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Tue Apr-19-05 08:56 AM
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Poll question: I think I pissed off my girlfriend. |
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Edited on Tue Apr-19-05 08:58 AM by whoisalhedges
I made fun of her in the same way she's been making fun of a friend of hers for over a year. I figured that meant it was fair game.
Should I:
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Tue Apr-19-05 08:57 AM
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1. Just because it's fair and legitimate |
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doesn't mean that it's permitted.
Flowers and apology.
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Tue Apr-19-05 08:58 AM
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2. Set her up with Big Jim Slade for a night |
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Tue Apr-19-05 08:58 AM
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3. i don't think this poll is fair without a pic. |
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Tue Apr-19-05 09:05 AM
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13. You mean like a pic of a nice cobb salad? |
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Tue Apr-19-05 09:24 AM
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17. oooh, that looks good. wonder if it's lunch time yet. |
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Tue Apr-19-05 09:00 AM
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4. Apologize to her you may need a reference later. |
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Tue Apr-19-05 09:00 AM
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5. Learn now, always apologize and give flowers |
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You will be doing lot of this in the years ahead.
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Tue Apr-19-05 09:01 AM
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Since I'm close to both of you, maybe I'm not objective enough to answer this....
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Tue Apr-19-05 09:02 AM
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7. If I wanted objectivity, I wouldn't have made a Lounge poll. |
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Tue Apr-19-05 09:04 AM
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11. Well, yep...that's certainly true. |
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Thanks for putting things into perspective. Helping me see the forest from the trees and all of that.
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Tue Apr-19-05 09:03 AM
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8. You are already in trouble for wasting time posting this poll |
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when you should already be at the flower shop. Get going, dude. :o
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Tue Apr-19-05 09:04 AM
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Tue Apr-19-05 09:10 AM
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You are posting on DU. :P
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Tue Apr-19-05 09:10 AM
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Tue Apr-19-05 12:46 PM
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50. The difference between a man and a boy |
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Edited on Tue Apr-19-05 12:47 PM by Bok_Tukalo
Is standing firm on the important and acquiescing on the unimportant and knowing the difference between the two.
Apologize.
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Tue Apr-19-05 09:03 AM
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9. well if you managed to hurt her feelings it's because |
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she gives a damn what YOU think
:shrug: maybe flowers and a special treat would be nice
or maybe you're being manipulated :evilgrin:
I guess if she gets offended often enough you'll know there's something afoot.
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Tue Apr-19-05 12:40 PM
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45. okay how did I get the only deleted message on this board? |
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who did I piss off this time?
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Tue Apr-19-05 12:41 PM
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46. Nobody of consequence. |
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Tue Apr-19-05 09:04 AM
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12. If you made fun of her to point out her own weakness |
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you shouldn't apologize. But if you did it to be mean, then you should say you're sorry.
I would save the flowers for a happy occasion. When someone gives me flowers after they've done something wrong, it feels like I'm being bought off.
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Tue Apr-19-05 09:15 AM
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16. Guy with flowers = "what did you do?" |
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According to my SO, whenever he sees a guy with flowers he assumes 1) it's an occasion (birthday, anniversary) 2) the guy fucked up
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Tue Apr-19-05 09:26 AM
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18. I am one of the biggest copycat whores on DU |
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but I'm not touching this one.
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Tue Apr-19-05 09:27 AM
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19. Well, if you "think" you did, then you don't know for sure |
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I wouldn't get the flowers because she might not think it is as bad as you do. If you get flowers, it only will tell her that you think you did something horrible, and then it WILL turn in to a "thing". I would play dumb :)
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Tue Apr-19-05 09:34 AM
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Tue Apr-19-05 09:28 AM
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20. Sack up and apologize. |
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Tue Apr-19-05 09:34 AM
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21. I plan on doing all that. |
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Tue Apr-19-05 10:00 AM
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if she gets real cute when she pissed, tell her it was all part of your lavish plan to ravage her.
if she starts banging her head on doors or dissecting your physiological ineptitude, like i do when i'm pissed, run away, wait till she calms down, then ravage her accordingly.
signed,
jose mcgills, sexy, high maintenance, physco woman.
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Tue Apr-19-05 10:06 AM
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25. why don't you apologize to her but buy me the car?? |
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that will teach you not to make fun of your girlfriend :)
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Tue Apr-19-05 10:09 AM
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26. I'm not even sure why you bother with women anymore. |
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Everyone knows you've moved on.
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Tue Apr-19-05 10:09 AM
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27. Where is that picture of us? |
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Tue Apr-19-05 10:11 AM
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28. I don't believe that there were any cameras around to capture that event. |
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At least not to my knowledge.
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Tue Apr-19-05 10:12 AM
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29. Then why did I kiss you? |
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Tue Apr-19-05 10:27 AM
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36. I thought you were being sincere. |
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Tue Apr-19-05 10:13 AM
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30. Goddammit, hedges, you've kissed more boys than I have since the split. |
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Tue Apr-19-05 10:14 AM
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31. I kissed more boys than you did while we were together, too. |
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Hell, I have kissed more boys in the last 2 weeks than you have in the past decade.
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Tue Apr-19-05 10:16 AM
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But, I think we got groped by the same number of boys when we were together. Unless I'm forgetting something.
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Tue Apr-19-05 10:22 AM
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33. Buy her some jerky and a Steely Dan CD. |
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Failing that, you have two man-sluts waiting for you in Cleveland.
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Tue Apr-19-05 10:25 AM
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34. Maybe just one man-slut -- I'm thinking of holding out. |
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Maybe *I* want some flowers and an apology. Did he ever think of that? No, of course not. Hedges is all about Hedges' needs.
Also, I want to be respected for my mind.
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Tue Apr-19-05 10:26 AM
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35. Better than pissing ON your girlfriend. |
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Unless you're into that kind of thing. :shrug:
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Tue Apr-19-05 10:30 AM
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37. Play the "I was just showing you how it might feel to your friend" card. |
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"hurts, doesn't it, honey? see, you shouldn't make fun of people. it's not nice."
That way, you're caring and sensitive, and not afraid to take a stand for what you believe in, even if it means nookie depletion.
If she doesn't buy it, maybe her friend is single.
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Tue Apr-19-05 10:31 AM
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Tue Apr-19-05 10:33 AM
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39. From the looks of previous posts, you don't seem to mind kissing other men |
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Maybe he'll cook you breakfast.
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Tue Apr-19-05 10:35 AM
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40. Yes, but I've seen this guy. |
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Tue Apr-19-05 10:38 AM
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42. You haven't seen the men you HAVE kissed? Party animal. |
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Tue Apr-19-05 10:36 AM
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41. I'm sorry I hurt you. Maybe if I can explain why I did what I did... |
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we will both feel better.
After y'all talk... if she's reasonable... then take her to dinner.
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Tue Apr-19-05 10:48 AM
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Tue Apr-19-05 11:09 AM
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Try to hump her leg so she knows how special she is to you.
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Tue Apr-19-05 12:42 PM
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47. Apologize profusely, give her a hug and STOP KISSING STRANGE MEN!! |
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Tue Apr-19-05 12:43 PM
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48. Yeah. They *are* pretty strange, aren't they? |
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Tue Apr-19-05 12:44 PM
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49. Yes, but to be fair...I can see how, in the right light, with a given |
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amount of alcohol, they could be stunningly kissable. ;)
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Tue Apr-19-05 01:48 PM
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52. aw - Beware the Beastman and asthmaticeog aren't strange -- |
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a little offbeat perhaps, but not "strange."
:)
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