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nolabear

(42,004 posts)
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 04:23 PM Dec 2012

Well I was kind of hanging in there until I saw President Obama cry.

We should all be crying for our children, and the brothers and sisters who have just had an unfathomable loss.

We should not turn on one another. We should try to talk, even as we disagree, with respect and care, and weep together for our little ones lost.

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Well I was kind of hanging in there until I saw President Obama cry. (Original Post) nolabear Dec 2012 OP
It got all the reporters crying cthulu2016 Dec 2012 #1
Not one question from them... cynatnite Dec 2012 #2
I noticed that, too. It was so sad yet comforting at the same time. n/t jenmito Dec 2012 #6
I know. S.E. Cupp can hardly speak. I respect her for that. nolabear Dec 2012 #3
It's always best when she doesn't speak. nt valerief Dec 2012 #30
Did you notice, none of them chased after him with questions as he left? Lasher Dec 2012 #32
Yeah, me too. Le Taz Hot Dec 2012 #4
I was just thinking the same exact thing. There are no answers..n/t monmouth3 Dec 2012 #8
I was thinking the same thing. kimbutgar Dec 2012 #19
I haven't cried in years it seems. Now I can't stop. Liberal Veteran Dec 2012 #5
It's so unimaginably sad.. I just found out about Cha Dec 2012 #7
President Obama cried ... 1StrongBlackMan Dec 2012 #9
He spoke as a father former-republican Dec 2012 #12
They wouldn't dare alcibiades_mystery Dec 2012 #13
They wouldn't dare. Not to mention, jenmito Dec 2012 #15
Even them losangeleslibker Dec 2012 #25
He visibly had to stop and compose himself more than once, pnwmom Dec 2012 #28
And thank you all for just talking. Thank you from the bottom of my weeping heart. nolabear Dec 2012 #10
Me too.. butterfly77 Dec 2012 #11
I am proud that this man is our President Gothmog Dec 2012 #14
Anyone who is human would be crying on this one. icymist Dec 2012 #16
I am about Tanta Dec 2012 #17
I'm not hanging in there at all Blecht Dec 2012 #18
Please let this be the beginning tblue Dec 2012 #20
I came home and my wife is watching and said the same thing Gman Dec 2012 #21
I personally am waiting for real action. glinda Dec 2012 #22
All those little babies. I can't bear to imagine what they went through; not to mention the poor juajen Dec 2012 #23
And from the people who have helped bring you this terrible tragedy, some advice: Turbineguy Dec 2012 #24
He's a good man. I caught part of it, and he was wiping the tears away Hekate Dec 2012 #26
I've been crying all day, on and off. lunatica Dec 2012 #27
So have I. A K-4 school. Ages 4-9... YvonneCa Dec 2012 #38
What a tragic part of being president. I hope we can come together and care for the children. nolabear Dec 2012 #29
Just when I think I can't cry anymore, the tears begin to stream down my face again. UtahLib Dec 2012 #31
Today is not the time for the NRA to spew. Hug your kids. RetroGamer1971 Dec 2012 #33
I was, too. AngryOldDem Dec 2012 #34
My son's girlfriend is a Montessori teacher. She is having a rough day. nolabear Dec 2012 #35
I am not a parent Liberalynn Dec 2012 #36
The best possible president we could have to comfort the nation at this time n/t eridani Dec 2012 #37
K&R Thanks for this. lupinella Dec 2012 #39

Lasher

(27,673 posts)
32. Did you notice, none of them chased after him with questions as he left?
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 06:40 PM
Dec 2012

A solemn moment. I am filled with sadness, particularly for all those little children.

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
4. Yeah, me too.
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 04:26 PM
Dec 2012

I just keep thinking about Christmas. Presents under the tree for the dead children. Their holidays will always be associated with tragedy. The country is in shock.

On edit: I notice that wasn't even coherent but it illustrates the mind-numbing shock.

Liberal Veteran

(22,239 posts)
5. I haven't cried in years it seems. Now I can't stop.
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 04:26 PM
Dec 2012

This cannot be allowed to be swept under the rug. It is too much.

I don't know the answer, but god damn it, something has to be done.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
9. President Obama cried ...
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 04:29 PM
Dec 2012

Last edited Fri Dec 14, 2012, 05:11 PM - Edit history (1)

during the presser?

