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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 09:58 AM
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Can someone explain how posing half-naked for a magazine "liberates" a woman?
From this article:

>>Sila Sahin, a 25-year-old Turkish German living in Berlin, had until now been regarded as a glowing example of how a modern Muslim girl should behave in a multicultural society.

A successful actress starring in German television soap opera Good Times, Bad Times, she pleased her many fans and made her Turkish family proud.

But her latest move has shocked some of those fans, and enraged those closest to her.

Posing provocatively on the cover of German Playboy magazine with one breast exposed, Sila Sahin seems to be sending a clear and deliberate message to her conservative Turkish family.

'I did it because I wanted to be free at last,' she said. 'These photographs are a liberation from the restrictions of my childhood.'<<

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1378455/Sila-Sahin-poses-Playboy-Muslim-model-upsets-family-nude-cover.html

I frankly don't care what she does with herself, and wish her nothing but continued success.

But what is the logic here that posing half-naked for a men's soft porn magazine liberates her from the restrictions of her childhood? And further, would she encourage children of her own to do this, as well? Didn't Patti Davis make the same kinds of arguments (that I never understood either)?
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Le Taz Hot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:00 AM
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1. "My body, my choice."
That right extends beyond abortion. :shrug:
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:02 AM
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5. Ok, but was she being coerced into keeping her clothes on?
If women don't choose to pose for such magazines, does that make them less free than those who do?
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snooper2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:04 AM
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7. Yes, she was being coerced from birth to be "modest"
cover everything...


Blah blah blah pay attention to the sky god
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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:14 AM
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15. +1
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BoWanZi Donating Member (502 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:35 AM
Response to Reply #5
22. Yes, coerced by birth probably due to religious reasons
More power to the woman who has the guts to do something like that in the face of their family/friends.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:00 PM
Response to Reply #1
44. +1. Seems simple enough. nt
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sinkingfeeling Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:01 AM
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2. If you were raised to believe that your body was shameful and had to be completely covered, to
pose semi-nude would be 'liberating' in the sense of body image. She is trying to 'prove' that there isn't anything shameful about the human body and her self esteem has risen.
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:03 AM
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6. Her family is apparently Western-oriented and moderate, given
that she is a successful entertainment personality in Germany. So I don't think the issue here is Burka/no-Burka.
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sinkingfeeling Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:06 AM
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8. "...deliberate message to her conservative Turkish family."
Edited on Wed Apr-20-11 10:09 AM by sinkingfeeling
Did you read the article before you posted it?

"Ms Sahin's declared intention was to used the controversial Playboy photoshoot as a call to action for other Turkish girls who suffer the effects of their strict backgrounds, where women's choices are often limited, husbands are chosen for the girls and chastity closely controlled."

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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:17 PM
Response to Reply #8
53. so go to the other extreme, strip down for a bunch of males to objectify you....
wow, deep thinking.
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WatsonT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:27 PM
Response to Reply #53
59. She got to choose
that's a big difference.
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:58 PM
Response to Reply #59
74. not at all. that has nothing ot do with what i said. nt
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WatsonT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 04:53 PM
Response to Reply #74
94. In her culture women are the private property of their husbands
Edited on Wed Apr-20-11 04:53 PM by WatsonT
And that right is strictly enforced and interpreted.

By revealing herself to the public in such a way she is rejecting that notion of sexual ownership.

Seems ok to me.
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Ninjaneer Donating Member (577 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 11:03 PM
Response to Reply #53
116. Speaking as a person who
has lived with the damning guilt and oppressiveness of religious restrictions until relatively recently, sometimes actions such as hers are necessary and absolutely justified. With all due respect, until you've gone through something like that, you're in no position to judge. Conviction, as they say, is a luxury of those on the side lines.
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 11:06 PM
Response to Reply #116
117. she can do whatever she wants
none of my business. we are discussing her reasoning. that is what a discussion board is about. she is going from one form of patriarchy and feeding another. she choses to do it, it is her business
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Ninjaneer Donating Member (577 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 11:28 PM
Response to Reply #117
121. I understand the purpose of a discussion board.
Her culture forced her to dress modestly. She decided to rebel by not dressing modestly. The willful removal of clothing liberates her from her past forced covering up. Her reasoning is sound. I don't think this is a discussion of her "reasoning" as much as a critique of her means. My last post was regarding that. People are in no position to critique her means without having gone through what she went through.

Again, I hope you realize I am not trying to be rude or argumentative.
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LetTimmySmoke Donating Member (970 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 01:07 AM
Response to Reply #117
128. She's not feeding a patriarchy.
Sheesh.
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 09:07 AM
Response to Reply #117
133. Many here seem not to understand the purpose of discussion.
Thank you for bringing that point up. :hi:
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 09:17 AM
Response to Reply #133
138. such simple words, yet still, they are ignored, lol. nt
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 09:26 AM
Response to Reply #138
141. I think some here really WANT to see a conservative boogeyman -
it's like some thrive on anger and conflict. You and I haven't always agreed on things, but we've always been able to either respond intelligently or else move on. I probably won't get any Valentine's next year, though. :D

Anyway, I'm actually glad I started this thread, though I think it's run its course. Cheers. :)
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 09:27 AM
Response to Reply #141
142. i laughed
about the valentines....

:toast: backatcha
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DutchLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 01:12 PM
Response to Reply #53
165. Yeah, how *dare* she not share your militant opinions!
Edited on Thu Apr-21-11 01:12 PM by DutchLiberal
Because, obviously, only your train of thought is "deep" enough.
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truedelphi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-24-11 03:17 PM
Response to Reply #165
172. I'll share your opinions on upbringing and
Freedom of choice regarding bodies, and lifestyles, any day of the week, Dutch Liberal.

