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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:19 PM Original message |
Poll question: Is it really possible for an adult to find a 10 year old sexy, regardless of what |
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MineralMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:20 PM Response to Original message |
1. Not possible for this adult. |
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PeaceNikki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:22 PM Response to Original message |
2. No. No way. uh uh. Nope. |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:24 PM Response to Original message |
3. If someone's wearing clothing that says "Hey, check me out" |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:25 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. lol |
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anarch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:26 PM Response to Reply #3 |
7. although how a "juicy" ass is supposed to be attractive, I'm not real sure |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:30 PM Response to Reply #3 |
10. That doesn't necessarily make the wearer sexy, does it? (nt) |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:36 PM Response to Reply #10 |
17. There are many ways of defining sexy |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:49 PM Response to Reply #17 |
32. Just because a 10-year-old defines her/himself as sexy doesn't excuse the ADULT |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:56 PM Response to Reply #32 |
38. So your definition of sexy |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:00 PM Response to Reply #38 |
45. Finished discussing with you. Your reading comprehension leaves much to be desired |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:57 PM Response to Reply #32 |
41. you are right. there is also the parents job in teaching the kids personal responsibility |
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MineralMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:23 PM Response to Reply #41 |
117. Good example. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 04:41 PM Response to Reply #117 |
142. i just do not even kinda get that uncomfortable feel anymore. too many traps |
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MineralMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 06:46 PM Response to Reply #142 |
155. I agree completely. It's just one of those things that parents have |
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littlewolf (920 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:26 PM Response to Original message |
5. sexy - nope ... cute I can work with .... as in cute as a button ... nt |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:26 PM Response to Original message |
6. It doesn't seem to me that this is the sole, or even necessarily the most significant, problem with |
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Morning Dew (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:27 PM Response to Original message |
8. If they were born on Leap Day, maybe. |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:29 PM Response to Original message |
9. The one person who answered "Yes" is either messin' around or indulging an illusion |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:33 PM Response to Reply #9 |
12. 2 |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:34 PM Response to Reply #9 |
14. And how about accounting for the illusion that, though one may not be one one's self, there are NO |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:38 PM Response to Reply #14 |
19. The definition of pedophile does not hinge on "acting upon" that attraction. (nt) |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:41 PM Response to Reply #19 |
24. That's my point and, by implication, the definition of "acting" or how we |
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Aerows (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:37 PM Response to Reply #9 |
18. Exactly |
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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:33 PM Response to Original message |
11. Don't ask us....ask the pedophiles out there. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:35 PM Response to Reply #11 |
15. because kids who dress conservatively dont get attacked by pedophiles? |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:39 PM Response to Reply #15 |
20. Because dressing like a slut has direct or indirect consequences of various kinds to |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:44 PM Response to Reply #20 |
26. so you think kids who dress conservatively dont get attacked? |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:06 PM Response to Reply #26 |
51. Please quote where I said any of that and I will respond. Thanks. nt |
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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:40 PM Response to Reply #15 |
22. I wouldn't expect you to understand it. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:44 PM Response to Reply #22 |
27. i think there is no way a kid could dress like a 'tramp'. nt |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:59 PM Response to Reply #27 |
42. An interesting viewpoint. |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:13 PM Response to Reply #27 |
54. Indeed. This thread is making me ill. nt |
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eowyn_of_rohan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:15 PM Response to Reply #54 |
59. me too... |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:23 PM Response to Reply #59 |
67. me three. i regret starting it. |
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PeaceNikki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:46 PM Response to Reply #67 |
88. Me, also, too. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:47 PM Response to Reply #88 |
90. also very victim blaming, cos you know before the advent of the bikini for little girls |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:59 PM Response to Reply #90 |
98. Over-generalization: because someone says that a person is responsible for their behavior, that does |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 08:07 PM Response to Reply #98 |
161. "provocative child". That's where you go wrong. A child is NOT provocative |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:42 PM Response to Reply #90 |
