Reply #28: Closing the deal? [View All]

[khashka]

It's an odd and discomforting phrase...

You wanna make a connection with this girl? Or just get your hands in her panties? I'm cool with either, but...

Girls are not deals to be closed.

Also you complain about being friends with women rather than something more. True, that can be rough and it can hurt. (Trust me I know!) But, if you want more than a quick fuck, if you want something that matters, you start with friendship.

None of which is of any immediate help, is it? Just ask her out and be yourself. You are a great guy. So make sure she sees the real you.... there is no deal to be closed, no goal to be scored, no winners or losers. Ask her out...


Khash.
(was that too harsh?)