Reply #20: And why are the ones that are so worried so unattractive? [View All]

[MotorCityMan]

It always seems that the guy's who are so worried about being seen as a sex object are the least likely to be viewed that way be either a male or female.

I see it as a lot of heterosexual men fear being looked at/talked about/treated like they treat women.

Also, one of the big gay myths is that every gay man will make a move on anything with a dick. Although I've known my share of gay male sluts (and went thru my own period when I came out at 18), in my experience gay men are actually extremely picky about who they will sleep with.

I wish more guys were like Henry Rollins, who is straight (and who I think is HOT as HELL!!! Woof!). He stated in an interview how he was hit on by gay men on occasion. He would take it as a compliment and politely tell them he is not interesed.