If so, I'm launching a pre-emptive F-U to beck, hannity, limbaugh and everyone else that questions President Obama's manliness, or sincerity, and offer that the display of emotion is normal and acceptable among HUMANS.

jenmito

(37,326 posts)
15. They wouldn't dare. Not to mention,
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 04:53 PM
Dec 2012

Beck fake-cries all the time. Boehner cries, too. Obama cried as a father while comforting the country as POTUS.

pnwmom

(109,024 posts)
28. He visibly had to stop and compose himself more than once,
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 06:18 PM
Dec 2012

and he dabbed at the corners of his eyes several times.

"No drama Obama" was deeply moved. He is as empathic as any President I've ever seen.

Gothmog

(145,894 posts)
14. I am proud that this man is our President
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 04:51 PM
Dec 2012

I was crying a little too during President Obama's statement. I am glad that this man is our President

Blecht

(3,803 posts)
18. I'm not hanging in there at all
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 05:06 PM
Dec 2012

Just a few days after the mall I have to go by every day had two people randomly murdered, this happens.

So sad ... so sad.

tblue

(16,350 posts)
20. Please let this be the beginning
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 05:34 PM
Dec 2012

of a move toward true gun control and gun safety legislation. I know he is sad. Bless him for caring so deeply. Now that we know that he is moved by the deaths of these children, let him back it up with action. If Lincoln can take on slavery, Obama can take on guns.

juajen

(8,515 posts)
23. All those little babies. I can't bear to imagine what they went through; not to mention the poor
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 06:08 PM
Dec 2012

mother of the shooter. I bet he shot the children first to hurt her more. I have a 4 year old grandson. How horrible that we are afraid for our children to go to school.

Hekate

(91,006 posts)
26. He's a good man. I caught part of it, and he was wiping the tears away
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 06:11 PM
Dec 2012

I have to keep the TV off, as Friday afternoon to Saturday is my time with my 8 y.o. grandson. We're going to see The Hobbit shortly. I'm going to continue to thank the Gods for him, and my heart will break for those other parents and grandparents. But the TV is going to stay off in my house.

I repeat: Barack Obama is a good, good man. I hope we deserve him. I mean it.

YvonneCa

(10,117 posts)
38. So have I. A K-4 school. Ages 4-9...
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 07:39 PM
Dec 2012

...years old, for the most part. BABIES. If we...as American adults...cannot do better to protect our children, there is something WRONG with us.

nolabear

(42,004 posts)
29. What a tragic part of being president. I hope we can come together and care for the children.
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 06:21 PM
Dec 2012

And we're ALL children in many ways. Peace to you all. Peace to US all.

UtahLib

(3,179 posts)
31. Just when I think I can't cry anymore, the tears begin to stream down my face again.
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 06:39 PM
Dec 2012

Witnessing the unbearable anguish on the faces of the parents is tearing me apart. We must somehow make this world safer for the most tender and innocent amongst us. Those poor little survivors will never be able to forget this horrible tragedy.

RetroGamer1971

(177 posts)
33. Today is not the time for the NRA to spew. Hug your kids.
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 07:03 PM
Dec 2012

Our thoughts and prayers should go out to the families of the murdered children who lost their lives today because they went to school. Hug your little ones extra hard when they get off of the bus. Kiss them. and tuck them in EXTRA tight tonight......because some parents at Sandy Hook won't ever get to do that again. Guns talks can wait.

nolabear

(42,004 posts)
35. My son's girlfriend is a Montessori teacher. She is having a rough day.
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 07:17 PM
Dec 2012

I understand from him that she's hanging in there, but parents are frightened, kids are picking up on it, she is deeply unsettled and trying to carry on, and it's just miserable.

I'm offering all the support I can, but it's damned awful all over today, I'm sure.

 

Liberalynn

(7,549 posts)
36. I am not a parent
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 07:19 PM
Dec 2012

but I can only imagine how much sadness and fear incidents like these cause every parent, not just those directly effected. Their pain must be uninmaginable.

I am not even a by birth aunt, but my second cousin, who is now 27, adopted me as his honorary aunt, and another young man, 30 that is young to a 50 year old, adopted me as his unoffical big sister. I have known them both since they were infants. I know how much it would have hurt and how much it would still hurt, if they were taken from my life in such a senseless fashion.

So bless all of you parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, sisters, and brothers, who grieve during this terrible day, may you find comfort in the children who continue to bless your lives.

lupinella

(365 posts)
39. K&R Thanks for this.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 12:47 AM
Dec 2012

Our President has empathy. What a wonderful & rare gift.
Anyone who tries to gain political ground at his rare show of emotion should be boycotted loudly.

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