(Don't know who you' re replying to, as they are on my ignore list.)
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lumberjack_jeff Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:01 AM
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3. Liberation is the ability to do what you want.
And accepting the ramifications of those acts.

She's 25. If she wants to show me her boobs, that's her business.
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cliffordu Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:14 AM
Response to Reply #3
16. Her fake boobs at that.
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sudopod Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:26 AM
Response to Reply #16
18. meow hiss nt
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ProgressiveProfessor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:33 AM
Response to Reply #16
21. And how are you so sure about that?
Edited on Wed Apr-20-11 10:33 AM by ProgressiveProfessor
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lumberjack_jeff Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 01:38 PM
Response to Reply #21
41. Let's go contribute to her liberation by ogling the photos and speculating about that question. n/t
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:03 PM
Response to Reply #41
46. Exactly. Treating women as sex objects is 'respectful' in just a handful of scenarios, IMO.
Thus, her claims that this is 'liberating' strike me not as her own thoughts, but 'suggested' feedback for the press.
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WatsonT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:28 PM
Response to Reply #46
60. So to prevent her from being treated as an object
we should force her to keep her clothes on?

Maybe something modest, like a veil that covers her entire face and body?
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:33 PM
Response to Reply #60
64. Nonresponsive to my post.
Did you mispost?
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WatsonT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:35 PM
Response to Reply #64
66. You equate nudity with objectification
assuming you find objectification to be a bad thing the obvious solution would be to do away with nudity.

If voluntarily nudity = wrong then the solution must be wearing clothes. And if they won't do it voluntarily then it must be forced on them.
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 03:00 PM
Response to Reply #60
75. no one is forcing anyone to do anything watson. because the hypocrisy is called out and discussed
does not mean anyone wants to force anything on anyone.... except maybe those that insist others shut up and not discuss cause they dont agree with you adn others
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 03:02 PM
Response to Reply #75
77. I'm thinking that many here who assert that we are 'forcing' her to wear a burqa (or
words to that effect) are likely young and fresh away from home, and not yet have children or not yet accustomed to making their own way in life. Thus, people who sound like their parents (i.e., not so young) are puritanical, 'forcing people to wear burqas,' etc.
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 06:01 PM
Response to Reply #77
102. ya
i forget. i also get another dynamic on this board that is not in my real life that colors things. gotta keep reminding myself
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 09:45 PM
Response to Reply #102
103. There was a time it'd bother me; now, it doesn't - as much.
You gotta laugh about SOME of this heat, because 1) it's just funny and 2) it's not worth getting upset about.

Cheers! :hi:
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riderinthestorm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 03:07 PM
Response to Reply #75
80. From the article, the Turkish actress who posed, says she did it so other girls can break free
and not be forced to live under the same restrictive cultural/restrictive upbringing common for Turkish girls. So in essence, she is doing this extreme act - posing in Playboy - as a defiant stance against feeling "forced" her whole life to be someone she isn't.

From the article:

"Indeed, in the 12-page article that accompanies the revealing photographs, Ms Sahin says she feels 'like Che Guevara', adding that the semi-naked photoshoot was a bid to express her freedom. 'My upbringing was conservative,' she told Playboy. 'I was always told, you must not go out, you must not make yourself look so attractive, you mustn't have male friends.

'I have always abided by what men say. As a result I developed an extreme desire for freedom. I feel like Che Guevara. I have to do everything I want, otherwise I feel like I may as well be dead."
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 03:10 PM
Response to Reply #80
83. so she strips to feed that very patriarchy that uses sexual objectification of women
to do the very same thing, only in the west.

she traded one exptreme to feed another extreme
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riderinthestorm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 03:18 PM
Response to Reply #83
84. She's taking the ultimate western icon of female porn
and using it as an instrument to empower other young women in HER culture to break free of the restrictions of their culture. Don't get me wrong, I'm usually the first to derogate on Playboy and the rest but her usage of it in this context is... well, it's pretty damn interesting in my opinion.

Extreme performance art almost. I said downthread it instantly reminded me of the Buddhist monks who torched themselves in protest against the Vietnam War. These were committed pacifists, committing one of the most violent acts of self-immolation. Buddhism is an intensely private meditative religion yet these guys were doing this act in the public square.

Horrifying. Shocking. Dramatic. Effective. Riveting.

You do know she's only doing a semi-naked shoot right? So she's going to look like any other young woman in St Tropez, or Sydney Australia or any other topless beach.

And probably, her agent thought she'd get some good work out of it too. I can't take the mercenary part of it out when I look at it all together but then I always was a cynic.
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 03:27 PM
Response to Reply #84
85. it is like when iranian pres says, cleavage cause earthquakes
Edited on Wed Apr-20-11 03:31 PM by seabeyond
so 8 women strip to show him, and there are 30 males with cameras to photograph them... wow, what a statement they made. really told that iranian pres. instead of intellectually advancing womans cause and get away from the patriarchy, they participated and fed into it.

women going against the attack of female issue by republicans it is suggest, use sex as a weapon, send panties, taking argument to womans crotch. instead of intellectually decimating the opposing side, proving our worth.

we women just keep on feeding and participating in the very patriarchy....

as far as how much she stripped, i dont care. she is in a magazine that is exclusively used to reduce women to a thing to jack off to. not on a beach enjoying the sand.

on EDIT... note. though we disagree, i do it oh so respectfully.... lol. :hug:
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WatsonT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 04:51 PM
Response to Reply #83
92. What if she stripped naked in a closet
so no one could objectify her.

That would be liberating right? Well no, there is no taboo against that in her culture.

