Reply #69: A condom is no guarantee... [View All]

[formernaderite]

basically you're promoting abstinence...condoms can be errr....tampered with. Look, obviously a woman has the final say on "what" she does with her body...I just think there is a bit of a double standard when men who have no wish to father a child just yet, are saddled into fatherhood even though they practised "safe" sex. At least the father should have a say in whether he would like the child put up for adoption, if not on whether a woman should carry it to term. As much as women claim this doesn't happen I have two buddies who this did happen to...one was thrilled at the errr...surprise. The other has gone to hell and back, and never even gotten to see the child.

To be clear, this has never happened to me...I am a proud father and step-father, although the oldest kids just call me dad.