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Effete Snob

(8,387 posts)
58. I came in on the tail of these three posts
Wed Dec 21, 2022, 06:41 PM
Dec 2022

Last edited Wed Dec 21, 2022, 07:43 PM - Edit history (1)

"It's a stupid habit."

"Leaving a car running and unattended is against the law..."

"...it creates a public hazard. ...Then you get to explain your negligence to a judge."

Along with the OP misquoting the story to make it "her order".

This woman's child is missing and DUers want to point out that she's a stupid, negligent criminal.

I responded to a string of invective against the victim. But you don't have an issue with those other statements, do you.

The police statement to the effect of making sure "it never happens again" is pretty clear where this is going.

I believe that she was trying to make a living in a 2010 car she had just purchased (the temporary tag) to try to earn some money and not freeze her kids.

And, I'm sorry, if it is some mystery to you why someone in a newly-purchased twelve year old hooptie wagon is picking up DoorDash, then I'll put that down to maybe not appreciating what people do to get by these days. It was less than a block away from the last DoorDash carjacking on that street. It is why the perp was sitting in the restaurant waiting for a DoorDash driver to pick up an order. It is an extremely common method since, yes, DoorDash drivers tend to leave the engine running as noted in any article about DoorDash carjackings.

A child is missing and, yep, three posts in a row condemning the victim just pushed me over the edge to mock them. These people want her locked up. Absolutely, that set me off.

The torchbearing mob will be happy when the other one is taken away from her - precisely the tenor of "explain it to the judge".

A lot of what goes on in social media consists of the public stocks in which the vegetable throwers demonstrate their moral superiority by having a throw at whomever suffered some dreadful consequence of an error in judgment, a momentary loss of good sense, or some other affliction of their perceptual and inhibitory mechanisms. The "Darwin Awards" are a good example of that. Someone does something "stupid" and we feel better by calling them stupid than sympathizing with someone who, yes, did something stupid, as we all do at times.

There was a time when things like empathy and compassion were important values on this side of the political spectrum. That no longer seems to be the case.

"The boys' mother was reportedly picking up a DoorDash order when the car was stolen." Effete Snob Dec 2022 #1
This, right here. WhiskeyGrinder Dec 2022 #3
Haven't read that anyone has criticized her. Not the police; not anyone. mobeau69 Dec 2022 #5
You changed the story in your subject line Effete Snob Dec 2022 #26
She can be faulted for leaving the car running Tom Rinaldo Dec 2022 #7
The temperature in Columbus is getting into single digits at night Effete Snob Dec 2022 #12
And here's hoping that a strong wind blew her temporary license plate away Rocknation Dec 2022 #50
Oh that's sad. I don't order out, so don't know this. LeftInTX Dec 2022 #17
Very common Effete Snob Dec 2022 #32
We have had multiple alerts on this in Ohio...no kids thus far...the bad guy may be after the kids. Demsrule86 Dec 2022 #38
Hopefully they just want the car and drop the kids off somewhere treestar Dec 2022 #2
You might want to read the DDN article. They found one of the boys at the Dayton airport. mobeau69 Dec 2022 #9
Damn 3auld6phart Dec 2022 #4
That's -18.4 F which is too cold to think about. milestogo Dec 2022 #6
Ordinary civil life continues... Effete Snob Dec 2022 #8
Hilarious! Thanks for posting. n/t TeamProg Dec 2022 #19
Had to be done on a dare. Too funny. JudyM Dec 2022 #25
NEVER walk off and leave your motor running, ANYWHERE or WHEN. eppur_se_muova Dec 2022 #10
Leaving a car running and unattended is against the law in most, if not all, states. mobeau69 Dec 2022 #11
That, too. Thanks for the reminder. It's because it creates a public hazard. eppur_se_muova Dec 2022 #13
Working for Door Dash with a child in the car Effete Snob Dec 2022 #14
Where did you learn she was working there? I read she was just picking up an order she had placed. mobeau69 Dec 2022 #18
It's in the story Effete Snob Dec 2022 #20
"What is DoorDash pickup?" OilemFirchen Dec 2022 #27
Hardly Effete Snob Dec 2022 #28
And there you go again. OilemFirchen Dec 2022 #30
Do you use DoorDash? Effete Snob Dec 2022 #33
We've used it on occasion. OilemFirchen Dec 2022 #37
If you would like to start a thread about me, feel free Effete Snob Dec 2022 #40
Do what? I'm happy to continue this conversation right here, thanks. OilemFirchen Dec 2022 #46
. Effete Snob Dec 2022 #59
This is why the carjacker was there Effete Snob Dec 2022 #34
. Effete Snob Dec 2022 #35
Yep, I checked Effete Snob Dec 2022 #31
. Effete Snob Dec 2022 #60
No child care, needed a job. TNNurse Dec 2022 #21
Indeed that is what I have been pointing out for the hard of hearing Effete Snob Dec 2022 #22
Forget what you wrote for post #14 already? Lancero Dec 2022 #39
Very good! Effete Snob Dec 2022 #41
I think you flip flop for the sake of arguing with people. Lancero Dec 2022 #43
You didn't read my first post Effete Snob Dec 2022 #42
I think you flip flop, for the sake of arguing with people. Lancero Dec 2022 #44
I was mocking ignorant people who have no empathy Effete Snob Dec 2022 #45
A working mom who is hustling a crap job to keep her kids fed? irisblue Dec 2022 #23
I know, right? Effete Snob Dec 2022 #24
Parents who can't afford childcare bring their kids with them. intheflow Dec 2022 #29
Username checks out oioioi Dec 2022 #47
I think you have misunderstood that post. n/t Whiskeytide Dec 2022 #48
Thanks but I don't see any sarcasm tags and it's not amusing - even if meant to be sarcastic oioioi Dec 2022 #49
And it was contextually inappropriate. OilemFirchen Dec 2022 #52
The post responded to was blaming ... Whiskeytide Dec 2022 #55
. Effete Snob Dec 2022 #56
I came in on the tail of these three posts Effete Snob Dec 2022 #58
It wasn't sarcasm. It was mocking, and that ... Whiskeytide Dec 2022 #53
Actually three posts in succession Effete Snob Dec 2022 #57
Every remote starter I've ever had required either the key in the ignition or the fob in vehicle tritsofme Dec 2022 #15
It's common to see unattended vehicles running in parking lots in winter Kaleva Dec 2022 #51
Yep Rebl2 Dec 2022 #61
Something Rebl2 Dec 2022 #16
Seems this is more about keys in the ignition than kids in the car. tinrobot Dec 2022 #36
this is terrifying for the mother IcyPeas Dec 2022 #54
Missing twin baby Kason Thomass found safe, suspect in custody Rocknation Dec 2022 #62
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