La Lioness Priyanka
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:37 AM
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I am fucking sick and fucking tired of the apologists |
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NO, Your religion, race, culture does not excuse homophobia. Really, NO it fucking does not.
I come from a homophobic culture and country. I do not think its OK. I do not think India is evolved and thats really all there is to it. I cannot excuse my people for being narrowminded towards me. I cannot excuse the laws we have against us. All of it is unexcusable. Indian have as much of a moral imperative to be less bigoted as westerners do.
I am tired of people excusing homophobia because of religion. Wanting us to be more religion-sensitive while their religion doesn't find the need to be sensitive towards us, is ridiculous. For those of you who sit in your churches while they condemn us, while you claim not to personally condemn us, remember your silence is consent.
SILENCE IS CONSENT
SILENCE = DEATH.
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:39 AM
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1. People aren't homophobic because of religion...they just can't |
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handle the thought of the sex. It gets them wiggy. JMO.
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:40 AM
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Until the time in which ministers are not allowed to preach intolerance, religion will remain the driving force of homophobia.
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:43 AM
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6. You think 50% plus in California go to Church on a regular basis? |
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:45 AM
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8. I'm not saying religion is the only force |
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I don't know the numbers, but I do know that the churches pumped lots of money into the campaign. and yes, I do believe that they were the driving force.
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:00 AM
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27. There are many causes for bigotry and many excuses for it |
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the OP is right...too many excuses.
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Sat Nov-15-08 06:50 PM
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154. I agree - religion certainly plays a part in this, but I have had many |
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'friends' over the years that I believe would have voted for Prop 8 - I think a lot of people that are friendly with us on an individual level, cannot bring themselves to vote for equality and I do think the sex thing is a big part of it.
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:28 AM
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54. There are also really good progressive churches |
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I just want to make sure we're not throwing out the baby with the bathwater.
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:57 AM
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24. Canard! Justice is about equality. |
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And when the f*ck did equal rights under the law and justice for all citizens have to pass a "bedroom" test?
Or how you look test?
Or the color of your skin test?
Or your ethnic origin test?
Or your religion test?
It is human rights that is at the core of this.
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:59 AM
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26. Which is why rights should not be up for a vote. |
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Once you subject it to one, you are saying it isn't a right.
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:02 AM
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29. Voting on human rights is subject to the tyranny of the majority |
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I agree. That's why the issue of justice is settled in Courts, agree in that too.
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:08 AM
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38. This probably won't be fixed until we get a Supreme Court ruling |
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That will take some years to swing it our way. Until then, I don't know where all this piecemeal stuff leads us. Looks like Chaos to me.
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Fri Nov-14-08 11:15 AM
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73. "...all this piecemeal stuff leads us" away from apathy and to activism |
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to unity, to donations for legal action, financial sanctions on hate eighters, the usual "stuff".
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Fri Nov-14-08 02:35 PM
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108. Um...not...it's both, actually, but still no excuse |
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This is actually a very interesting conundrum because we will see just how open-minded the Democratic party is when push comes to shove. And because almost three-fourths of BP voted in favor of it, it creates a little confusion.
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Sat Nov-15-08 10:03 PM
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157. That's because of gay invisibility |
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If people read more gay literature, saw more gay movies, and knew more gay people, they'd get a whole new point of view. It wouldn't be "strange" to them.
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:39 AM
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2. I really do not think I could have said it better myself. |
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I cannot believe that people who just voted to take our rights away have the audacity to call US intolerant. The Yes on 8 people need to get a grip.
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:40 AM
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3. Don't be a fool, it is not just the people who sit in churches who |
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are against 'marriage' for GLBTs. You're being an ass when you assign all the guilt to those with religious beliefs. First, you alienate those who don't regard gays as not deserving of equal rights but have a connection to a religious organization. Second, you let a shitload of people who do believe that way off the hook. Not everyone who voted for Prop 8 is a church goer.
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:43 AM
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5. But churches and religious groups organized the multi-million $ campaign to take our rights |
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and religion is the #1 "acceptable" rationale for opposing GLBT rights.
Don't be a fool yourself.
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:47 AM
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11. Yeah, well you just keep posting that we're all rotten assholes. |
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Just don't ask for support from people like myself. From my point of view you're just as bad as the people you're bitching about.
