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madison2000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-02-05 11:18 PM
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Can we have a exs thread?
Whats the worst thing an ex ever did that you can post?
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steve2470 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-02-05 11:19 PM
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1. hmm...talk to my other ex wife lol nt
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madison2000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-02-05 11:20 PM
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2. did they compare notes and develop a comraderie?
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steve2470 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-02-05 11:21 PM
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3. I guess so, I was too irritated to ask nt
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Arkana Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-02-05 11:21 PM
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4. Cheated on me while I was away
and then get offended that I would have the audacity to call her out for the sleazy lying attention whore she is. I had to find out from a friend that she had slept with someone else!
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Cadence Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-02-05 11:22 PM
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5. Cheated on me with two different girls
and when I found out I emailed one of them and told them about it. In retaliation he tried to take me to HR where we work and they brought me in... asked me if I was creating a "hostile work environment" for him. I told them what happened.. they dismissed his complaint and made him relocate within the company.

To this day I think he feels justified because I apparently had no right to interfere with his other relationship. LOL. What a psycho.
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Doctor_J Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-03-05 12:28 AM
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21. another reason not to fish off the company pier
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Cadence Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-03-05 01:12 AM
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26. You said it.
Never again.
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Blue_In_AK Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-02-05 11:25 PM
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6. You don't even want to go there...
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-02-05 11:29 PM
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10. Same here...
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shawcomm Donating Member (877 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-02-05 11:30 PM
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11. That phrase, now, always reminds me of Anger Management
where the guy is telling his story, "when I woke up, I was standing over him yelling 'I told you not to go there! I told you not to go there!'"

Cracks me up.
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Blue_In_AK Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-02-05 11:34 PM
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13. I didn't see that movie,
Edited on Wed Mar-02-05 11:35 PM by Blue_In_AK
but I can identify with the sentiment. I could write a book on the ways my X done me wrong. Way too much to go into here, so I just won't. Thanks to the OP for asking though.
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Kire Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-02-05 11:29 PM
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7. I always did something worse...
...and I usually didn't realize it until years and years later.
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Hans Delbrook Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-02-05 11:29 PM
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8. Married someone else 9 months after he asked me....
And she was only 18 (he was 30 at the time - seven years older than me!) I used to say, "Where did he meet her? Did he go to a high school prom?"

He didn't want to marry me - he just wanted to get married.
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Bok_Tukalo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-02-05 11:29 PM
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9. Made herself my ex
<eom>
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-02-05 11:32 PM
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12. Oh, I don't know. Depends on what you consider bad.
Constant drunkenness, complete and total irresponsibility, losing the job his BROTHER gave him while I worked my tail off to pay the rent and take care of our baby. Oh, and there was the night he called me the "c" word because I got fed up after finding hidden stashes of booze. Perhaps the worst, though, was when he got us into a car accident after a day of drinking vodka out of a 7UP bottle. I was naive, of course, and I never guessed he wasn't actually drinking 7UP.
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AwakeAtLast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-02-05 11:44 PM
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14. Moved out while I was visiting my parents
Came home and found him and everything he thought he needed was gone. Including the paycheck I had just deposited. I tried to find the mistress before the divorce, but alas, he kept her well hidden.

I found out a lot of things about him later on that made me glad that I was forced to divorce him, but damn, he could have at least had the balls to face me!

Asshole still doesn't think he did anything wrong. :grr:
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-02-05 11:44 PM
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15. Dumped me, saying "I was 20 pounds too heavy"
He was 5'8'' 230ish.
Fucking fucktard.
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madison2000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-02-05 11:59 PM
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16. Wow... a sex thread would have been so much better
:cry: :cry: :cry:
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Moms Baby Democrat Donating Member (182 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-03-05 12:19 AM
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17. Oh I loved my ex....honestly.....
</sarcasm off>

Stupid wanking piece of shite that he was, exes are exes for a reason and whatever the circumstances we are always better off in the end. (Both Parties Included)

Biggest question, did you learn anything from it ???












:smoke:
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madison2000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-03-05 12:20 AM
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18. never been married, never get married!!
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Robeson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-03-05 12:25 AM
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19. I was not married before my current wife, but....
...she was. Her ex-husband use to beat her. To this day, if I met him, I would love to have a baseball bat in my hands to let him know what it must feel like to be beaten....
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NightTrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-03-05 12:27 AM
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20. Suddenly decided that she no longer wanted a monogamous relationship.
She still wanted me around to drive her to work and such, but she also wanted the right to sleep with other men--and she already had not one, but two, in mind! God, I hated her for that.
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Runcible Spoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-03-05 12:32 AM
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22. hmmm....had sex with another woman on MY BED when I was away...
in Guatemala...don't get me wrong, I told him to see other people, but MY BED??!!?? I had to buy another comforter! the dumb twit who he banged was dumb enough to post about it on her blog. Oh, and he owes me $8,000 :grr: All this after I talked him into taking the LSATs, on which he scored a 94th%, and got into law school with scholarship, which he promptly lost after getting drunk every night. So now I just hope he lands a good job so he can pay me back! :mad:
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maveric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-03-05 12:40 AM
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23. Left me for an internet "soulmate", after 18 years of marriage, 3 kids,
mortgage, credit card debt. She stated that she never loved me but just wanted someone to give her children and support her till she found someone better, who would give her an orgasm which she never had with me and faked throughout our "sham, marriage of her convenience".
She left me with the kids and has not given me a dime of support in over 8 years.
BTW, the "prince" she divorced me for and eventually married turned out to be a drunken, abusive, cheating, wife beating, liquor store clerk who rarely bathed and has rotten teeth.
She just recently divorced him.
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opiate69 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-03-05 12:44 AM
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24. Had sex with another guy, in our bed while I was downstairs
sleeping.. we had been going through some problems (obviously), and I had moved downstairs to the couch while we worked them out.. at least, that's what I was told was going to happen.. her 10 year old daughter woke me up at 5 am saying "Rick, Mommy's having sex with so & so".... I moved out that day.
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Radical Activist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-03-05 01:06 AM
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25. Told me she was a virgin, which was a lie
that she wanted to wait until marriage. Then she went away to another college and started sleeping with another man while we were still seeing eachother. That's the first thing that comes to mind, but there are probably worse things.
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Bouncy Ball Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-03-05 01:31 AM
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27. I've really been very lucky
(stop throwing things at me!)

This is my only marriage, but ex-boyfriends?

One was emotionally and verbally abusive (mildly and I dumped his ass).

One was cheating on me, but I didn't find out until later (calling me Lisa in the middle of...things was a good clue--my name's not Lisa). And to be fair, we had never really established mutuality to begin with, but still. I was one of about fifteen girls he was dating and sleeping with. Ug.

One just disappeared off the face of the earth in the summer of 1990. Technically we are still together since we never broke it off, LOL. I told my husband that once and he thought it was funny. But not that funny.

Not really much else.
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qnr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-03-05 01:34 AM
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28. No, the unf's over
just kidding
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