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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:18 AM
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Am I too idealistic?
Is it too idealistic to believe that one day I'll find my soul mate? Someone who will love me no matter what, and that I will love no matter what?

Is it too idealistic to think that equality is possible? That hatred and bigotry will someday cease to exist?
Is it too idealistic to believe that we will get our country back? That Bush and all of his people will get what they deserve?

Is it too idealistic to believe in world peace? To believe In unity, or to believe in love?

Is it to idealistic to have hope?
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Solon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:20 AM
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1. Not too idealistic at all...
except for maybe the first one :evilgrin:, I try the same thing, but have yet to meet that someone, or I fuck it up, being too shy and all. Hell, look at how long I been here at DU, it took over 2 years before I posted regularly.
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:22 AM
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2. LOL!
Killjoy. :P
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Solon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:42 AM
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I try my best...
:evilgrin:

You know, in all the time I been here, haven't entered the "in crowd" yet, always been that way.
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Floogeldy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:25 AM
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3. Yes, it is
I'm sorry to be the one to break this to you, but those ideals have nothing to do with the dominant realities of our planet.

It is wonderful that you must always keep those ideals as you traverse the paths of your life. You will change some things and some people. But you won't change the whole world.

You will, however, be rewarded.

Stay beautiful.

Floog

B-)
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:27 AM
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5. Thank you Floog.
:)
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:25 AM
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4. I hope not.
If you are, I am too. If that is the case, I should probably end my life now, because those are exactly the same things I hope for. There must be hope, but maybe we haven't found it yet.
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:28 AM
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6. Maybe if we try, there will be change?
:)


I won't give up. I won't lose hope.
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:35 AM
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18. I hope you are right.
Maybe you can lead us to that day. I'll follow. :)
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:37 AM
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21. hehe.
Someone said that to me once. She's kinda out there, a really spiritual person, and she said that to me. :shrug:
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 03:12 AM
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44. I'd follow you.
I'm serious. Those are exactly the same hopes that I have. You cheered me up with that post. It gives me a little hope that humanity is not lost. :)
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:29 AM
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7. Am I too idealistic if I expect the goddamn religion wars to stop here?
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:30 AM
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9. At the moment? Yes. LOL
There's always hope though. :P
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:36 AM
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Yeah sigh I just wish people knew that discrimination can happen
to anyone.
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:37 AM
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22. As for my part
I'll try my best, but if certain elements follow me to this thread, I will not be able to contain myself. I seem to have no problem with you even though I have a distinct problem dealing with religion. Is that close enough to a truce?
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 03:14 AM
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45. We're cool
Just dont diss me for being religious, I would never do the same for you not being religious.
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enigmatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:30 AM
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8. I'm a broken-hearted idealist...
but still an idealist..
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:31 AM
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10. Well, at least you haven't given up.
:)
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enigmatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:32 AM
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13. I haven't
Found my soul-mate; and although the world is going to shit around me, I'm at peace w/ my life..
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:33 AM
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16. That's all we can hope for in this life, I think.
and actually, I'm fairly content with my life, I just need a job. HAHA
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Runcible Spoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:31 AM
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11. you've already found your soul mate!
honestly if you don't end up with Kleeb I will cry!
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:32 AM
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12. LOL!
Well no go for now, he's jailbait! :o
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Runcible Spoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:32 AM
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15. you could always move to Alabama!
then you coulda had him at 13 heehee
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:33 AM
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17. LMAO! So disturbing...
:o
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:37 AM
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20. but I have a girlf-errrr girl I like
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Runcible Spoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:38 AM
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24. ahhh that sucks!
I mean, I'm glad you've found someone. :evilfrown:
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:39 AM
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26. I am still single
and I have no chance with said girl but we're still friends.
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Runcible Spoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:52 AM
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34. I think I remember a thread about that a while ago...
you always fall in love at teh worst times and/or with the wrong people...that's my biggest piece of love advice: don't go seeking it, it will come and kick you in the balls/ovaries eventually.
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 03:02 AM
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40. I dont think I am in love but damn I really like this girl but
I am afraid to ask and I have other reasons why I cant too.
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FreepFryer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:32 AM
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14. Only the first paragraph is unrealistic, in my opinion.
Not all of us find a soulmate and unconditional love in the same person. Some of us are blessed with lifelong devoted friends, some of us with loves that last a lifetime, and some with a combination of the two.

On the other stuff, you're right on.

Keep believing and you help make it come to pass.
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:36 AM
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19. You know though.
I think soul mates come in different forms, some can just be friends. You know? :shrug:

I know it won't happen though, it's just nice to dream. :)
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FreepFryer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:37 AM
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23. No, you need to know it will happen - in some form. Believe!
The key to happiness is being happy.

Love, Hope and Gratitude!
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:38 AM
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25. :-)
Thank you for that. :D
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 03:00 AM
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38. You forgot to mention those of us
who don't stand a chance at finding either. Come on. Include me in something tonight.
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FreepFryer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 03:03 AM
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41. Oh shush. I'm sure there are a lot of people who love you...
...they just don't know it yet. Get out there and meet 'em!

For the record, you seem like a nice person from your posts!
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 03:09 AM
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42. Thank you.
You seem nice too. I hope you are right that people will like me some day.
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 03:10 AM
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43. I like you!
:hi:
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 03:31 AM
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46. Awww.
Thank you. I like you too. :hi:
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TahitiNut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:40 AM
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27. In my view, "idealism" is a direction, not a destination.
I've discovered that we have it within us to love unconditionally; that it's not about another but about ourselves. I no longer believe there are limits to this other than those we impose upon ourselves.

Everything else follows from this. Everything.
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:41 AM
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28. That's lovely. Thank you for posting.
:)
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FreepFryer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:42 AM
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30. Absolutely spot-on correct. We are beings of amazing power and love.
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Radical Activist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:41 AM
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29. There's no such thing as being too idealistic.
But I do think you need to play the field before you find your soul mate. You know, have some fun, experiment. That's all I'm saying.
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:43 AM
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31. LOL!
... wait, are you propositioning me? :o
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Radical Activist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:48 AM
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32. umm...no...not at all...
but in general, a young woman can learn a lot from a more experienced man. It can be very educational and beneficial even if they aren't in love. But I'm just speaking in general terms of course. O8)
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:49 AM
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33. ROTFLMFAO!
Edited on Mon Mar-28-05 02:49 AM by Revolutionary_Acts04
BWHAHAHAHA! Oh wow.
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Radical Activist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:59 AM
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36. Did that make you blush?
I really hope I've typed something tonight that made you blush. lol
You're fun to tease.
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 03:00 AM
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37. No, it didn't.
But I expect these things from you, so it's not shocking. :P
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Runcible Spoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 02:54 AM
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35. yes and to Rad activist that includes the DU field
:evilgrin:
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More Than A Feeling Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-28-05 03:01 AM
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39. As long as there is one of us left, not too idealistic at all. n/t
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