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:53 AM
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19. I didn't read the OP that way... |
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I read it to be against churches that are homophobic. Not all churches are that way. I am actively involved in an Episcopal Church which has never condoned hate from the pulpit. If they did, I would find another church. If I stayed I would feel that I was condoning the hate.
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:01 AM
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28. That is the same way I read the OP. |
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It was specific, not an all or nothing statement.
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:34 AM
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61. I had a lovely experience at an Episcopal funeral service |
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a few years ago. Sad of course, but it was so meaningful when the minister (priest? dont know Episcopal lingo) came up to us after and welcomed us for all time, seeing two guys together who did not know when to stand up, turn around, all of that. She just walked up and lavished acceptance on us, unasked and without a shred of anyting but love and dignity. Also, she was a she, which was cool too. This was a family member's church, and it meant so much to me. It was real, it was also kinda Christlike, if I may go so far. Sweet people, and the food was just the best!
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Fri Nov-14-08 07:17 PM
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117. But now, the Episcopal church is 'split' for allowing gay priests. |
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:53 AM
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20. If you belong to and follow a church that preaches hatred and donates $$$ to oppose my civil rights |
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then I have nothing to answer for. You do.
There are plenty of churches who embrace GLBT people fully and support our rights. You shouldn't need your ass kissed to do the right thing.
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:56 AM
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23. Thank you for your stop in the LGBT forum |
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I realize this must have been difficult for you, since we're a bunch of queers and homos here.
Next up, please go to the women's forum and tell them to shut up about equal pay for equal work and not wanting to be a bunch of breeding machines.
Then go down to the AA forum and tell them that, there is now a level playing field and they'll clearly not have to have constant oversight to make sure that they're treated equally. Oh, wait. Nebraska. Right.
With "friends" like you...
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Fri Nov-14-08 12:48 PM
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96. "You betcha! " Rrrring.... |
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Edited on Fri Nov-14-08 12:48 PM by bluedawg12
it's for you, it's Sarah. :rofl:
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:58 AM
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25. Don't ask for your support? That's some big committment to civil rights you have, if |
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a message board post can turn you away from supporting equality.
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:06 AM
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36. Way to misrepresent something and get on pity pot. |
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"Just don't ask for support from people like myself."
And for whom do you speak?
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:27 AM
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53. I don't give a damn about pity from anyone here. But that was a |
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nice attempt to change the subject.
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:31 AM
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58. Please stop bearing false witness. |
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Fri Nov-14-08 11:25 AM
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76. Are you one of those whose Bible only has 9 commandments? |
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:41 AM
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64. You wouldn't know the subject if it was in the OP |
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oh wait...it IS in the OP!
Willfull ignorance and bogarting a thread is so 2007. The dumbya era of lies and deception is over.
Have you heard? :rofl:
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:10 AM
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40. if that what you read, its because tahts what you wanted to read. |
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the OP was clearly written about people who are excusing bigotry in their religions and their communities.
LOTS of churches are NOT bigoted. LOTS of people are not bigoted. The OP is clearly addressed however to those who are, and to those who excuse them
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:14 AM
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43. Well, that was an apologist theoretician flushed out by the OP |
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not much against homophobic bigotry but a lot about a straw man argument about something else, in this case religion.
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:20 AM
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46. If you support a cause, you get involved because it's the right thing for you to do. |
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You don't wait until someone asks for your support.
My reading of the OP was that she was addressing those who try to hide behind the shield of their religion as an excuse for their homophobia and bigotry. If you are not a homophobe or a bigot, then her comments were not directed to you and there is no need for you to take anything personally. No one called you a "rotten asshole."
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:29 AM
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55. In addition to being taught to rejoice when mocked for faith |
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Christians are clearly taught not to bear false witness, and to speak so clealy that your 'yea is yea, and your nay is nay'. And yet here you are, claiming others said things they did not say, using a tone that no one here used, and you are doing so in order to demand respect that you have been taught by Christ not to even expect, much less demand. Funny. Yet another religionist claiming others need to follow a religion they themselves hold in utter disregard. Here is yet another religionist, telling everyone to eat kosher only, while havinig a nice ham and cheese sandwich. Have a nice hypocrisy!
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Fri Nov-14-08 05:17 PM
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112. your "support" is not needed or wanted. |
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we can kick ass all on our own without resorting to asking bigots for their help. because the people we are calling "rotten assholes" are bigots who say we should just happily and quietly accept second class citizen status. so if your are lumping yourself in with those people, then you must indeed be a "rotten asshole" (your term) or a bigot (mine).
i'm sure this will get deleted, but he started it!
