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Botany (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:32 AM Original message |
DU you help please. Am I a jerk or a good dad? |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:33 AM Response to Original message |
1. We don't teach HIstory anymore |
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Botany (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:42 AM Response to Reply #1 |
7. But just by reading in English classes one might have ... |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:46 AM Response to Reply #7 |
13. Yes that's true. |
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YvonneCa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 06:18 PM Response to Reply #1 |
92. I was just going to say that.... |
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tekisui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:33 AM Response to Original message |
2. The two aren't mutually exclusive. You could be both in this instance. |
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Hangingon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:43 AM Response to Reply #2 |
9. Texas TAKS tests social studies at 8th, 10th and exit levels. |
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Logical (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:35 AM Response to Original message |
3. I don't think most kids would at that age. You may be 100% right on the MTV etc..... |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:53 AM Response to Reply #3 |
20. my kids love watching mythbusters and history stuff. they watch liberty's kids |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:36 AM Response to Original message |
4. I generally set the bar a little higher for jerkdom |
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Peregrine Took (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:38 AM Response to Original message |
5. I say a jerk. |
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Peregrine Took (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:43 AM Response to Reply #5 |
10. Unless you did it in a kidding way. |
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FLPanhandle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:39 AM Response to Original message |
6. I just asked my 15 yo daughter if she knew what a Hearth was...she did. |
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snappyturtle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:43 AM Response to Original message |
8. You being shocked is not being a jerk. I, too, would have been |
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October (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:44 AM Response to Original message |
11. Everyone has those moments... |
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blogslut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:45 AM Response to Original message |
12. When I wanted to know the meaning of a word |
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gateley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 01:01 PM Response to Reply #12 |
57. Me, too. Glad they did. nt |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 02:04 PM Response to Reply #12 |
73. Yes, except now I tell them to google it. |
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ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:46 AM Response to Original message |
14. He may have seen the word in written form, but never heard it spoken |
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tularetom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:49 AM Response to Original message |
15. Nobody that tells his kid to read more is a jerk |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:49 AM Response to Original message |
16. I have a female friend, who, at the age of 65 or so... |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:51 AM Response to Original message |
17. why should you act surprised that a 16 year old wouldn't know what a hearth is. |
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laundry_queen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 01:00 PM Response to Reply #17 |
54. yeah |
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Boojatta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:51 AM Response to Original message |
18. You are simply mistaken. |
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Botany (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:56 AM Response to Reply #18 |
21. Well I have already been working on the culture part |
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Biker13 (609 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 01:00 PM Response to Reply #21 |
55. You're A HORRIBLE Dad! |
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Botany (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 06:14 PM Response to Reply #55 |
91. You're A HORRIBLE Dad! |
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deacon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 09:19 PM Response to Reply #91 |
99. Leaving out Young Frankenstein would make you a horrible dad. n/t |
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Skidmore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:52 AM Response to Original message |
19. Golden opportunity for a little dictionary work when you got home. |
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ZombieHorde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:58 AM Response to Original message |
22. The only reason I knew about hearths when I was your son's age was because I was a big |
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in_cog_ni_to (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:59 AM Response to Original message |
23. I get that stuff all the time from my 18 year old son. |
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panader0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 11:59 AM Response to Original message |
24. I've been a bricklayer for 38 years |
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Botany (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:02 PM Response to Reply #24 |
25. thank you |
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SOS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:02 PM Response to Original message |
26. It could be worse |
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redwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 03:02 PM Response to Reply #26 |
80. oh dear. |
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formernaderite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:03 PM Response to Original message |
27. my grandaughter knows the meaning of hearth .... |
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TuxedoKat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:03 PM Response to Original message |
28. I have the same problem |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:06 PM Response to Original message |
29. How often do you read? |
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Drale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:07 PM Response to Original message |
30. I agree with him |
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Peacetrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:13 PM Response to Original message |
31. Try this.. remove the vowels.. hrth |
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JohnnyRingo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:46 PM Response to Reply #31 |
49. Now that's funny right there. |
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immoderate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 06:30 PM Response to Reply #49 |
96. Remember, it's a kind of beer.... |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:13 PM Response to Original message |
32. You're a good dad nt |
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Botany (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:26 PM Response to Reply #32 |
36. Did I ever tell you that you are my Fave? |
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no_hypocrisy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:16 PM Response to Original message |
33. It's possible he knows the concept of "hearth" but has heard it referred to as a "fireplace". |
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ashleyforachange (91 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:28 PM Response to Reply #33 |
37. Its probably true... |
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Bluenorthwest (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:48 PM Response to Reply #37 |
50. A hearth is a part of a fireplace, it is not 'a fireplace' anymore |
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TorchTheWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 07:54 PM Response to Reply #50 |
97. it isn't just part of a fireplace |
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Sheepshank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:20 PM Response to Original message |
34. If one skips the Disney movie version of Cinderella |
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Taitertots (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:25 PM Response to Original message |
35. He should quit watching MTV and read a book |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:29 PM Response to Original message |
38. Perhaps your reaction makes him afraid to ask questions and reveal he doesn't know something? |
