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Joe Chi Minh

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31. To prevent continuation of their 'gang' mindset, reinforcement of their hostility to their father.

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Thu Jul 9, 2015, 10:58 AM

Jul 2015

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Because seeing your dad HIT YOUR MOTHER is no reason not to have lunch with him. [View all] IdaBriggs Jul 2015 OP

There likely is more to the story ... 1StrongBlackMan Jul 2015 #1

Maybe the father has failed to maintain a "healthy relationship" with his children? DetlefK Jul 2015 #2

Not always Major Nikon Jul 2015 #9

I fail to see how locking up the children in a juvenlie facility is going to make them LisaL Jul 2015 #19

It would surely be to reduce or eliminate their mother's influence over them. Joe Chi Minh Jul 2015 #28

One thing it's not going to do, is to make them have a good relationship with their father. LisaL Jul 2015 #33

Judicial child abuse. nt tblue37 Jul 2015 #47

One spouse can cause hell onn earth. Remember the English husband Joe Chi Minh Jul 2015 #48

I don't either Major Nikon Jul 2015 #39

Even if it's not his fault, locking kids up in a juvenile facility is not going to make them love LisaL Jul 2015 #40

My youngest daughter would barely speak to me Blue_In_AK Jul 2015 #49

No. As was said of Byron, they are mad, bad and dangerous to know! Before they grow up. Joe Chi Minh Jul 2015 #66

Yes. Tug of hate, when they hate each other more than they love their children Or don't realise Joe Chi Minh Jul 2015 #25

I happens all the time tymorial Jul 2015 #76

Something Tells Me RobinA Jul 2015 #3

This is one ugly hot mess JustAnotherGen Jul 2015 #4

I think there is more to the story we don't know Marrah_G Jul 2015 #5

"I find the wrong people may be in jail. One of the parents belongs in Children's Village," HereSince1628 Jul 2015 #6

In my experience as a counselor, teens have almost no voice in proceedings. JohnnyLib2 Jul 2015 #7

Whatever the reason, the kids should not be blamed. Lisa D Jul 2015 #8

after reading the article... Javaman Jul 2015 #10

Agreed nt stevenleser Jul 2015 #15

+44,000 Angry Dragon Jul 2015 #79

Edited: Thanks for bringing this one to our attention. Hard to know for sure what is what here. stevenleser Jul 2015 #11

What bothers me here, this is a PUBLIC PROCEEDING. closeupready Jul 2015 #21

Well, having been part of a long drawn out custody case, there are bookcases full of filings stevenleser Jul 2015 #23

Right, I agree with that. closeupready Jul 2015 #26

I suspect it's a mother-inspired ganging up. The normal reaction of children would be Joe Chi Minh Jul 2015 #30

I am inclined to believe that there is more going on AND the judge needs to be removed etherealtruth Jul 2015 #78

Humans are so super good at marriages and family making, aren't we? Bluenorthwest Jul 2015 #12

Father accepted a job in Israel. Wife didn't want to move there. She moved there for a while, but LisaL Jul 2015 #13

So the fifteen year old really didn't see his father hitting his mother. marble falls Jul 2015 #69

How do you know that? LisaL Jul 2015 #77

Why the hell did she order that the kids be kept apart from EACH OTHER? lostnfound Jul 2015 #14

To prevent continuation of their 'gang' mindset, reinforcement of their hostility to their father. Joe Chi Minh Jul 2015 #31

So you think that locking children up in a juvenile facility is going to make them feel kindly LisaL Jul 2015 #32

"You won't visit your father? Okay, you can't see your mother, either." Orsino Jul 2015 #16

And each other. She ordered that kids be kept apart from each other. LisaL Jul 2015 #18

The Gorcyca name is truly corrupt romanic Jul 2015 #17

Thanks for the history... CanSocDem Jul 2015 #20

I THOUGHT that name was familiar.... nt navarth Jul 2015 #22

I wonder if she gets kickbacks kcr Jul 2015 #36

Wonderful post, these two are sick , sick people etherealtruth Jul 2015 #80

Republican family values! Both parents are mentally screwed up! B Calm Jul 2015 #24

