Reply #190: ftbc...... [View All]

[demgurl]

thank you for trying to defend me. If you look at flatliners post here as well as his post on the TCAP thread, I think you will see a lot of anger. It would seem to me that someone that angry has been wronged and a pretty serious wrong at that. If we ignore his hurt than, for me, it would be like people ignoring the hurt of rape victims who can not come forward. There is so much of holding other people back and I think sometimes we just need healing.

This does not mean you can not tell people to please be polite and I was hoping flatliner would see my reply where I told him I would never call anyone blind because that would be insulting. I was hoping by nicely pointing out what he said coupled with me trying to understand where he is coming from may advance him being friendlier and perhaps even help heal flatliner a bit.

It does do my heart good, though, to know people care enough to speak up. Thank you for your caring and contribution to this thread.