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Botany (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:42 PM Response to Reply #38 |
44. i did not insult him |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:32 PM Response to Original message |
39. hearth isn't that unusual a word. no, a jerk you weren't and i would have been surprised |
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JohnnyRingo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:36 PM Response to Original message |
40. My 16 year old grandaughter would likely have a hard time defining "cassette tape" |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:37 PM Response to Original message |
41. I gather your son is not a big reader. |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:51 PM Response to Reply #41 |
52. Very likely. |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:38 PM Response to Original message |
42. Literacy is more difficult to acquire these days. Ask him who Snooki is. |
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Greybnk48 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:40 PM Response to Original message |
43. Do You have a fireplace in your home? |
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Botany (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:44 PM Response to Original message |
45. Update he texted 10 friends and so far the 5 who have ... |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:45 PM Response to Original message |
46. I think that you |
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toddwv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:45 PM Response to Original message |
47. Hearth isn't completely obscure, but I can see why he wouldn't know what a hearth is. |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:45 PM Response to Original message |
48. Do you think he knows about an hour glass? |
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gateley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:49 PM Response to Original message |
51. Did he ever have Cinderella read to him? I think that's where I learned what |
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Gregorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 12:58 PM Response to Original message |
53. The anger is counterproductive. |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 01:01 PM Response to Original message |
56. It's up to YOU to limit time in front of MTV, expose your kid to Am. Heritage sites, insist he read |
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Nancy Waterman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 01:06 PM Response to Original message |
58. You are a jerk |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 01:08 PM Response to Original message |
59. You might consider actually teaching when these teaching moments occur, |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 01:09 PM Response to Original message |
60. "acted" shocked? You should have just been plain "shocked" |
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Hissyspit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 01:14 PM Response to Original message |
61. I remember being confused by the term hearth for a long time. I think I got it figured out around 14 |
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DemReadingDU (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 01:27 PM Response to Original message |
62. How much do Americans know about US history? |
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cherokeeprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 01:33 PM Response to Original message |
63. Is it harth, or herth? |
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DemReadingDU (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 01:38 PM Response to Reply #63 |
64. hearth |
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cherokeeprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 01:39 PM Response to Reply #64 |
65. Um... now I feel even stupider... |
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DemReadingDU (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 01:40 PM Response to Reply #65 |
66. LOL |
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SheilaT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 03:37 PM Response to Reply #63 |
82. Actually, I blame Sesame Street |
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cherokeeprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 06:18 PM Response to Reply #82 |
93. Excellent points. |
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IcyPeas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 01:48 PM Response to Original message |
67. do kids read books in school anymore? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 02:02 PM Response to Reply #67 |
72. my kids must have 200 books in closet and other shelves but YES they read a lot in school |
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Randypiper (527 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 01:53 PM Response to Original message |
68. Ask him if he knows who the speaker of the house is. |
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DemReadingDU (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 01:58 PM Response to Reply #68 |
70. Be sure to watch those Jay Leno videos I posted in #62 |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 02:09 PM Response to Reply #68 |
74. both boys said pelosi and when i reminded them repugs took it, the youngest 13 |
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dana_b (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 01:54 PM Response to Original message |
69. teach him, don't scold him |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 02:00 PM Response to Original message |
71. 13 year old thought meant homey comfortable place in house. almost 16 yr old knew what it meant |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 02:20 PM Response to Original message |
75. Does your family make time for education? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 02:32 PM Response to Reply #75 |
76. education is not a "job" to be relegated to somebody else |
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Motown_Johnny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 02:44 PM Response to Original message |
77. I take it you don't let him play World Of Warcraft |
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NYC Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 02:52 PM Response to Original message |
78. Of all the words not to know, "hearth" isn't that terrible....but |
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onethatcares (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 02:57 PM Response to Original message |
79. give the kid a break unless you have a fireplace and a hearth |
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themadstork (797 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 03:08 PM Response to Original message |
81. A jerk. |
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SheilaT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 03:43 PM Response to Original message |
83. Acting upset, no matter how bothered |
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Zax2me (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 03:48 PM Response to Original message |
84. You should have informed him what it was, not get upset. |
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Canuckistanian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 03:51 PM Response to Original message |
85. Zounds! What fibbertygibbets, these youths of today |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 03:53 PM Response to Original message |
86. Being critical when the kid asked an honest question |
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MilesColtrane (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 03:58 PM Response to Original message |
87. Start making him do the shopping. |
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louslobbs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 04:54 PM Response to Original message |
88. It sounds like you're probably a good dad, but it was how you responded to his not knowing something |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 06:03 PM Response to Original message |
89. Kids have gaps in their knowledge... |
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Botany (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 06:13 PM Response to Reply #89 |
90. I did not ridicule him. |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 06:21 PM Response to Reply #90 |
94. According to this, you sorta did |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 06:23 PM Response to Reply #90 |
95. Well, let's look at it this way... |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 08:07 PM Response to Original message |
98. Neither. I'd say an idiot. |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 09:26 PM Response to Reply #98 |
101. This is the correct answer. But jerk, too. |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 09:21 PM Response to Original message |
100. Like most parents at one time or other you were a jerk |
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unkachuck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-09-11 09:28 PM Response to Original message |
102. K&R....definately a good Dad! |
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