Reply #3: I am so sorry to hear about your troubles, Whimsy [View All]

[Desertrose]

That has to be very hard living with something for 11 years....and now more piled on top of it.
:hug::hug::hug:

I agree with Pink Tiger's advice.....it is so frustrating to watch someone we love go through all this...and feel how it affects our own life, too....uncertainty SUCKS!

Knowing nothing about the relationship the two of you have, forgive me if my questions seem intrusive. Has he always been the stronger one? Maybe this is about balancing that out....maybe its about you finding the strength that you have within you. I'm sure over the years that you have both played both parts....I have a feeling that you balance each other out pretty well....maybe this is a way to re-balance things again. You can be strong for each other.... if you need to temporarily fall apart you can always come here & talk to us :)

Perhaps you could research alternate and additional healing modalities when you are feeling helpless and want to find something else to focus on.

I would say enjoy every day the two of you share, enjoy and appreciate where you both are right now in this moment....try not to worry ahead (hard not to do, I know). Do you share a spiritual belief of any kind?

I know so deeply in the center of my being that we just live in these bodies temporarily and though we may feel separated by death, it is an illusion and we can...are...always in communication with those we love.

Keep seeing him healed and healthy...don't give in to the panic and fear (anymore than you have to)...you have more strength than you know....you can do this...you have support and you can support him, too. Clear communication between the two of you will help...

I hope this made sense and in some small way might help...I'm afraid I rambled on a bit ...sending :grouphug: &:loveya:
DR