Reply #26: I know what that's like... [View All]

[Hong Kong Cavalier]

I once semi-dated a woman who, for some reason, completely neglected to tell me that she had a boyfriend.
We went to concerts, movies, dinner, had long talks, spent a lot of time together (almost 12 hours one day).
But for some reason, I had to find out she had a boyfriend from a co-worker, who ran into her boyfriend at a
gas station where he told my co-worker who he was dating (they all went to the same high school together).

When I finally brought his name up; (all I said was "so are you dating this guy?"), she just told me goodnight and got in her car.
No explanation at all. She just got in her car and drove away. Every time I saw her after that, she pretended like that (one-sided) conversation didn't
happen.

Hell, I found out second-hand that she got engaged to said boyfriend, too. For some reason, she had problems being
forthcoming to me about anything like that. And last time I saw her, she still insisted we were "close friends". :shrug:

Of course, I know a more than a few men that will "withhold" information that they have a girlfriend, too, when they meet
someone. Hell, some of them don't even mention (to the woman they're with) that they're married.