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Fri Nov-14-08 07:37 PM
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119. Well, from my point of view, |
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Stating a fact is not the same as supporting bigotry.
If you spend $20 million to finance a campaign, then you're a rotten asshole. If you think that it's wrong to criticize bigotry on that scale, then you're essentially supporting the expenditure of $20 million to promote bigotry, and you could very well be a rotten asshole.
I'd like to think that you're not supporting the decision to spend $20 million to promote bigotry because that would make you a rotten asshole.
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Fri Nov-14-08 07:58 PM
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Who needs you. Whatever religion you follow, it's empty and useless.
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Sat Nov-15-08 07:50 AM
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Lookie you- finding a nice EXCUSE to NOT SUPPORT HUMAN RIGHTS! What PATHETIC BULLSHIT |
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ooooh , your feeling are hurt because some fellow churchgiers got called on their bigotry. If you're a church goer it ought to be YOU calling it out. Didn;t Jesus tech you anything? Silence = Death.
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Sat Nov-15-08 07:50 AM
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149. Lookie you- finding a nice EXCUSE to NOT SUPPORT HUMAN RIGHTS! What PATHETIC BULLSHIT |
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ooooh , your feeling are hurt because some fellow churchgiers got called on their bigotry. If you're a church goer it ought to be YOU calling it out. Didn;t Jesus tech you anything? Silence = Death.
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Sat Nov-15-08 10:56 AM
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151. Did you support Prop 8? Surely not, you aren't one of the assholes. |
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:54 AM
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21. Which is my point up above... |
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I think people use religion as an excuse. They really have other reasons.
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:10 AM
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39. Which is the point of the OP - excuses don't matter! |
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If you are a progressive then you support human rights and equal justice under the law.
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:50 AM
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15. She was pretty clear that she was NOT talking about ALL religious people. |
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She was talking about the ones who voted to take our rights away, specifically. She also said quite clearly that she wasn't ONLY talking about the ones who use religion as their excuse.
What's up with your knee jerk reaction?
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:05 AM
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edit: the broad brush strokes of the original post are very apparent.
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:11 AM
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41. Excuses don't justify bigotry |
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that's what the OP said. That's what this thread is about.
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:27 AM
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52. So, you are just here to get your kicks, then. |
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:42 AM
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65. What "one special group" would that be? |
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:44 AM
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That says everything I need to know.
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Fri Nov-14-08 11:18 AM
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74. LOL. "Special groups" is so right wing |
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so is
"Special right..." Like hate crimes!?
"Life style"
"You can pass"
"It's a choice..."
"And some of my best friends are gay BUT..."
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La Lioness Priyanka
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:14 AM
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42. yes actually i was. i specified if YOU RELIGION doesnt support us |
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no where did i say ALL RELIGIONS.
there are plenty of churches who do support us.
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:16 AM
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44. Subtleties are lost when someone has an a priori axe to grind |
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while bogarting a thread for their own cause.
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:21 AM
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That is what she meant by "if."
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:44 AM
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68. She was so clear that it was a contigent "If" and "then" proposition |
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that some here had to do some fancy spinning to twist reality and yet, so sadly....failed.
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Fri Nov-14-08 12:37 PM
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93. I'm a little slow, but I just got it. |
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The offended did not think the OP was referring to all religious people.
The offended is in the category of anti-gay religious persons. Hence the offense.
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Fri Nov-14-08 12:46 PM
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95. Exactly - she is defending anti-gay religious hypocracy |
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but can't admit that - so she is trying to make it seems as if gays were against all anti-religion.
Then, she can pass the thread around while palling around with haters. She's baiting us.
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Fri Nov-14-08 12:49 PM
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97. Right. My mistake was in thinking the poster wasn't actually trying to defend bigotry, |
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but was conflated it with being religious.
Now I understand. She is actually anti civil rights herself.
I should have figured it out right after the "live and let live" comment. I've almost never known that term to be anything but a homophobes's defense, along the lines of "some of my best friends".
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Fri Nov-14-08 12:58 PM
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98. It took a while to ferret out faux religious outrage |
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from defending the right to religious bigotry, that's why lionesspri's post flushed her out.
"live and let live..." will add that to the list.
Read in context, it means leave me alone with your problems... at best.
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:51 AM
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18. The OP complained of those who use religion as an excuse for homophobia. Not about religion |
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per se.