121. P.S. The ultimate victimhood: stuff the kid can do absolutely nothing about. |
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eowyn_of_rohan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:01 PM Response to Reply #67 |
99. can you put it out of its misery? |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:18 PM Response to Reply #99 |
112. wow. Not PC enough for you? hmmmm . . . nt |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:56 PM Response to Reply #99 |
128. BTW, who appointed you gatekeeper for the rest of us? Kind of authoritarian, don't you think? |
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eowyn_of_rohan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 04:23 PM Response to Reply #128 |
134. just asked |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 04:35 PM Response to Reply #67 |
138. don't know what you were expecting |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 04:36 PM Response to Reply #138 |
139. perhaps you are right. i thought framing the controversy in this way |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:41 PM Response to Reply #27 |
84. When I was 10 I dressed like a tramp |
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MineralMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:56 PM Response to Reply #84 |
129. LOL! |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 08:27 PM Response to Reply #84 |
166. bwahahahahah!!!! n/t |
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BobbyBoring (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:02 PM Response to Reply #27 |
101. I don't know |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 04:37 PM Response to Reply #101 |
140. it clearly says that besides pedophiles do people find 10 year olds sexy |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 05:02 PM Response to Reply #140 |
154. Words like "sexy" are imprecise, and can mean different things to people at different times |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:34 PM Response to Original message |
13. Only a pedophile could see a 10-year-old that way |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:36 PM Response to Reply #13 |
16. i have been told by posters on this board, once girl hits puberty, fair game. 10? i ask |
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MineralMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:47 PM Response to Reply #16 |
30. Posters who say that are just flat wrong. |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:13 PM Response to Reply #30 |
58. Thank you for a very sensible post. nt |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:52 PM Response to Reply #16 |
94. There are some bona fide idiots who post on this board |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 05:00 PM Response to Reply #94 |
152. there are certain things that have been said to me on this board, that i can. not. get. out. |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:04 PM Response to Reply #13 |
46. Therefore, it is impossible for anyone to observe, say, that some people like mountain-oysters |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:49 PM Response to Reply #46 |
93. Nice non-sequitur |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:53 PM Response to Reply #93 |
96. Saying that doesn't make it so. You said only a pedophile can recognize pedophilia. That's the |
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moriah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:56 PM Response to Reply #96 |
97. What they said was only a pedophile could see a 10 year old as sexy. |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:43 PM Response to Reply #96 |
122. I did not say that only a pedophile can recognize pedophilia |
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moriah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:53 PM Response to Reply #46 |
95. Yes, you can observe that some people are pedophiles without being one yourself. n/t |
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leftstreet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:39 PM Response to Original message |
21. Power, dominance, control, entitlement is the turn-on for these freaks |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:41 PM Response to Original message |
23. Bona fide pedophiles excepted, no. |
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Hosnon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:43 PM Response to Original message |
25. This may be unpopular, but it's my honest opinion: |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:57 PM Response to Reply #25 |
40. The caveat I would add, though, |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:30 PM Response to Reply #40 |
71. Not to mention music and movies. What do people think girls are screaming about when they see |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:46 PM Response to Original message |
28. Ew. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:05 PM Response to Reply #28 |
48. well said. nt |
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immoderate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:46 PM Response to Original message |
29. Depends on what means by sexy... |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:59 PM Response to Reply #29 |
44. 1+ |
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OhioDoink (52 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:49 PM Response to Original message |
31. Nope. |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:50 PM Response to Original message |
33. Does the OP'er think it's possible to sexualize a 10 year old girl? |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:52 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. no. i think its possible to make a 10 year old creepy looking with excessive makeup |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:56 PM Response to Reply #34 |
39. Here's a quote from the article posted in another thread indicating girls are sexualized |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:59 PM Response to Reply #39 |
43. the article quote from apa is editorialized. i believe that advertising to kids |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:06 PM Response to Reply #39 |
50. You seem to know everything about how prostitutes and tramps dress. |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:13 PM Response to Reply #50 |