What about if she stripped in front of other females?

Again no, there is no taboo against being nude with other women.

The taboo in her culture, the thing she is fighting against, is the notion that men other than her husband (and I guess father/son, yech) are allowed to see her nude.

If she were not stripping in front of people her culture forbids her to strip in front of then what is accomplished? I think even radical muslims will allow their wives to be nude in the shower, for instance.


And the whole point of the proclamation, besides control, is to prevent women from being the object of other mens' lust. That is reserved for her husband.

So she has to be sexually objectified in a sense, by men not married to her, but under her own terms to be a successful rebellion against the status quo. She is choosing who gets to look at her in such a way.

I find this preferable to an Imam telling her who can look at her in this manner.
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cliffordu Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:11 PM
Response to Reply #83
110. If you think one extreme is the same as the other, you have my sympathy.
If you think the Burqa is the same as nipples in a magazine, that is.
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:42 PM
Response to Reply #110
112. it is about repression and control, not about burqas and nipples. nt
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cliffordu Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:49 PM
Response to Reply #112
114. Sorry.
Fail.
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DutchLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 01:18 PM
Response to Reply #80
167. But don't you see? This girl can't decide for herself what's liberating for her. She needs feminists
to tell her how to liberate herself. :eyes:
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WatsonT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 04:47 PM
Response to Reply #75
90. Stating without any doubt that
portraying a women nude makes her a sexual object (with the assumption that this is a bad thing) does imply that allowing such nudity is wrong.

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DutchLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 01:16 PM
Response to Reply #75
166. "Those that insist others shut up & not discuss cause they dont agree with you & others."
Like you?
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Warren DeMontague Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 05:11 PM
Response to Reply #46
98. So not only is she not capable of making the decision, she's not capable of having an opinion?
The opinion that she has was... what... planted in her head against her will?

Maybe one of the things she feels 'liberated' from is self-righteous ninnies who want to infantalize everyone who makes a decision they don't approve of. :shrug:
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cliffordu Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:11 PM
Response to Reply #98
111. Yep.
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cliffordu Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 09:46 AM
Response to Reply #46
148. So: she's obviousy too stupid to have made her own decision in the matter?
Yep, just another gal, easily led and exploited.

:sarcasm:
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 09:55 AM
Response to Reply #148
150. Yet, if she decided she wanted to wear a burka, you'd be telling us she'd been brainwashed.
Wouldn't you?
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cliffordu Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 10:05 AM
Response to Reply #150
152. If wearing a burka meant the difference between life and death??
Lots of women, FORCED BY THE PATRIARCHY in their countries, wear them under the threat of death.

No one forced her to show her nipples in Playboy.

False equivalence.

Here in the West if she wants to wear a burka, so fucking what, if she wants to do porn films so what, if she wants to show her breasts in magazines so what.

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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 10:07 AM
Response to Reply #152
153. Now you employ the term Patriarchy. I guess it's only patriarchal oppression when you say so,
right? :eyes:
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cliffordu Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 10:10 AM
Response to Reply #153
154. Where do you get that? When did I refuse to employ the term?
What kind of bullshit loop de loop are you trying here???

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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 10:19 AM
Response to Reply #154
156. Post 114.
nt
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cliffordu Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 10:28 AM
Response to Reply #156
157. ....Annnnnnnnddddddd
Another fail.
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DutchLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 01:19 PM
Response to Reply #148
168. Luckily, we have militant anti-sex feminists to guide her!
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cliffordu Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 01:43 PM
Response to Reply #168
169. Yep.
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ProgressiveProfessor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:45 PM
Response to Reply #41
113. The prior poster was seemed so sure about it, so it seemed fair to ask why
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lumberjack_jeff Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 11:53 AM
Response to Reply #113
160. I have a little difficulty with the concept of blaming those who view the pictures...
... as being to blame for the objectification which she signed up for.
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TorchTheWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 12:43 AM
Response to Reply #21
125. It should be obvious
Though it's quite a nice job except for the nipple being too far to the outside which is unfortunately an extremely common occurance with breast implants.

Pretty scary how so many people don't even know what real boobs look like anymore.


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burrfoot Donating Member (801 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 12:59 PM
Response to Reply #21
163. Have you seen the picture? n/t
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Maine-ah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 09:56 PM
Response to Reply #16
105. you can tell they're fake...
they forgot to put the nipple back on...





:hide:
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cliffordu Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:00 PM
Response to Reply #105
106. LOL.....
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snooper2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 09:49 AM
Response to Reply #105
149. Oh damn
:rofl:
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msanthrope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:02 AM
Response to Original message
4. Well, it does liberate her from her 'foundation garments.'
And while I feel their pinch, I do wonder at her reasoning.
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ZombieHorde Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:10 AM
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9. People tell us our bodies and our sexuality are bad.
Posing nude counters this horrible belief.

Some people take it further and decide their bodies are sacred, and therefor, everything which comes from the body is sacred. So seemingly degrading sexual situations, such as golden showers, also become liberating.
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JustAnotherGen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:11 AM
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10. You know what?
We, over here in the United States are posting about it at DU right? :-) I'd say it liberates her to make more money, get publicity, get noticed perhaps in the U.S. and elsewhere, so she can grow her income - by getting more jobs, etc. etc.

