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onpatrol98

(1,989 posts)
29. Thank you for posting!!!
Tue Jul 21, 2015, 11:54 AM
Jul 2015

Last edited Tue Jul 21, 2015, 07:42 PM - Edit history (1)

This post really helped me understand why I have been SO out of sorts with DU. The place makes me feel owned. It makes me feel SOME people think they can pick up bits and pieces of your history, your inner being, and use it wherever appropriate.

When the activist Sturtz interrupted Michelle Obama, I had a DUer tell me that had Frederick Douglas been alive he would have been MORE proud of Sturtz than Michelle Obama. Think about the privilege or insanity in believing that...

When Whitney Houston died and the speculation that she was gay was tossed around and it was discussed that it would be a good thing for the gay community if she was outed. Now, Whitney may well have been gay, nothing wrong with that. But, I just felt like...whoa...an iconic figure for the black community, but her worth to some is only in what purpose she can serve...even after death. And, these weren't gay black people doing the pontificating.

When we discuss white privilege and its impact on the black community, we get told, hey it doesn't exist or if it does exist, it's best not to talk about it. It doesn't help the greater cause. What is the greater cause? Well, it's whatever someone else tells you it is. They don't even see the irony. They don't have to. Now, with Bernie versus Hilary. It's just ugly.

Post after post of ... can't you see what Bernie has done for black people (AKA you people)? He marched 40 years ago. What more can you want?

But, I'm essentially sick and tired of feeling OWNED. My grandmother had this saying...that she had finally gotten grown...at age 88. That's what makes DU feel absolutely unbearable at times. That the signals being sent...I assume unintentionally is...sit down. We'll send for you when we need you. We'll tell you what to say, who to vote for, what to think, when you get here. Your needs are of no consequence. Even your children are disposable...AKA there are still those that think the right outcome was produced with the Trayvon Martin trial.

And, if you don't behave...well, you'll get republicans. And, you know how they feel about you. Damn...what a life. When I'm here, I live in the AA group...where people get it.

When your grandparents reality meant never really being safe.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Negro_Motorist_Green_Book

And, now in 2015, our children's reality means...never really being safe.

Dr. Martin Luther King's life and death means something entirely different for me in rural Mississippi.

I think it is an excellent point kimbutgar Jul 2015 #1
I'm gonna put a pause on my lurking just for this post. M0rpheus Jul 2015 #2
Hey M0rpheus, sheshe2 Jul 2015 #4
Aw shucks! M0rpheus Jul 2015 #9
Hmmm~ sheshe2 Jul 2015 #11
If I'm lurking about and see the signal, I'll definitely respond. M0rpheus Jul 2015 #14
... sheshe2 Jul 2015 #16
Dr. King, deathrind Jul 2015 #3
I posted about the freedom riders as well. sheshe2 Jul 2015 #6
I have nothing but... deathrind Jul 2015 #36
I agree with you 100%, deathrind. sheshe2 Jul 2015 #37
Thank you for posting this, sheshe2. SunSeeker Jul 2015 #5
"It really was a matter of life and death. And in two many instances today, it still is." sheshe2 Jul 2015 #24
I know that. Wilms Jul 2015 #7
Thank you Wilms for pausing... sheshe2 Jul 2015 #25
Hamden Rice got it exactly right. K&R...should be mandatory reading at DU. Fred Sanders Jul 2015 #8
Hey Fred... sheshe2 Jul 2015 #13
K & R Iliyah Jul 2015 #10
But, but, but, I was thinking Bernie may have been for Civil Rights before MLK. yea right. Thinkingabout Jul 2015 #12
Heartbreakingly poignant piece by Hamden Rice, she. Essential advice to take to heart.. Cha Jul 2015 #15
This message was self-deleted by its author sheshe2 Jul 2015 #18
Oh, wow.. obtuse.. purposely or otherwise. Cha Jul 2015 #20
OCD posting of The Magic Quote is SO ANNOYING. betsuni Jul 2015 #22
i disagree about Bernie using King JI7 Jul 2015 #27
Post removed Post removed Jul 2015 #17
Excuse me? sheshe2 Jul 2015 #19
He's refering to the OP unless he's lost. He's insulting MLK in the AA group. Why am I Cha Jul 2015 #21
damn heaven05 Jul 2015 #33
FFS sheshe2 Jul 2015 #26
A hearty K&R! Tarheel_Dem Jul 2015 #23
results of the alert irisblue Jul 2015 #28
Thank you for posting!!! onpatrol98 Jul 2015 #29
damn, +1000 heaven05 Jul 2015 #32
On point. qwlauren35 Jul 2015 #34
Well said. +1000 sheshe2 Jul 2015 #38
K&R ismnotwasm Jul 2015 #30
+1000 heaven05 Jul 2015 #31
I suggest we call him what we call him in the neighborhood - "Dr King" grahamhgreen Jul 2015 #35
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