Please consider re-reading.
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:07 AM
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37. Don't call her a fool. She's not talking about religious people who are not bigoted. |
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She's talking about religious people who ARE. That was pretty clear.
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:22 AM
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48. Not every religious person is a church goer |
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And anyone who would be 'alienated' by pointing out the problems in the religious community is not an allie anyway. Support that hangs upon control of the people you claim to support is simply that: control, not support. So remove it if you'd like, it is not there anyway. As the OP said, they are in silent agreement. And by the way, this constant demand for respect for 'the faith' strikes me as rather sacreligious itself. Jesus of course told his people to rejoice when they are persecuted, to be thankful when mocked for his sake. And yet instead of rejoicing all we hear are feet stomping on the ground, threats of 'support' withheld, and demands that the 'faith' be praised and held in high esteem regardless of the facts. I find that odd.
Silence=Death
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:30 AM
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57. What 'silent demand for respect'? What I posted was a very |
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vocal (so to speak) demand that all believers not be labeled bigots and criticized for shit they had nothing to do with. If that's too difficult for you to grasp, I'm sorry.
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:33 AM
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60. "All believers" were not labeled bigots. Only the ones who ARE bigots were identified as such. |
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:42 AM
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66. Please show me where the OP said "all believers are bigots." |
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Fri Nov-14-08 11:26 AM
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78. I was going to tell you not to hold your breath, but I decided against it. |
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I am tired of people excusing homophobia because of religion. Wanting us to be more religion-sensitive while their religion doesn't find the need to be sensitive towards us, is ridiculous. For those of you who sit in your churches while they condemn us, while you claim not to personally condemn us, remember your silence is consent.
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Fri Nov-14-08 11:29 AM
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79. "For those of you" means the subsection of believers. |
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Reading comperhension counts.
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Fri Nov-14-08 11:43 AM
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86. If you can't understand perfect spelling, maybe misspelling will get through to you. |
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Fri Nov-14-08 12:07 PM
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90. Only as a non-productive attempt at a clever reply |
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Fri Nov-14-08 01:37 PM
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103. If want to be a spelling/grammar nazi... |
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Then perhaps you can tell us what is wrong in this post.
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Fri Nov-14-08 11:30 AM
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81. "For those of you who sit in your churches while they condemn us" |
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It is aimed at people who sit in one of those churches. Are you claiming all churches are bigoted?
Because that seems awfully harsh of you and it would be inaccurate.
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83. You are very confused, I'm not the one ranting about anyone in |
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Fri Nov-14-08 11:42 AM
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The OP specified a subsection of believers. Not ALL.
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Fri Nov-14-08 11:56 AM
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88. The OP talked about a variety of excuses people use to justify |
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their bigotry, the respondent is pushing an idea that gays are anti-religion - all religion.
For her own purpose.
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Fri Nov-14-08 11:55 AM
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87. Actually, the OP was not about churches it was about the complicity |
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of people who sit in them and listen to homophobic preachers and then hide behind that as an excuse.
It was also about a variety of other excuses and YOU keep bogarting this thread for your own agenda - which is to postray gays as anti all churches.
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Fri Nov-14-08 12:09 PM
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91. Do you defend churches that preach homophobic messages? |
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You haven't said anything about them.
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Fri Nov-14-08 02:40 PM
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109. you cant read. how awful for you. nt |
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Fri Nov-14-08 01:33 PM
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102. You made a claim that the OP said "all believers are bigots." I asked to you prove that. |
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Your reply above does not back up your prior claim, and I think you willfully misunderstand the OP's words.
If you sit in a church where hatred and homophobia is preached from the pulpit, does that make you, personally, a bigot? No, of course not. But that does mean that you are condoning that bigotry by not speaking out against it.
Simple nuance to be sure, but there is a difference. The OP has not said what you are claiming she said, as has been pointed out to you repeatedly in this thread.
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:45 AM
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Where did I say 'silent demand for respect'? Can you even read? My whole point is that your are very vocally demanding that which Christ told you not to expect, in fact he said to rejoice in the lack of respect. You keep saying 'all believers' as if anyone else had said that. You make up quotes for other people, as you can not bear to read and respond to the truth of your own Scriptures. I did not even come close to saying what you claim. I said, in fact, the opposite. I said you and other hypocritical fake religionists demand loudly a bunch of false respect, no matter what your actions, not matter what the fruit you bear tells us about the tree you are.
