Reply #105: i don't think this is your fault [View All]

[CreekDog]

these things do happen anyway, regardless of who's at fault.

but if you don't have feelings for him and you said you don't, i hate to say it but i think you need to be absolutely direct with him, perhaps painfully direct. he's going through a divorce now, he needs to know that if he's doing that with any thought that he could have you afterwards that it's not happening. of course, i don't know that story, but if this has entered his mind, he needs to know what he's giving up.

i'm sorry you're going through this. once a relationship is this unequal it's really hard to get things back to the way they were, if not impossible.

hope i'm not too much of a downer here.

give yourself a break. you had slow reflexes but you tried to stop him. you did what was right.

:hug: