Reply #84: have children entered the picture yet? [View All]

[notadmblnd]

If not, then you still have some time to be madly in lust. Bringing children into this world is one sure way to rub the shine off the knob.

I don't know why people look at marriage like it should be wine and roses happily ever after instead of like a business partnership. Most marriages don't last because people are selfish and place their individual needs before the partnerships' needs.


When I was married, my husband and I took our commitment very seriously and realized it was for the rest of our lives. We stuck it out despite all of the obsticals we faced. No, it wasn't easy with work, kids illness, bankruptcy, jobloss. I guess my husband just couldn't take anymore, after 20 years he left us the only way he could, he died.