See - it worked for Madonna rolling around at the MTV awards in her white lingerie singing like a virgin - and I think a month or two later her uh - nudie photos popped up. <--- Worked for her! Why wouldn't she say ANYTHING outrageous or do ANYTHING outrageous when she sees how well it works for the 'world renowned' :rofl: Jersey Shore cast? :rofl:
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:13 AM
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12. LOL, I think you nailed it.
:rofl: Or a big part of it. :D
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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:13 AM
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11. The restrictive Islamic dress code and other rules it imposes on women...
...are oppressive. Posing for racy photos shows she refuses to be fenced in by traditional tribal or parochial expectations.
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Speck Tater Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:13 AM
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13. A feeling of being liberated is a subjective thing, not something that can be objectively measured.
Therefore, if she FEELS liberated then her action has succeeded in providing her with that subjective feeling of being liberated. Good for her. There are those who would ridicule me for practicing meditation for the purpose of feeling liberated. What right do they have to judge my choices? What right to we have to judge hers? Passing judgment on another's lifestyle choices is just too "Republican" to set well with me.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:02 PM
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45. +1. nt
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SidDithers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 05:10 PM
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97. Well said...nt
Sid
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Dappleganger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:14 AM
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14. Because she is choosing instead of submitting to her family's religion.
It's her choice--the body is beautiful and muslims/christians have treated the female body as a sin for far too long.
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Cal33 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:16 AM
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17. Sure, if she were to make enough money from this, it could liberate her from
financial debt, or being in poverty. :)
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phleshdef Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:27 AM
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19. If she says it felt liberating, then thats all the explanation you need.
Its up to her. Not you.
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:51 AM
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25. If she told me doing somersaults made her angry, I might still seek explanation.
That doesn't invalidate her interpretation of how doing somersaults make her feel, nor does it indicate that I disapprove.

It merely means that I don't understand how doing somersaults makes her angry.

By the way, that's science at its most basic - observing things that happen, and finding the cause-effect.
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phleshdef Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 01:36 PM
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40. Your tone came across as being critical towards her.
But your comparison ignore common sense context. "Somersaults making someone angry" would be considered an irrational reaction by mainstream standards. But shedding ones clothes in a society that tends to tie taboos around nudity, especially nudity of women and someone who has been subjected to that meme finding a sense freedom in breaking that taboo, that barely requires any thought in order for it to make sense.
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 01:52 PM
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42. Perhaps. Yesterday, though, there was a thread about allowing children to dress 'inappropriately'
And now people here affirm that this woman's rejection of the childhood restrictions of her own family is liberating and good.

I guess I'm just sort of confused about how it is that modest dress is 'oppressive' and nudity is somehow dignified. Some people argue here that the human body is beautiful, but that is false in ugly people. Further, would she have been featured if she had been 65 and overweight? Unlikely.
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riderinthestorm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 01:59 PM
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43. No! The thread yesterday was about children, this Turkish actress is a woman
and the restrictions that her religion places on her about dress are placed on grown up women. Two very different things that you are conflating that are not analogous at all.

Other points at random: "modest dress" is very different than burkas, which are the garment that most people find offensive. "Modest dress" means a lot of different things to a lot of different cultures.

Nudity is and can be dignified. Who are you to say who is "ugly"? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Playboy is not known for taking any women aged 65 and overweight for their centerfolds, ever. So again, not an analogous point.

Lastly, you don't seem "confused" at all but seem to be shit stirring.
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AngryAmish Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:12 PM
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50. "Nudity is and can be dignified." Especially when I do it in the Library.
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phleshdef Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:09 PM
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49. Um, these aren't "childhood restrictions". WTF are you talking about?
Edited on Wed Apr-20-11 02:10 PM by phleshdef
Its a cultural restriction that isn't specific to any age.

And I don't think that underage teenage girls not being allowed to dress all sexy and revealing is oppressive at all. If you are a parent and you have an honest heart felt concern that they are doing something that may seriously harm perceptions of them, you have the right as a parent to set some standards. Of course some parents set standards that are ridiculous, but there are so many gray areas and different reasons as to why, that there really isn't any point of debating it. When all is said and done, this woman is an adult. And she was raised in a very socially conservative culture and she has spent time as an adult in that same culture. She felt that culture was oppressive to her. So she "broke the rules". Your question was how does that cause a sense of freedom and my answer is that its painfully obvious.
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:13 PM
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51. They are. Did you even read the article???
Edited on Wed Apr-20-11 02:14 PM by closeupready
:eyes: Sheez. Welcome to ignore.
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thereismore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:52 AM
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26. Exactly! nt
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Vinnie From Indy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 11:23 AM
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36. +1
cheers!
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Ninjaneer Donating Member (577 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 11:15 PM
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119. Nail, meet hammer.
:yourock:
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ProgressiveProfessor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:32 AM
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20. Because it is her choice
And that is in many ways the essence of feminism, women being free to choose what they want to do without undue influence from others and society. Part of me questions some of the aggressive public sexualism since it encourages the stereotypes held by some troglodytes, put in the end free choice must win out.
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RedCloud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:39 AM
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23. Oh why can't they just expose the left half or the right half?
Edited on Wed Apr-20-11 10:39 AM by RedCloud
Bilateral symmetry!
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Dorian Gray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:44 AM
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24. I respect that she's chosen to do this
against her family and culture's wishes. That takes strength. But I hate that people may think of this as noble, too. She's posed for Playboy, a magazine that people buy 95% of the time to objectify women.
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:55 AM
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27. There was a video I rented, with a short docu. on an English Muslim female porn star -
she actually did full-on porn, and as I recall, and she stated something similar to the woman in the OP, that she felt participating in porn liberated her.

Her family had also disapproved.

Frankly, I think that many here would disapprove of that choice if it were their own children, but in the abstract (as here), when it concerns a woman with whom we have no connection outside cultural media, we like to rationalize why this is a good thing.
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Poll_Blind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:57 AM
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29. +1
Well-said, IMO. And of course the interesting thing is that if she'd post for Hustler, say, would we really be having the same Freedom Fest about it? And that indicates to me that while we view some things as liberative, going farther than our still-somewhat-puritanical tastes care for would receive less "symbolic appreciation".

