Reply #70: Mine is a pretty wierd way of finding out... [View All]

[Samurai_Writer]

I had several suspicions before this, and even a name of a woman who supposedly was "a psycho bitch who was 'after him'". But this was the last straw...

My husband was a maritime agent, and often would have to go to port to inspect ships at odd hours. So, he gets called into work on a Sunday evening. A few hours later, he calls me, and tells me his co-worker has been in a terrible car accident, and he's going to the hospital to see him. So I say fine, see you when you get home.

Morning comes, and he is still not home. So I call him on his cell phone. He sounds very strange. I ask what's up, how's his friend, etc. He said he spent the night at the hospital comforting the guy's wife -- friend is supposedly in ICU. So he says he is going to work.

I call his work, and who answers the phone, but his friend who is supposedly on his deathbed in the hospital. Call my husband back, and the 'psycho bitch' answers his phone! Get him on the line, tell him I know what's going on, to come home, get his stuff,and bring my car back. He never came back. I changed the locks that day on the house and my other car (both of which I was paying on -- he had been unemployed for 75% of our marriage). He tried to steal the other car from my place of work, so it's a good thing I got the locks changed on it. Got a divorce, got my car repo'ed from where it was sitting at the psycho bitch's house. He ended up marrying her (wife #4, but is already onto wife #5). This was about six years ago.

When I was going through his things to pack and give to him, I found a diary, several women's phone numbers and email addresses, and photos. I confirmed he had affairs with at least five women during our 2 1/2 year marriage. One even went with me to court to testify, which is why I got a divorce for cause -- adultery. In Texas, that is nearly impossible to do.