Reply #34: the bullies are actually the ones in need of self improvement [View All]

[shugah]

bullies are not bullies because they feel good about themselves. an individual that bullies others is actually trying to feel better about his/her self by very inappropriate means.

i don't really understand what you think "the natural order" is. that bullies should bully because they can? that victims of bullying deserve it? that there is some kind of "natural order" that can be applied to bullying? :shrug:

so, if the victims of bullying just need to buck up and face the challenge and grow in the face of adversity - what do you suggest for the bullies?