Reply #2: Since you asked, [View All]

[SOteric]

I think you and your SO are living together too soon. If you don't feel the relationship had the chance to develop during the drama of the ex, and it doesn't have the space to develop in your current circumstance, then probably neither of you is ready...yet.

And if you're feeling any resentment (and obviously you are) about the parental arrangement, then I'd say you should step back a bit and reposition yourself.

I realise I've only your perspective for this, but I think neither of you are really in a emotional position to be living with someone just now.

If it would ease the upset and preserve the relationship, maybe try getting an inexpensive space of your own and only spending a few days a week at your own place.