't think it's jealousy as much as how many men group women into two classes |
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Rozlee (821 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-03-11 06:49 PM Response to Reply #110 |
121. I dunno. I don't see anyone casting asperations on man-sluts. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-03-11 12:18 AM Response to Reply #43 |
105. No, you're not 'guessing'... |
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FLPanhandle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-03-11 09:54 AM Response to Reply #105 |
111. True. |
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Dash87 (404 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 08:20 AM Response to Original message |
46. Because men still feel like they own women like a piece of property. |
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PeaceNikki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 09:31 AM Response to Original message |
47. K&R |
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otohara (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 09:54 AM Response to Original message |
48. Men Who Call Women Sluts |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 09:59 AM Response to Original message |
50. The word "tart" sounds better. |
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timo (890 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 10:02 AM Response to Original message |
51. not me |
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socialist_n_TN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 10:05 AM Response to Original message |
52. I never have used the word as a pejorative........... |
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ladywnch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 10:23 AM Response to Original message |
53. it's very simple. all women are evil. just look to the bible. |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 11:20 AM Response to Original message |
56. men didn't have much power |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 12:13 PM Response to Original message |
59. I don't think it's just women. Tiger Woods got plenty of condemnation here |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 12:39 PM Response to Reply #59 |
62. If he had an agreement with his wife, that's one thing |
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RevStPatrick (564 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 01:30 PM Response to Original message |
63. I was raised on a steady diet of "sluts" |
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BrklynLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 02:29 PM Response to Original message |
64. The double standard still exists.... |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 03:30 PM Response to Original message |
67. Perhaps we could help by dropping the term "slut shame"? |
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Skidmore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 03:32 PM Response to Original message |
68. Sexual mores have not caught up with the technology of paternity. |
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Joey Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 04:08 PM Response to Original message |
69. It's not fair to women. nt |
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Fire Walk With Me (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 04:30 PM Response to Original message |
71. Perhaps men are simply projecting upon women, their own insecurity and shame. |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 04:32 PM Response to Original message |
72. I don't know, but if people do things instinctively there's often... |
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felix_numinous (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 05:01 PM Response to Original message |
73. Religious conservatives |
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Liquorice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 08:28 PM Response to Reply #73 |
82. It's not just religious conservatives who call women sluts. nt |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 10:29 PM Response to Reply #82 |
99. Zealots of all kinds of stripe do. It's more the zealotry than the philosophy |
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ZombieHorde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 05:07 PM Response to Original message |
75. r |
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KG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 05:40 PM Response to Original message |
76. personally, i don't find the word (or concept) 'slut' to be a pejorative |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 07:57 PM Response to Original message |
79. Certainly agree with the premise of the article .... EXCEPT where it might be taken |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 08:24 PM Response to Original message |
81. Lotta people in this society are still way too uptight about sex and sexuality. |
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Initech (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 08:44 PM Response to Original message |
84. Those who can't get laid take it out in those who can. |
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w8liftinglady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 09:25 PM Response to Original message |
91. My co-workers made fun of me as I drove to my partner's house |
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PatentlyDemocratic (15 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 10:13 PM Response to Original message |
97. Promiscuity is irresponsible regardless of gender |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-02-11 10:22 PM Response to Reply #97 |
98. Equal opportunity finger-waggers are still judgmental jerks. |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-04-11 02:56 AM Response to Reply #98 |
127. +1,000,000 |
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Runework (141 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-03-11 12:46 AM Response to Reply #97 |
106. How is 'promiscuity' a lack of 'respect' for one's body? |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-03-11 10:10 AM Response to Reply #106 |
113. Good point. nt |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-03-11 06:59 PM Response to Reply #97 |
122. oddly porn industry workers have the lowest rate of hiv/aids in the us |
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Liquorice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-03-11 07:12 PM Response to Reply #122 |
123. I seriously doubt that. Working in porn is high risk for HIV and other STD's. nt |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-04-11 02:57 AM Response to Reply #97 |
128. Worrying about or judging the sex lives of other consenting adults that you're not involved with |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-03-11 10:02 AM Response to Original message |
112. Yet the porn industry is flourishng |
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RagAss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-03-11 02:20 PM Response to Original message |
115. Who gives a shit. Why put a spotlight on this? |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-03-11 06:40 PM Response to Reply #115 |
120. i think women who are smeared by the slut label care |
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unc70 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-03-11 05:07 PM Response to Original message |
117. Not for having sex in private, but for taking it public and "scaring the horses" |
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Blue_Tires (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-04-11 04:00 PM Response to Reply #117 |
129. excellent insights.... |
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