Lil Missy
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Sun Dec-21-08 12:40 AM
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6. That's an interesting observation. And I never thought of it that way. |
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In my experience, those who insist most loudly that being gay is a "choice" are all straight as an arrow.
But there IS also that phenomenon of people having certain desires or feelings both ways, even though they are primarily straight. However, they would never admit to such feelings due to the perceived shame and ostracism they'd get.
Thus again, it just proves how hard it is for gays to come to terms and come out honestly. Because it can easily result in tremendous shame and actual abandonment from friends and family. Nobody wants to invite that into their lives.
For some, it is a matter of life or death.
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