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Fri Nov-14-08 12:07 PM
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89. if you are member of a church that was for 8 |
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and you do not quit the church (religion is a choice) you are complicit. period.
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Fri Nov-14-08 11:38 AM
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82. Religon is the #1 reason for homophobia |
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That's an indisputable fact.
Are all religious people homophobic? No.
Are there some homophobes who base their hatred on something besides religion? There is a small minority and we have to work with them as well.
But we cannot ignore the issue, which is that the overwhelming majority of homophobia stems from religion and verses plucked from "holy books". People use religion both as a weapon against us and as a shield for themselves to prevent criticism or question of their words/actions. Calling them on it does not let them off the hook. It puts them on the spot and tells them "we're not going to allow this any longer".
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Fri Nov-14-08 03:51 PM
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111. Word - homophobes that haven't set foot in a church in years are |
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152. did i say that? i think your problem is that you cant comprehend |
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156. The Churches were the ones who ran the organized campaign against Prop 8. |
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And the Church's beliefs influence even non-members, by supporting people's prejudices.
She isn't a fool and she has just as much a right to her opinion as you do to yours. Why do you feel the need to put her down to support your argument? Is it because you think your argument isn't strong enough without at least one insult thrown in?
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:43 AM
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7. This just went to the Greatest Page. |
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Because it deserves to be there.
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:46 AM
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9. I'm so glad to recommend this one. |
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Righteous rant, Pri, and I could not agree with you more!
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:47 AM
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10. To some the issue is the right of society to define marriage versus the rights of individuals |
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Edited on Fri Nov-14-08 09:49 AM by dmordue
Brothers and sisters can not legally marry but that infringes on the rights of any who might want to.
Marriage is limited to a one on one relationship but that infringes on the rights of any who want to have multiple partners.
Marriage is limited in most cases to one man and one woman - but that infringes on the rights of same sex couples.
One possibility is we can open marriage to any relationship between consenting adults. We can open it less wide and say it is a one on one relationship between consenting adults who are not closely related.
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:49 AM
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14. And here's Example A. NT |
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:50 AM
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17. I think I have the argument right whether I agree or disagree |
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Lets get the argument right so that we can fight it. Otherwise it is just name calling and bigotry between different groups.
There will certainly be bigots who are anti-religion or anti-homosexuality - those groups will never come together. However, my hope is that most people are reasonable and can have reasonable discourse to move the issue forward- I may be wrong.
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:54 AM
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22. You forgot to inlcude the hackneyed human/animal marriage description in there. |
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I'm surprised you didn't throw NAMBLA in there while you were at it. What a half assed effort.
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:24 AM
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50. Society is not a fixed notion. |
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Society has a duty to protect from harm.
Same sex marriage is a "good" for society. It promotes stable, loving relationships between consenting adults and when applicable,their kids.
I support equal rights for all people under law and that means same-sex marriage.
Is there a forum for other alternative forms of marriage? Because this is not the intermarriage between siblings forum, nor is it the topic at hand.
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:30 AM
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56. Your opinion is *nice* - but how about some experts in the field |
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who may actually know something? ....... POLICY STATEMENT
PEDIATRICS Vol. 109 No. 2 February 2002, pp. 339-340
AMERICAN ACADEMY OF PEDIATRICS Coparent or Second-Parent Adoption by Same-Sex Parents Committee on Psychosocial Aspects of Child and Family Health
ABSTRACT
Children who are born to or adopted by 1 member of a same-sex couple deserve the security of 2 legally recognized parents. Therefore, the American Academy of Pediatrics supports legislative and legal efforts to provide the possibility of adoption of the child by the second parent or coparent in these families.
Children deserve to know that their relationships with both of their parents are stable and legally recognized. This applies to all children, whether their parents are of the same or opposite sex. The American Academy of Pediatrics recognizes that a considerable body of professional literature provides evidence that children with parents who are homosexual can have the same advantages and the same expectations for health, adjustment, and development as can children whose parents are heterosexual.1–9 When 2 adults participate in parenting a child, they and the child deserve the serenity that comes with legal recognition. ...........
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63. Do you understand why brothers and sisters aren't allowed to marry? |
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Fri Nov-14-08 11:11 AM
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72. there is always this "implied" but it is for the good of society |
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stable relationships are for the good of society, stable homes that allow for support of couples with full rights - into old age so as OT to be a burden on society--stable homes for rasing children.