PB
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 11:03 AM
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32. That is really an excellent point! I was an art student in college (initially)
and we'd have model come to school and model nude, and in that context, it seemed more legitimate than this context. That may not be fair, but Venus de Milo is one thing; commercial soft porn is something else. Isn't it?
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Poll_Blind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 11:13 AM
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34. There's the rub, of course: The difference is all in our eyes. And in that regards, we....
...share much more (in our judgement) with her puritanical parents than practitioners of some liberated ideal.

It's all about what we find "socially acceptable". Versus what they (her perents, et al.) find socially acceptable.

Those who are more liberal than us, too liberal. Those who are more conservative than us, to conservative. All morality has X,Y,Z coordinates. We often don't realize just how localized and subjective that morality can be until we read Plato or something like that, where he goes on a tear about man-boy "love".

I'm not against the concept of morality altogether, but like fashion you think something is universal only to find the reality of the matter, especially on such a large, varied, planet on which we live, is terribly subjective.

PB
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muriel_volestrangler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 11:34 AM
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37. And yet, it's her own name that is known. The model for the VdM is unknown
Which one do you think has been more objectified - the one only known by the Roman goddess she stood in for (or, in modern times, the anonymous art school model), or the one with her own name known, and an interview in which her words are heard?
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WatsonT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:31 PM
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61. What's the difference?
Edited on Wed Apr-20-11 02:31 PM by WatsonT
And by that I mean what is objectively different between the two that is not subject to personal taste?

The border between art and porn is always blurry.

If you jerk off to a naked lady in a painting does that make it porn? If you enjoy the imagery of a porno with no sexual interest whatsoever does that make it art?
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:34 PM
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65. That question is a subject of study without a clear answer whatsoever.
Robert Mapplethorpe's photos, to some, are pornography; to others, art. I don't pretend to know the answer, do you?
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WatsonT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:37 PM
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67. The definition of art is simple
It's "what I (the viewer) deem to be art".

That's it. The rest of art theory is just a variety of ways that people use to claim their preferred pictures are superior to someone elses preferred pictures.

Also why I wouldn't say things like: That may not be fair, but Venus de Milo is one thing; commercial soft porn is something else. Isn't it?
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:44 PM
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70. I disagree with you.
Further (to use a well-worn fundamentalist counter-example), you can't take a crap and then tell me that your pile of crap is art because you say so. I mean, you CAN do this, but it isn't art just because you say so - it isn't art at all.
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riderinthestorm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:50 PM
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72. Uh "Piss Christ" actually IS a pile of crap, and actually IS art.
So says I and many millions of others.

Of course, there are millions of others that disagree with me who say it's just a bottle of crap.

See how that works? Welcome to Art 101.
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WatsonT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 04:46 PM
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89. So there is no objective standard for art
but you can determine exactly what is an is not art.

What exactly differentiates the two?

For instance: I can say conclusively that if something is a triangle it is then not also a square, and vice versa. There are clear definitions for both and they do not coincide.

You say one thing is art and something else is porn and there is a clear line between them. Ok, what defines that line?
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cliffordu Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 09:20 AM
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140. That's a very interesting question. I like it.
What if it depends on mood, what if that border is crossed on occasion, as in the painting one week and the porn tape the next???

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Wounded Bear Donating Member (665 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:56 AM
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28. The irony is, of course......
that if it weren't for the repressive ideals of "conservative" societies in general, there would be no market for young, attractive women to sell photos of themselves, or to pose or dance nude.

The prurient content can only be so if it is forbidden fruit.
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sinkingfeeling Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 11:17 AM
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35. +1
Edited on Wed Apr-20-11 11:17 AM by sinkingfeeling
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leftstreet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:06 PM
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47. Why doesn't that work the same way for men?
If "repressive ideals of conservative societies" are "in general," men should be able to make huge fortunes posing nude. There's no more forbidden, hidden body part than male genitals.
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WatsonT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:32 PM
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63. Because generally if a woman wanted to see male genitals
all she'd need to do is ask.
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U4ikLefty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 11:35 PM
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122. True.
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AndyTiedye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:59 AM
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30. Rebelling Against a Culture That Requires Her Whole Body to be Covered
makes perfect sense.
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DevonRex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 11:00 AM
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31. She may find she has traded one restriction for another.
Perhaps not. But there has to be something between chaste and sex object.
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MineralMan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 11:10 AM
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33. Liberation is in the mind of the person who wants to feel
Edited on Wed Apr-20-11 11:11 AM by MineralMan
liberated. So, if this makes her have that feeling, then it's her choice. I don't care. I don't ogle women in magazines. It's completely irrelevant to my life. Since approximately half of the adult world has typical female breast development, it's not really that extraordinary a thing to see. :shrug:
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elleng Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 11:35 AM
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38. No
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eowyn_of_rohan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 11:40 AM
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39. In this country I can't
Because doing it here only plays into the sexist vulture - oops culture
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Modern_Matthew Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:08 PM
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48. Sometimes I have to make sure I'm not at conservativeunderground. nt
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:08 PM
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108. I don't doubt that for a moment. nt
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 09:12 AM
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136. Because those who want their daughters to grow up to be rocket scientists and prime ministers,
not sex workers or soft porn models, are always conservatives.
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librechik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:15 PM
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52. I took an advanced post-grad class on the subject (Madonna among the examples)
I still don't get it.

I understand that they are using the male's enslavement to the fetishized sex object to achieve power over the male, but how can that be true power when the position is still so abject re the sexualization?