" Gorcyca reminded the boy that his father had never been charged with any offenses" Jack Rabbit Jul 2015 #27

this is a sick judge heaven05 Jul 2015 #29

The judge's husband romanic Jul 2015 #45

I've seen a parental alienation case up close and personal. riderinthestorm Jul 2015 #34

Locking the children up in a juvenile facilty is not the solution to this type of problem. LisaL Jul 2015 #37

Definitely not the answer. Counseling is the obvious choice. riderinthestorm Jul 2015 #38

What is? You seem to think that the hate-filled mindset of the children, seeingly inculcated by the Joe Chi Minh Jul 2015 #50

You're wrong. Gormy Cuss Jul 2015 #51

Thanks for setting me straight on that. Joe Chi Minh Jul 2015 #62

I stand corrected. Thank you. Strange to think of a 5 year old behind bars. Joe Chi Minh Jul 2015 #63

Judge called it "jail." So that should give you a clue. LisaL Jul 2015 #53

True. Strange to think of even 9 and 10 year olds being kept in prison cells behind bars, though. Joe Chi Minh Jul 2015 #64

Perhaps it was "inculcated by" the father's violence towards the mother? Just a guess. WinkyDink Jul 2015 #57

Maybe. I hope not, because if I were a woman sporadically battered 'black and blue', Joe Chi Minh Jul 2015 #65

The 15 year old son WITNESSED his father assault his mother. No wonder he hates him. pnwmom Jul 2015 #73

That was what he alleged. Maybe it was true, but a respected lawyer Joe Chi Minh Jul 2015 #81

It's not a summer camp. They are in jail. yardwork Jul 2015 #82

They are now at a summer camp and they weren't in juvenile detention. tammywammy Jul 2015 #89

And I have seen the results of child abuse up close and personal. pnwmom Jul 2015 #70

Oh agreed the judge is the monster in this case riderinthestorm Jul 2015 #71

Yes, I have mentioned her before. pnwmom Jul 2015 #72

You done good pnwmom!!! riderinthestorm Jul 2015 #74

Back at you. pnwmom Jul 2015 #75

Well done. Be proud of yourself. nt msanthrope Jul 2015 #86

Thanks, msanthrope, pnwmom Jul 2015 #88

does the judge have some serious problems? telling a 9-year old to study the manson family????? niyad Jul 2015 #35

She's had six years to brainwash them. TexasMommaWithAHat Jul 2015 #41

according to the mercuryblues Jul 2015 #44

holy crap mercuryblues Jul 2015 #42

I also thought her statemetns to the children were very rude. LisaL Jul 2015 #43

My God, this woman is insane. SwissTony Jul 2015 #46

What can we do about a bad judge like this? Tatiana La Belle Jul 2015 #52

the judge is an idiot Liberal_in_LA Jul 2015 #54

Now kids can be coerced into talking to a parent???? WinkyDink Jul 2015 #55

And if they don't, they can be locked up. No matter the age. LisaL Jul 2015 #56

Sick, sick, sick. WinkyDink Jul 2015 #58

One thing is certain: In 3, 8, and 9 years, Daddy-O will lose FOREVER any contact with his kids. WinkyDink Jul 2015 #59

I just hope kids don't have to sit in jail all this time. LisaL Jul 2015 #60

The mother fucker needs more Jesus seveneyes Jul 2015 #61

Nightmare for the children and it sounds like it will become much worse now. n/t Jefferson23 Jul 2015 #67

Lived this myself. It's deplorable and sickening. nt boston bean Jul 2015 #68

I'm sorry that happened to you. yardwork Jul 2015 #83

Thank you. boston bean Jul 2015 #84

WTF are the children being punished like that for!?! lunatica Jul 2015 #85

I think there's probably a lot more to this story. tammywammy Jul 2015 #87