55. "and whatever happens to me will be my fault"? Never would imply such a thing. |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:21 PM Response to Reply #55 |
64. Well, I never received the How to Dress Like a Tramp memo |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:09 PM Response to Reply #34 |
53. Ergo, the meanings of all things are limited to what you say they are. nt |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:53 PM Response to Original message |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:53 PM Response to Original message |
36. Can anyone tell me why this whole conversation is limited to how I/you react instead of |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 01:54 PM Response to Original message |
37. Um...nuh-uh. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:04 PM Response to Original message |
47. i bet if this was stated in the context of a muslim country |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 08:10 PM Response to Reply #47 |
162. You are sooooo bad!!! |
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mn9driver (877 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:05 PM Response to Original message |
49. Assuming one isn't a pedophile? |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:07 PM Response to Reply #49 |
52. yes, but pedophiles find 10 years old sexy regardless of what they wear |
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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:28 PM Response to Reply #52 |
70. So, in your opinion, child porn is not a problem. Really ALL pictures of kids are the problem. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:31 PM Response to Reply #70 |
73. no child porn is a problem. how is children being used as sexual objects not a problem |
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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:40 PM Response to Reply #73 |
83. You are defending people who participate in "child porn" willingly. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:42 PM Response to Reply #83 |
86. no i am not, i am saying you are creating a false equivalence |
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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:04 PM Response to Reply #86 |
105. You mean.... |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 08:14 PM Response to Reply #105 |
163. Uh, you just reframed La Lioness Priyanka's response to mean something totally different |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 08:32 PM Response to Reply #105 |
168. you can't use quotes, if you wont quote honestly. |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:39 PM Response to Reply #70 |
82. 1+ = Absolutists, read that authoritarians, trip over themselves all of the time. |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:22 PM Response to Reply #49 |
65. bingo. It's like telling a starving person who's watching you eat an ice-cream cone to not be hungry |
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MineralMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:13 PM Response to Original message |
56. Appropriate clothing for little girls... |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:46 PM Response to Reply #56 |
87. Works for me, if freely, as possible, chosen. The girls in this country could do worse than |
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MineralMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:01 PM Response to Reply #87 |
100. Well, every kid is different, but parents have a lot to do with |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:07 PM Response to Reply #100 |
106. I like your point about emphasis, too much one way or the other creates REAL problems and |
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MineralMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:15 PM Response to Reply #106 |
110. Yeah. Raising children is a pretty complex thing. |
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hlthe2b (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:13 PM Response to Original message |
57. "Sexy?" No... dressed too "provocatively adult" for the age... yes. |
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howard112211 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:15 PM Response to Original message |
60. AFAIK, studies show that most men can find prepubescent children attractive, |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:25 PM Response to Reply #60 |
68. 1+ and not wanting to admit that about "normal" people is part of what appears to be |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:36 PM Response to Reply #60 |
79. OK, I get it. |
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howard112211 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:48 PM Response to Reply #79 |
91. Basically yes. Morality is defined by actions, not by thoughts or feelings. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-20-11 12:02 AM Response to Reply #60 |
191. the site was blocked so couldnt read, but |
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qazplm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:15 PM Response to Original message |
61. ordinarily no |
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eggplant (395 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:18 PM Response to Original message |
62. Some people find fire hydrants sexy. |
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hlthe2b (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:23 PM Response to Reply #62 |
66. Not even the sheep are safe in some parts of the country... |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:18 PM Response to Original message |
63. Maybe I'll go look it up, but I think it's generally recognized that children do have their own sexu |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:32 PM Response to Reply #63 |
75. yes, children have their own sexuality. which again has nothing to do |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:47 PM Response to Reply #75 |
89. Nothing? You're denying millenia of hard-wiring. You lose. nt |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:48 PM Response to Reply #89 |
92. LOL |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:03 PM Response to Reply #92 |
103. Please respond to my point, i.e. discount ALL of evolution. nt |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 04:41 PM Response to Reply #103 |