It's just a silly proposal, IMO. The female is still enslaved.
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:19 PM
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54. You don't get it because you are a conservative/disrespect women's choices/yadda yadda.
Edited on Wed Apr-20-11 02:21 PM by closeupready
:sarcasm:

I should know better than to attempt to have a reasonable discussion here about a topic like this. I guess it's important to violate that unwritten rule every six months or so just to know what push-button topics to avoid here. ;) :hi:

(Olive Garden, circumcision and gay cavemen being three others. LOL :D )
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EOTE Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:55 PM
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73. There's been plenty of reasonable discussion on this thread.
You just ignore any points made that disagree with your entrenched world view. You've even put a poster on ignore who had the audacity to suggest you might not be thinking about this in the best manner. Why is it not surprising that you post a thread and look for self-validation every chance you get?
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riderinthestorm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:32 PM
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62. Boy you could have come down to my local women's shelter and had this convo for free
it's a fairly recurring conversation.

I think in the context of this particular woman and her action with Playboy, her religion and culture have warped the concepts of female sexuality and power and equality and clothing to the degree that she's taking an extreme action to heighten awareness. It's designed to be shocking.

As an actress, there are a fair number in that world who also define themselves as artists. I'm wondering if she's doing this more as a performance artist to raise cultural awareness or to spotlight the issues of female roles. Lots to think about.

In some weird way, my mind went to the Buddhist monks in Vietnam who torched themselves to protest that war. Non-violent people taking such a violent action in protest. An intensely private, personal religious practice and spirituality juxtaposed with an almost performance artist public maneuver of the most spectacular (and gruesome) kind.
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Keith Bee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:48 PM
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71. I'm with you
In the particular case of this young woman in Germany, I can see how asserting her sexuality would be liberating. But in this country? Puh-leeze! I always get a hoot whenever I hear Bill Maher say that Playboy liberated woman. Yeah: Being in your twenties and serving in the harem of a shriveled, dessicated octogenarian is a real Virginia Slims moment!
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:19 PM
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55. I thoroughly approve her take-that against the fundies. Fuck them all.
:thumbsup:
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lunatica Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:20 PM
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56. Having and making choices is liberating
there are plenty of women and men who love to be naked and if they have a choice they would act on it.
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:22 PM
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57. That makes sense, yes.
I don't think she said that in the article, but if that is why she did it, then it makes sense to me.
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WatsonT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:26 PM
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58. Well from a muslim background it means she is rejected notions forced on her
and living her own life. She isn't beholden to ancient customs that have no place in modern society.

For someone from a society that places no particular taboo on nudity it is meaningless. But for her it is a pretty bold move. People are murdered over this sort of thing all too frequently in the Muslim community.
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walldude Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:41 PM
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68. I have an idea.. How about we don't talk about
European sexual attitudes until we pull out that fucking stick we have shoved up our tight little American asses.

Fuck. I live in a country where a womans breasts are cause to hide the childrens eyes but Abu Grahib photos are on the front page. :crazy:


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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 03:03 PM
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78. yet in france they hide apollo. nt
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cliffordu Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 09:09 AM
Response to Reply #78
135. Not any more, putting his explicit self back up.
Why, it was right here on DU just the other day......
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 09:19 AM
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139. yes... i know. wehre i got info. in the oh so sexually sophisticated france
they hid a statue

but much better to pretend all of europe is utopia
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cliffordu Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 09:34 AM
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144. I don't pretend any such thing.
And I want to know if you feel the same way about the fertility symbols they dig up all over the world, stone icons - fetishes - of obviously pregnant women or women portrayed as large (ripe??) vessels of life and great sexuality?

what about Indian temple porn? what about traditional Japanese porn?

Is this about oppression or just the infantile boobie obsession men in western countries display?

I know a stripper/sex worker who was raised Pentecostal - Yet another fundie extreme oppressive religion - she started stripping to make her own way and NOT be little more than a brood mare for some fucking religious nut of a husband. (Her statement on the subject.)

She is studying to be a hairdresser, so she can make other women more appealing so they can be oppressed as sexual objects.....and on and on.

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riderinthestorm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 09:41 AM
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145. Awww, my friend there are so many famous nudes of men in Europe....
Michealangelo's "David", "The Thinker", that famous Greek discus statue (yummy), the nude known as "Hector" (love that painting), the statue of Adam, or Davinci's Vetruvian man....

I do think Europe is far less hung up on nudity than the US. Of course I'm Irish which is probably as religiously uptight and repressed society as there ever was... so take my perspective with a grain of salt. But that certainly means my eyes pop out at the lovely nudes in Europe that seem (to me! heh) to be everywhere.
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county worker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 02:43 PM
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69. It would be the same for you if you were forced to live like your parents
as a fundie even though you didn't believe in it. If you made a decision to think for yourself you would be doing the same thing that she did. What she did or how she went about "thinking for her self" is not the issue here.
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PeaceNikki Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 03:02 PM
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76. You don't have to understand why things make people feel any specific way.
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 03:05 PM
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79. I don't have to understand why tides ebb and flow, or why people fall in love.
Need doesn't define the limits of my curiosity. And some of us feel a 'need' to understand things we don't understand. I'm sorry if that threatens you.
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PeaceNikki Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 03:29 PM
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86. Threatens me? What on earth gave you such a ridiculous idea?
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 03:39 PM
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87. Your suggestion that a lack of need-to-know renders discussion rude and/or pointless.
Isn't that what your original point meant? I mean, you didn't explain, you just stated that I didn't need to know why.

