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Edited on Fri Mar-25-05 02:10 AM by necso
I should have responded more directly to the specific content of your original post.
I agree, in general, that we should try tactics and strategies that offer some chance of obtaining some success -- as opposed to what we so often do. And certainly there are some lines that are less susceptible to manipulation than others. But there really is no winning an argument with fixated nut-cases (one can only go along with their insanity or not) and we have very, very little control over how things are sold to the American people -- and what many of them end up believing (of course, we need to change this). But, certainly, we do desperately need to learn to play the game better.
To deal with the details of your original post, let's suppose that we offer the deal (somehow) -- that is, she gets life support if somebody pays other than taxpayers. And let's suppose that the deal is taken (some rich fundie nut would probably jump at the chance). Now, you have to figure that regardless of whether this woman then lives or dies, the episode will be spun in the most negative light that can be dreamed up. (There are others much better at this than I, but how about: "All they ever cared about was the money" or "Flip-floppers with no moral center" for starters.) The other side comes up with the best lines that they can, adjusts them as necessary and hammers them like nails into people's heads, and we would have to expect the same here.
And then there are her wishes in the matter, the "right" to avoid hopeless life-extension when this is desired, the authority of the courts, the rule of law, and the rights of marriage-partners/guardians to consider (at least). And this says nothing about the efforts made and risks taken by various people to date -- all of which then would count for nothing -- and which would therefore be less likely to be emulated by others in the future.
But suppose she dies after we come out with the offer. We get most of the bad just described -- and we still get this woman used as a martyr. (Worst case would probably be for her to die shortly after they stuck the tube(s) back in her.)
My position on this is that her wishes (or the best approximation of them that we can come up with) should be respected. And if the best that our inhumane society can do is to let it drag out, well then, so be it. But had she been my wife (and worthy of the title), and had I known that her wishes would have been to die, then I would have seen to it that this occurred a long time ago, regardless of the cost. However, this not being the case, cynical old me might have been willing to make some deal -- if I saw it as a net plus -- and before it went this far.
Now I think that we are pretty much stuck. And I am not sure that we could have sold her husband on a deal even way back when (I believe that he is trying to do his best by her). And I don't think that we could have sold it to our peers either.
And I suppose that in strictly technical terms, we win the argument that you propose in any case, because we set the terms and they have to take one of the choices that we offer. But what do we really gain at this point, besides some vague association with taxpayers' rights -- which would probably last like two seconds in the ensuing negative spin-storm?
Now, had we already established an association with taxpayers' rights, then this might be a reinforcing point... but we could still expect the negative spin-storm. -- We can expect a negative spin-storm in any and every case.
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