143. I think she gave your point all due consideration. |
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ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:26 PM Response to Original message |
69. I think the CNN guy made a factual observation |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:33 PM Response to Reply #69 |
76. trampy and sexy are value judgments, not simple observations. |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:30 PM Response to Original message |
72. the thread which speak of consequences... |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:32 PM Response to Reply #72 |
74. False dichotomies are not reality based. You're over-generalizing, otherwise I might agree with you. |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:36 PM Response to Reply #74 |
78. When they're false, yes. |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:42 PM Response to Reply #78 |
85. True. I should have used a phrase something like "This possibly false dichotomy.." Tks for the catch |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:35 PM Response to Reply #72 |
77. i agree. i think if this had been a muslim cleric writing to tell parents |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:37 PM Response to Reply #77 |
80. Precisely. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 02:38 PM Response to Reply #80 |
81. i almost want to pose as a muslim cleric to write an article like that |
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DireStrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:02 PM Response to Original message |
102. It really depends on the development rate of the child |
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themadstork (797 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 10:54 PM Response to Reply #102 |
186. Yeah. |
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Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:04 PM Response to Original message |
104. How? Please explain what is sexy about a ten year old! |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:12 PM Response to Reply #104 |
108. Take a look at PsycLit or a DSM someday. It's a fact that manifests itself in various degrees in |
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Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:21 PM Response to Reply #108 |
115. It is a mental condition, common sense tells the average person |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:54 PM Response to Reply #115 |
127. Conditioning, some of it more hardwired, some of it more arbitrary. The measure of freedom, |
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libmom74 (577 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:11 PM Response to Original message |
107. As the mother of a |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:15 PM Response to Reply #107 |
109. How much of the thread have you actually read? Researched? nt |
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libmom74 (577 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:21 PM Response to Reply #109 |
116. Enough to |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:48 PM Response to Reply #116 |
124. I have no objection to that. & There are a BUNCH of stuff going on in this thread. One of |
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cliffordu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:17 PM Response to Original message |
111. Uh, finding a 10 year old sexy defines a pedophile. |
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qazplm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:26 PM Response to Reply #111 |
118. well |
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cliffordu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:29 PM Response to Reply #118 |
119. A 10 year old? Really??? |
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MacNfries (66 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:19 PM Response to Original message |
113. well, a lot of adult males seem to like to respond to threads like this ... |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:46 PM Response to Reply #113 |
123. Normal adult males have an instinct to protect children |
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Guy Whitey Corngood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:19 PM Response to Original message |
114. Not only no but fuck NO. nt |
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frebrd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:41 PM Response to Original message |
120. No, I don't think a ten-year-old in sexy clothing....... |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:52 PM Response to Reply #120 |
125. I always think of the late Jon-Benet Ramsey, and how revolting I find her parents. |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 04:01 PM Response to Reply #125 |
130. According to some people in this thread, those parents did nothing wrong. There was no sexuality |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 04:06 PM Response to Reply #130 |
131. I have a degree in psychology, and am very well aware of what constitutes a norm |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 04:32 PM Response to Reply #131 |
135. A norm is a mathematic derivation acquired from measurments that vary from very high to very low. |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 04:40 PM Response to Reply #135 |
141. The point being that, though the mixed factors are more probable, it still matters a GREAT deal |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 05:01 PM Response to Reply #141 |
153. In terms of criminal law and morality, overt behavior is all that matters |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 04:35 PM Response to Reply #131 |
137. thank you. i too have a degree in psychology |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 04:42 PM Response to Reply #137 |
145. Well then, one would think you'd be better acquainted with the literature on sexuality in children. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 04:45 PM Response to Reply #145 |
146. your debating style is to draw false equivalence, blame victims and |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 04:45 PM Response to Reply #137 |
147. I have a degree in Psychology, too. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 04:48 PM Response to Reply #147 |
