I think I may ask this girl out tomorrow..... [View All]

[Wetzelbill]

Well, maybe not out "out" but for coffee or something. We have a lecture tomorrow and she is in my study group on friday too. But, our friday class is optional and I heard her mention she may never show up to it again. Anyway, the first day of lecture, I noticed her out of like about 200 people in there. She's pretty damn stunning. Exotic, about my height etc. That first study section she walked in and I immediately remembered her. Ok, a couple times, before we ever met, in lecture and in our section we made eye contact a few times. Then by dumb luck we ended up in a small group of 4 together to do some work on that first day. I caught her checking me out a little. I'm totally shy though. She did it again in lecture last week too. But, in my insecure head I'm thinking she maybe checked me out and wasn't interested or something. LOl, I know, seek help, huh?

Her name is really complex too. It's Tahirea or Tahea or something. Really pretty though. I know I'll butcher it if I say it to her, haha. But, she said she wants to do work to help people in South Asia when she graduates. I was totally impressed with that. I haven't gotten a chance to talk to her since. But, tomorrow after lecture I am going to try to summon the balls to just walk right up to her and strike up a conversation. Then ask her for coffee or something. I'd like to be blunt and compliment her somehow. I'm pretty successful on the rare occasion I do that. Tell her that she looks beautiful today or something. I need to get over this shyness quick before I end up old and bitter, lol.

I'm psyching myself up to be assertive. I lost a chance a few years ago with one of the best women I've ever met, because I was too chicken to go for her. I can't keep being like that you know? I am pretty confident in most aspects of my life too. I'm pretty outgoing around women a lot, I'm talkative, funny and so on, but when it comes time to close the deal. Cat gets my tongue. Not good. :)

Any advice would be cool though.