Reply #13: Accept them as humans with faults [View All]

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if they're so vile you can't be around them - then don't, just like you would not have other people in your life that have a negative influence.

Just let go of the anger part of it and put the blame on them and their human weaknesses.

I had to do this with my dad. When I realized he was weak with some aspects of his life I was able to have a good relationship with him before he died. When I decided he didn't have to be the perfect person we sometimes think our parents are it was easy.

good luck