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Is anyone going to inherit your "digital legacy" when you die? (Original Post) True Dough Jan 2022 OP
nope lapfog_1 Jan 2022 #1
I really don't care what happens after I die Walleye Jan 2022 #2
Right on PJMcK Jan 2022 #3
All of my meager investment assets have my brother as beneficiary. No will necessary Walleye Jan 2022 #5
I totally agree. Who cares. jimfields33 Jan 2022 #4
im going to look into this.. i have one child and no functional sibs left and i have hundreds samnsara Jan 2022 #6
There are organizations that preserve the past and would love your stuff bucolic_frolic Jan 2022 #7
excellent idea markie Jan 2022 #8
Sorry to hear of this :( PXR-5 Jan 2022 #11
That would be a nope. Mr. Scorpio Jan 2022 #9
Part of our will documentation JT45242 Jan 2022 #10
Google has a setting that PXR-5 Jan 2022 #12
Eastman Kodak Company has predicted for many years that after a person passes... RicROC Jan 2022 #13
Make sure the person you designate as the executor FakeNoose Jan 2022 #14

PJMcK

(22,075 posts)
3. Right on
Tue Jan 4, 2022, 09:16 AM
Jan 2022

Take care of your business so your executor can step in and close everything easily.

I’ve learned this lesson from many different sources: Don’t leave a mess behind you.

Walleye

(31,159 posts)
5. All of my meager investment assets have my brother as beneficiary. No will necessary
Tue Jan 4, 2022, 09:18 AM
Jan 2022

I really appreciated it when my parents died. Everything was in order. Me and my two brothers split everything three ways. When I see families who fight over inheritance I can’t believe it

jimfields33

(16,158 posts)
4. I totally agree. Who cares.
Tue Jan 4, 2022, 09:17 AM
Jan 2022

I did briefly thought about the movies I purchased on Amazon but thought “screw it. Not worth it”.

samnsara

(17,667 posts)
6. im going to look into this.. i have one child and no functional sibs left and i have hundreds
Tue Jan 4, 2022, 10:05 AM
Jan 2022

..of old photos from the 30s that my grandma 'inherited' then my mom and now me. I have my grandparents marriage license and wedding certificate from the early 20s...and i was just wondering who/how the hell would anyone access my digital collection after i leave for the rainbow bridge. I've given away so much vintage stuff I'm going to see something on Antique Roadshow..'Oh I bought this rare (whatever) at Goodwill for a quarter'...

I have my grandparents love letters, my grand fathers handwritten notes from when he was a beat cop and investigator in Oklahoma in the 30s and 40s. These are priceless..to me...but will go in the trash heap when i die

bucolic_frolic

(43,528 posts)
7. There are organizations that preserve the past and would love your stuff
Tue Jan 4, 2022, 10:21 AM
Jan 2022

There are hometown organizations, era collections, category genres, religious organizations, genealogy enthusiasts. They could make a whole family tree and post some photos and letters there. There are probably even organizations in your neighborhood that do legacy archiving who might know a good use for your history - try a local hospice and ask if they do any archiving, legacy work, or can recommend someone.

For example, there is localwiki.com which builds the history of towns and cities from local participants. There are WWII groups that accept letters from the period and preserve them as part of American history. You granddad was a cop? FOP might have some interest, or advise on a group that does. Understand that stuff is rare! No one saved them, or only in old trunks. People move, out they go. Deaths? The stuff is at a yard sale. Old photos can be worth big money on eBay, especially if you know who they are.

If you just toss them, some dumpster diver or Thrift Store entrepreneur will grab them, scan them, clean them, reprint them. The right photo could be sold over and over for hundreds or thousands. See if there is an ephemera appraiser in your area, someone who collects paper memorabilia, and see if they will make a cash offer. Or try a local auction house.

markie

(22,759 posts)
8. excellent idea
Tue Jan 4, 2022, 10:27 AM
Jan 2022

it has been a real problem for me since my husband died... he kept trying to get me to keep a file of all his passwords... I didn't want to accept that he would be gone someday... now I desperately want his pictures and documents and will pay dearly to get at them

PXR-5

(522 posts)
11. Sorry to hear of this :(
Tue Jan 4, 2022, 12:07 PM
Jan 2022

I have been trying to get my wife on board with my stuff including financial stuff. It's a definite no go.

So I still pay bills online, but still make everyone send me paper bills in the mail.
It's such a waste, but when I kick the bucket she can go back to check writing or set up her own payment methods.

I always share photos with her and my phone is not password protected, but sadly she's just not on board with the important stuff.

JT45242

(2,320 posts)
10. Part of our will documentation
Tue Jan 4, 2022, 11:24 AM
Jan 2022

We did our will a couple of years back and having a digital piece in teh will was a standard bit in the software that we used.

After dealing with my mom's death, trying to deal with all her online accounts and make certain they were closed down so they couldn't get hacked was a real pain in the butt.

If you don't have something about this in your will -- you probably should since data breaches seem to be so common. Just imagine if someone hacked your amazon account and bought thousands of dollars worth of stuff and your kids had no way to contest because you didn't give them your digital rights.

PXR-5

(522 posts)
12. Google has a setting that
Tue Jan 4, 2022, 12:10 PM
Jan 2022

wipes your account clean after a period of inactivity that you can set.

I think mine is set at 90 days.

RicROC

(1,204 posts)
13. Eastman Kodak Company has predicted for many years that after a person passes...
Tue Jan 4, 2022, 12:42 PM
Jan 2022

all the photos from that person's era will be locked in a computer and lost forever.

Good idea to have a Digital Legacy.

FakeNoose

(32,917 posts)
14. Make sure the person you designate as the executor
Tue Jan 4, 2022, 01:20 PM
Jan 2022

... accepts the designation. Also if it's your spouse, it might be a good idea to also ask another younger person as a backup. Make sure that person has whatever passwords, user names and ID he/she needs to get into your devices.

Maybe that's not so important for your cellphone but it's vital for any desktop or laptop computer.

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