Perhaps you can re-phrase your original post? thanks.
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spanone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 03:07 PM
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81. choice is choice....
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 03:43 PM
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88. But that is a tautology, and doesn't shed light on her reasoning. As
others have stated, I have no need to know, but I would like to know, both specifically but also more generally, is posing for a men's soft-porn magazine liberating, and if so, how?
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Obamanaut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 03:09 PM
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82. If she feels liberated, then she is - it is her feeling, not ours. nt
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RagAss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 04:49 PM
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91. Fuckk SS and Medicare ! This is an issue we really need to be addressing.
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InvisibleTouch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 04:52 PM
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93. Germany is a lot less uptight about that kind of thing.
A woman's breast is no big deal, and the magazine covers are routinely displayed in stores where anyone (including kids) can see them (other than the really hardcore stuff, which is covered). It comes across to me like a dig at unnaturally repressive cultures, including our own. A way to say "Lighten up, people, it's just a breast."
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Cleita Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 04:56 PM
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95. I sort of understand it. When I first wore a
mini-skirt to work in the sixties, I was told I would be fired if I didn't lower my hem. The next day I went to work with a skirt that was even shorter. I didn't get fired. It would have been counter-productive for them to train another person to do the specialized work I did for them. However, in the following weeks a few more girls showed up with mini-skirts and by the end of the year, everyone under forty was wearing them. To tell the truth I wasn't looking for attention but wanted to be fashionable, but by the time HR started hinting that only a slutty girl would wear such a thing and it gave the company a bad image, I dug my heels in just to be a bitch.
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 05:58 PM
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100. There we go. I can totally cheer you on there.
:hi: :) Thanks for the personal anecdote.
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Warren DeMontague Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 05:09 PM
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96. It liberates her because she feels that it liberates her.
That's how.
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 05:58 PM
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101. Tautologies are, by definition, irrational.
nt
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Warren DeMontague Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 11:47 PM
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123. Not in this case, when you're dealing with a subjective phenomena. Liberation is subjective.
As has been noted elsewhere in the thread.

Or maybe you asked the question but didn't really want to hear answers?


Why would you do that?

:shrug:
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 09:00 AM
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130. Liberation is not subjective.
I do that because, as you suspect, after thousands of posts on DU and a clean record here for over 5 or 6 years, I have decided to come out of the conservative, misogynistic closet. Hard to fool people as smart as you, who use NASA avatars. :rofl:
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Warren DeMontague Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-22-11 07:40 PM
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170. There's nothing so liberating as letting others define liberation for you, huh?
Edited on Fri Apr-22-11 07:44 PM by Warren DeMontague
Now that's not a tautology, that's just irony.

Anyway, you say liberation is not subjective. I say it is... I guess that means I'm right, at least in a sense. (see what I did there? I'm telling you, it's the gul-durned NASA avatar)

I disagree. If this woman feels that posing nude liberates her, it liberates her.


You, of course, are welcome to order her to put her shirt back on and behave herself, in the interest of true, actual, you-approved objective Liberation.™



Not sure what the fuck a NASA avatar has to do with any of it, though. :shrug:
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TNLib Donating Member (683 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 05:26 PM
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99. Because she wanted to and didn't let her fundie family values stop her
good for her!
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Motown_Johnny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 09:47 PM
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104. Spend 10 years in a Burka and then come ask again
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themadstork Donating Member (797 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:02 PM
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107. Nudity in general is liberating.
It goes against the widespread belief that our bodies are dirty, shameful-- something to be kept safe from view. Hypersexualization is just the other side of this same coin. I suppose if she wanted to be really radical she would have appeared completely starkers, in a non-suggestive pose, with no makeup or photoshopping, and with full-bore bedhead and eye-crust. And gnarly unkempt pubic hair. Alas.

We should all be nude as frequently as possible. We would be better off.
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 09:16 AM
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137. Probably, lol.
:hi: Makes me think of those photos that guy does - you know, he did one here in New York and another in Mexico City?
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Guy Whitey Corngood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:09 PM
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109. You're right. Half naked wouldn't make a lot of sense to me. But fully naked, that's a whole
different story.
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pinkkillersheep Donating Member (155 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 10:49 PM
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115. Read an article about a parapalegic female athlete who posed nude for a sports magazine
I actually thought it accomplished a lot. It forced me to re-evaluate how I initially react to people with physical disabilities.
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 11:07 PM
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118. because she could not have gotten that across to you with all her accomplishments, only in getting
naked

which is kinda the issue
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pinkkillersheep Donating Member (155 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 09:56 AM
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151. I more meant how I view the physically disabled sexually
My instant reaction to her picture was to think it's wrong to show her in a sexual way. It was an almost...paternalistic feeling. And that was incredibly revealing to me, as a woman. Should someone have to pose nude to get people to realize that? No. But I'm very grateful to her for doing it.
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defendandprotect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-20-11 11:18 PM
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120. Haven't read this but how about females going bare-breasted on beaches?
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 09:03 AM
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131. That makes sense to me. Some women will march bare-breasted in the Gay Pride Parade.
Typically, it's hot and humid on that day, so ... so what, I figure.

The context here was important to my question.
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okieinpain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 12:13 AM
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124. there are nude works of art and there is exploitation. that's
Edited on Thu Apr-21-11 12:13 AM by okieinpain
exploitation. "no dear stick your chest out, make your face look like you're having an orgasm, open your legs you know you want it", blah blah blah. I stopped watching a lot of movies because of that attitude, it's really kind of sicking and makes you wonder about our future.
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LetTimmySmoke Donating Member (970 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 01:04 AM
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126. It's not the posing that's liberating.
It's the choice of whether to do it or not, without judgment either way.
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grahamhgreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 01:06 AM
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127. Americans are way too hung up about nudity.
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TorchTheWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 01:50 AM
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129. voluntarily shedding of one's clothes is classic symbolic liberation
Even changing one's clothes can be as well as cutting off one's hair or letting their hair hang loose instead of pinned up.

