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ccharles000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 05:29 AM
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California mom tells cops she had sex with boys to keep them away from her daughter
A 30-year-old Northern California woman has pleaded not guilty to charges that she had sex with three teenage boys.

Deborah Towe faces 11 felony counts, including unlawful sexual intercourse with a minor, oral copulation of a person under the age of 16, committing lewd acts upon a child and arranging a meeting with a minor for a lewd purpose.

The boys were 15 and 16 years old.

Police in Anderson, about 150 miles north of Sacramento, began investigating in April after two girls from a local middle school reported that a friend's mother was having sex with boys.

In a 48-page report released this week, Towe told police she was protecting her daughter by diverting the boys' attention to herself.

She denied the charges during an appearance Wednesday in Shasta County Superior Court. Towe remains jailed, with her bond set at $250,000.

http://www.mercurynews.com/ci_12374655?source=most_viewed

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rocktivity Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 05:35 AM
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1. Pre click: If the boys are under age, SHE'S the rapist...
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ConcernedCanuk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 09:52 AM
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10. I disagree - I could be wrong, but to me , rape is having sex forcibly with someone not willing
Edited on Sat May-16-09 09:56 AM by ConcernedCanuk
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SEDUCING a young person is a whole different issue in my mind.

Seduction of a young person is wrong,

but not anywhere near the same thing as RAPE - where someone forces their body on another one.

RAPE to me involves violence

Seduction does not

:shrug:

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rucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 09:58 AM
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12. We're assuming a 15-year-old does not have the judgment to consent.
Same as taking advantage of a drunk adult.

It's not an new tactic to target someone with impaired judgement for sex, but should be considered rape. There needs to be a clear line - however arbitrary it may seem on its surface.
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ConcernedCanuk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 10:09 AM
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15. When I was 15? - I would have consented!
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I hadda wait for an aggressive female to lose my virginity at the age of 21!

6 years wasted

btw

SHE was 19

memories

(sigh)

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MrsBrady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 10:50 AM
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17. Preditors can seduce, they know how.
Then it seems like you are making choice, but you are not.
They have you under some kind of spell.
I don't know how they do it.
I resisted his advances at first, but he knew just what to say.
My family was alarmingly absent, and he knew that and took advantage.
I feel like my only part in it was that I was too trusting and believed in love, where as he was only interested in manipulating me.

I was 17. He was 30. It was legal, but he really ruined my life for many years after that.
Violence doesn't always come with the force of a hand or fist.

It took me 8 years to break away from him.
He quickly turned physically violent on me...but it is a violent act even if he hadn't hit me.

I was finally able to leave after 8 years, but I even felt guilty...when he was the one that had victimized me.
As soon as I was gone, he was now a man close to 40 and I found out he had a new girl friend. Age? A very 12 year old looking 18 year old.
The man has his issues, and I'm sure he did to her what he did to me.

That was my experience.
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ConcernedCanuk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 06:51 PM
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20. Well, I'm gonna thank my "predator"
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THANK YOU DONNA!

:evilgrin:

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NMMNG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 05:47 AM
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2. Love those "traditional heterosexual values"
Good thing the gays can't get married. :sarcasm:
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 05:57 AM
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3. That's okay. Daughter will find someone else anyway.
That's a bizarre excuse for the (30 year old mother) to use, to get it on with a buncha boys...

Why not tell the boys it is socially unacceptable for them... wait, that doesn't work anymore.

They're all nuts.
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LooseWilly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 06:02 AM
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4. At least she wasn't picking up the 15 and 16 year olds in bars...
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ccharles000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 06:28 AM
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7. That does not make any difference it was wrong
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Stevenmarc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 06:08 AM
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5. Today on Wild Kingdom, a mother cougar protects her young.
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glowing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 06:25 AM
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6. I'm thinking this is all more common than not..
"The Graduate" comes to mind. My ex, though he was over 18, was with an older woman. Said it made him good in bed because she knew what and how she wanted things and wasn't affraid of asking. Maybe that's the thrill for some of these women.. but what middle school students are 16 yrs old.. back in my day that was car and junior year age... At 17 I dated a 23 yr old. However, the woman should have checked i.d.'s and stuck with someone 2-3 yrs older.. then no one would care.
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salin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 06:53 AM
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8. good luck with that... Statutory rape is statutory rape.
glad that the bond is high.

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slackmaster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 10:08 AM
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14. California's statutory rape law is rarely enforced
It should be.
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Happyhippychick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 07:03 AM
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9. She molests children and uses her daughter as the excuse. Hope she rots.
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Jennicut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 09:55 AM
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11. She is 30 and has a daughter the same age as these boys?! That is problem # one there.
I am 33 and have a 3 and 4 year old. Nice parental values being passed on from generation to generation.
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mitchum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 10:12 AM
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16. That was also the first thing that struck me
well, besides her ridiculous "reasoning"
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slackmaster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 10:08 AM
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13. Article is useless without pictures
:argh:
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Mollis Donating Member (812 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-17-09 08:28 PM
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22. .
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MrsBrady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 10:58 AM
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18. sick n/t
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sl8 Donating Member (256 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 01:36 PM
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19. Life imitating art?
BENJAMIN: I'm good enough for you but I'm too slimy to associate with your daughter. That's it, isn't it? ISN'T IT?

MRS. ROBINSON: Yes.


Benjamin wasn't 15 or 16, though.
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Mollis Donating Member (812 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-17-09 08:25 PM
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21. So that's her "reasoning."
It's local news here...apparently she was doing it with them in the parking lots of several places. I heard Walmart was one of them.
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