Reply #45: Wow...and you were doing so well [View All]

[salin]

You made the first point very well - that even given the "opportunity" not all boys will "take advantage". Good.

However, you veer into odd territory. Not raping her, makes you a wimp? er. What?!

How do you go to the point that it is a "rule" that women (inferred "all" women) select abusive, violent basturds to be with? Some girls, undoubtedly, are messed up - and will select scary men (often these are repeating cycles... were abused earlier... or watched a mother be abused.. etc.) But most women do not. You suggest that everyone who is in a relationship or married is married to a violent *sshole prone to rape. That is absurd. And it doesn't quite track with the previous statement that you are not claiming that women want to be raped or abused. Becuase if they don't want it then the wouldn't "universially" select mates prone to doing it.

I am sorry that to date you have not had good luck with girls. But don't give up. Most women I know have ended up with really great, nice, "harmless" guys. But I suggest that you drop this conflicting view that really does suggest that women are asking for it by suggesting that "universally" they select only abusive ment.... it might be part of what you project (in terms of views of girls) that gets in the way.