Reply #5: You don't think you might be looking in the wrong places? [View All]

[Bossy Monkey]

I met my beloved in a writers' group. You should probably identify what your main interests are, join groups that focus on those interests, and don't worry about it too much. For example, I hear there's a fairly important presidential election happening about a year hence; maybe volunteer for a candidate or at party HQ. Just my 2 cents.