Most people who are forced to wear conservative dress at work feel liberated when after work they get to go home and and change into the type of clothing they prefer. Is it so hard to understand that removing the suit and tie or skirt and pantyhose the employer(society) requires is worn feels liberating even when such clothing is not physically uncomfortable?

Remember "ban the bra" and "bra burnings" in the 60's/70's? Same thing. It was liberating for many women to remove their bras in public and go about in public without a bra because society decided that no one should see boobs that hang or move as they naturally do, therefore, women felt forced into wearing bras as though there was something wrong with their boobs even when they weren't visible even though many of these women physically felt more comfortable wearing a bra. Is it so hard to understand that removing one's bra and going about in public without it can be liberating even though one feels more physically comfortable wearing a bra?

Before the 1920's society dictated that women have long hair though when in public it was also dictated that said long hair had to be pinned up so as not to appear long. In the '20's women in droves liberated themselves from society's ironic and ridiculous stricture concerning acceptable hair length on women and how it should be seen in public and cut it short. And they did it mostly because it was liberating, and not necessarily because they hated having long hair. Is it so hard to understand why women would feel liberated in cutting their hair short as rebellion against society's stricture concerning their hair even when they don't hate having long hair?

Why would it be so hard to understand why some women feel liberated by publicly being shed of their clothes for the same reasons? Just because YOU wouldn't feel liberated by doing it... or wouldn't cut off your hair or burn your bra or do any number of things that make people feel liberated... doesn't mean nobody else would. What the hell is so hard to understand just because it isn't something you would do?


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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 09:06 AM
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132. The commercial taint to the act is an important part of the context to the question.
I wouldn't have started the thread if it was merely about, for example, nude-sunbathing. What the hell is so hard to understand about that?!
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riderinthestorm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 09:33 AM
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143. Except this woman possibly stands to lose as much money as she gains
she's known within her industry for being "the Turkish actress". It's quite possible she's destroyed that "angle" of her career that perhaps was pretty lucrative (think Bollywood where that kind of chasteness is desirable). Furthermore, she's already lost her family over this - they've disowned her. Kind of hard to think it's all about the money when the result is this extreme (which she fully acknowledges was a substantial and very real risk).

As many people have told you over and over and over on this thread: this woman appears to be doing this for both personal liberation, and to make a statement to her religious and cultural oppressors, as well as making a statement of personal empowerment for other young women. You however seem to be having a very hard time understanding that, regardless of how many times people have tried to explain it to you.

Now you appear to just be trying to be confrontational without a productive discussion.
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cliffordu Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 09:44 AM
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147. Her awareness of the risks of the loss of career choices and, possibly
her family speaks volumes about courage, maybe or at least conviction........

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no_hypocrisy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 09:08 AM
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134. Independence from social mores.
Good or bad choice, it's still yours.
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JustABozoOnThisBus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 09:43 AM
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146. Money is liberating
and posing for a cover brings money.

Maybe a few months of rent are covered, so one less worry. That might be liberating.



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Iggo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 10:13 AM
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155. If the restriction is that you can't do something...
...then, yes, doing that thing IS liberating.
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Blue_Tires Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 10:51 AM
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158. eh...Miss Turkey from the Hardee's commercial looks about 10x better...
:evilgrin:
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 12:37 PM
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161. Shame on you!!!!
:evilgrin: Yes, she's very attractive.
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cottonseed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 11:00 AM
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159. The odd thing is. I've never seen a fat chick "liberate herself" in such a way.
Which gets me to thinking, that it might just have a bit more to do with fame and exposure than it does liberating herself from the bondage of conservative ideals.
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Forkboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 12:44 PM
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162. Plenty of BBW nudity out there.
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DutchLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-21-11 01:10 PM
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164. Because she's the one making the decision. End of discussion.
Nobody needs to be outraged or 'concerned' in her place.

And now, I'll have to go do some Googling.
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ismnotwasm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-22-11 07:53 PM
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171. It's never been done before!
A new frontier!

Oh wait, it's really the same old shit.


Sorry darlin, you all are just another one in a long line of nekkid women in men's magazines. Best of luck on your career though.
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JI7 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-24-11 04:25 PM
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173. many western parents would be upset with their daughters doing this also
considering they supported her in her acting career i don't think they were the religious fundie type of family.

i guess it might make a story sound better.

turkey also isn't as conservative as other muslim nations.

she can do what she wants but i don't think it has anything to do with restrictions on her childhood. she wanted to pose to show how hot she was and that's it. she has a right to do it and i have no problem with it.
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sendero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-24-11 04:28 PM
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174. If it has to be explained to you..
... I doubt you would get it anyway.
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-25-11 01:42 PM
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175. So here's a shocker: A man writes that he approves of her posing,
and he even comes up with her arguments FOR HER - wasn't that nice of him? :sarcasm:

>>Purists of female emancipation and cultural critics may sniff at the fact that Sahin sees an act of liberation in posing naked for men who are not primarily interested in intellectual discourse. But the tastefully shot nude photos of the young Turkish woman remind us that the reviled commercialization of the female body that seems just like an unavoidable part of everyday life today has played an important role in the history of female emancipation in the Western world.<<

http://www.time.com/time/world/article/0,8599,2066491-1,00.html
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lumberjack_jeff Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-25-11 01:50 PM
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176. She wants to be objectified, and she's an attractive object.
If she considers it liberating, it's a win-win.

I'm not going to tell either the model nor those who buy her photos what to do. Besides, the direction of currency flow suggests that it's not the model who is being exploited.

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