150. blaming a 10 year old clothes for her potential rape or attack |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 07:21 PM Response to Reply #150 |
158. wow. only read about 50% of the posts but have seen nowhere blame for potential rape or attack |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 07:42 PM Response to Reply #158 |
159. yeah, i am not surprised you dont. nt |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 07:49 PM Response to Reply #159 |
160. really? are you stating that i think a child is asking for rape? or attack? what a disgusting |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 08:19 PM Response to Reply #160 |
165. i didnt say that. you're funny. you make up an accusation, then get outraged about it. nt |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 08:32 PM Response to Reply #165 |
167. then what were you saying. i asked where someone is saying the 10 yr old is askin for rape or |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 08:34 PM Response to Reply #167 |
170. i'll post only one example though there are several. i dont want to get into trouble for call outs |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 08:48 PM Response to Reply #170 |
176. thank you. nt |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 04:33 PM Response to Reply #120 |
136. yeah i can agree with that in many situations. jon benet comes to mind |
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tishaLA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 03:53 PM Response to Original message |
126. There's a famous portrait of Brooke Shields by Avedon or Scavullo |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 04:08 PM Response to Reply #126 |
132. Brooke Shields is a shrewd, intelligent, talented woman and looks far better to me now than then |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 04:11 PM Response to Reply #126 |
133. Thanks for that example. Well, I don't see sex there, but there is this odd troubling incongruen |
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TheKentuckian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 04:42 PM Response to Original message |
144. Probably not. However, some a little older are about impossible to distinguish from |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 04:47 PM Response to Original message |
148. There is no such thing as provocation for rape |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 04:47 PM Response to Reply #148 |
149. amen. |
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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 08:15 PM Response to Reply #148 |
164. Are you a rapist? |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 08:53 PM Response to Reply #164 |
177. Sexual predators do not remember what their victims were wearing |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 09:44 PM Response to Reply #177 |
179. Thank you. |
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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 10:03 PM Response to Reply #177 |
182. haha, just because they "don't remember" what their victims were wearing |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 10:43 PM Response to Reply #182 |
185. You can be dressed in a burqa and raped. |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 04:56 PM Response to Original message |
151. what if you don't know the age of the person? what if it is an ad in a magazine |
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conspirator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 06:59 PM Response to Original message |
156. 10 no. But 14 definitely nt |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 07:13 PM Response to Original message |
157. Boys or girls? |
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bluestate10 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 08:32 PM Response to Original message |
169. I see 10 year olds and even 17 year olds as children in different stages |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 08:34 PM Response to Reply #169 |
171. Thank goddess for responses like this one. |
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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 08:45 PM Response to Reply #171 |
174. This is the same thing all of us have said! |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 08:45 PM Response to Reply #174 |
175. LOL |
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houstonintc (202 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 08:37 PM Response to Original message |
172. I'll have to say no. |
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w8liftinglady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 08:38 PM Response to Original message |
173. My partner has had more than he cares to remember that were victims of incest/rape |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 09:54 PM Response to Reply #173 |
181. If you are an old fart for feeling that way about it, |
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franzia99 (479 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 11:53 PM Response to Reply #173 |
189. That's horrible. The one person I knew who told me they were sexually abused as a kid commited |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 08:57 PM Response to Original message |
178. If someone finds a 10 year old sexy, they are a pedophile, |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 09:45 PM Response to Original message |
180. There are some kids that are developed enough that clothing |
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niyad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 10:15 PM Response to Original message |
183. I would find any adult finding a 10 y/o sexy to be seriously in need of a shrink |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 10:32 PM Response to Original message |
184. At my age, I don't even find many 20-year-olds sexy! |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 11:07 PM Response to Original message |
187. What's the point of provocative clothing? |
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franzia99 (479 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 11:48 PM Response to Original message |
188. No, adult bodies are attractive in that way. Kids don't have that kind of appearance. |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-19-11 11:54 PM Response to Original message |
190. parents need to be parents |
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