It also can do damage to your soul by trying to make you think by not moving off your principle it is you that is hurting some group or yourself.
It is the story of someone threatening to do harm if you do not agree with him, then trying to make you seem responsible for the harm.
That is how many things are.
There are thousands of things that are tried to get blamed on people that will not submit to what they feel is wrong.
If you submit to wrong, you give it what ability you have to stop it.
It is the old saying having the 'will to do what the other guy wont' What are you willing to let someone try to make happen, in order to resist what you feel is wrong. The difference is you do not 'do bad' you just don't back down by them threatening to 'do bad to people'. Also how they 'Kill you with your love' from the movie The Green Mile. It is a very old concept, trying to get someone not backing down to give in.
You explain your position, and what you feel is right, and know it is someone else doing the wrong.
Most bad tries to make you think you did the harm, when you simply would not go along with a lesser bad thing by use of some threat. It is also in torture training, the stress positions are made so the torture can say the person is doing it to themselves, not having it wrongly done to them.
It is then said if they don't comply, that is why they are hurt, not someone hurting them wrongly.
That same mentality is tried to get someone to accept wrong.
However I have no problem with complete and total end of all existence, before moving off of what I feel is correct, and which has not been able to be explained as wrong.
And I am due beer and travel money, and believe in justice and compassion, and do not move off those points, becuase my argument is just, and has not been shown unjust.
Use of threats or even bad things, does not change what is right, it does show bad for being bad, so in that standing for what is better, and not giving in on core beliefs and values, is important.
But you have to listen and learn, to make sure you are right, and not stubborn without thinking and feeling.
People say the hardship of not having beer and travel money, a minor one compared to some hardships, but still a hardship, is becuase of what I do, same thing. They will blame someone standing for a correct principle of being wrong to try and break them. It is done all the time.
This really is a great song.
Answer Sarah Mclachlan
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i8B1ai25lUoIf all else fails, tie your shoe to the peddle. (Sun Tzu, Art of War "Put yourself on Death ground with no retreat possible.") That's what I do. And am willing to be on that ground."I Need a Hero", by Bonnie Tyler
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uCOPuGBg_W0#t=00m04s300 / HIM - Don't Fear the Reaper
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZH3h70aRFxQ