So, the lame comparison that in-breeding is analogous to something else is wrong.
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Fri Nov-14-08 01:47 PM
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105. I demand the right to marry my six-year-old nephew and my dead puppy!!!!11!! |
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I think I have all the bases covered:
Incest? Check.
Same-sex marriage? Check.
Polygamy? Check.
Zoophilia? Check.
Necrophilia? Check.
Marrying a minor? Check.
If we're gonna go down this "slippery slope," as the right-wing wants to suggest, I think we should do it all the way. Let's demand the rights to do whatever the hell we want, under the guise of "marriage," and let's get all sorts of legal protections. That's EXACTLY what the GLBT community wants!!11!
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I would be just happy to have full and equal marital rights with my partner. :toast:
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:48 AM
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12. I Am Tired Of the Apologists, Too... |
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It is ridiculous that those who are oppressed STILL go out and become apologists for those who hate and oppressed them. It is akin to some African-American becoming an apologist for the slave owners. I wonder if this stems from some deeply seated self-hatred on the part of some GLBTQ people.
I agree on Indians...given their oppression, they should be much more tolerant of LGBTQ Indians. I have noticed the tendency of oppressed peoples turning around and being just as, if not more, oppressive than the former oppressor, towards their LGbTQ countrymen/women.
Thank Goddess I am not in a mainline religion. I am part of the Friends Community Catholic Church and we welcome all people to our services and we provide the sacraments for all, regardless of race, sexual identity, disability....I am a bishop in that church and I can assure you that I do not tolerate intolerance in the guise of religion--neither do any members of the church I know.
Thanks for posting this, lioness. As always, a wonderful post.
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:19 AM
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45. thank you for your kind words |
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Fri Nov-14-08 09:48 AM
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13. Proud to recommend. There are lots of excuses for homophobia that no one on DU |
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16. k & r. OUTSTANDING post. nt |
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:03 AM
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31. Great post, pri. I'm also tired of people making excuses |
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And using whatever they feel the need to grab on to in order to rationalize away the bigotry that festers deep down inside of them.
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:05 AM
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35. I agree! I don't excuse my own brothers' racism and homophobia. |
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Why should I excuse a stranger's?
There is NO EXCUSE for BIGOTRY. Even silent bigotry.
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Fri Nov-14-08 10:35 AM
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62. In addition those of you who last week were perfectly happy to criticize the mormons |
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but when the conversation is about the catholic church all of a sudden we have to be sensitive, i consider the lot of you highly hypocritical.
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Could not agree more.
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Fri Nov-14-08 07:49 PM
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120. But...you just don't understand... |
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Mormons...they believe crazy stuff like when you die...you can become a god of another planet. Catholicism doesn't have anything weird in it--just perfectly normal stuff like a magic cracker that turns into the flesh of a 2000 year old dead guy when you eat it.
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Fri Nov-14-08 11:09 AM
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71. I couldn't agree more |
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People deserve to be treated as people, period. People deserve the same rights as everyone else under our laws, period. It boggles my mind when people use their religious beliefs as basis for their bigotry. I was born straight. I was also born biracial (actually multi-racial). I cannot help how I was born but I have experienced bigotry over my life because of the way I look. It has never, ever made sense to me.
Besides, according to various religious doctrines, we are all supposed be created by a perfect, omnipotent being who does not make mistakes. If god created me differently than someone else, it means he/she/it did for a reason. So, according to them, I am one of god's creations and I am equal in god's eyes.
Perhaps I'm wrong but I thought religions are supposed to be based on love, acceptance and understanding, not fear. If a religion is preaching fear, hate and bigotry then it is not a true religion, rather it is a cult of hate.
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I wish I could recommend this post. It reminds me of the old saying my grandmother used to use, "God don't make no junk. He loves me just as much as he loves everyone else, no more, no less."
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I'm tired of people excusing bigotry because of someones religion. :applause:
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Fri Nov-14-08 01:04 PM
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100. I know what you mean... |
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a lot of people who are "fresh off the boat" so to speak, have a tendency to bring their societal and religious mores with them, and this is particularly true of India (where most worship more than one God) and China (where it is not even popular to be religious). Don't people realize that their own minority rights are at stake here as well? It's easy enough to join the side of the oppressors, until you realize that the core of the oppression is all about making radical changes to our governmental plan that would have them fleeing back to their respective homelands, wondering what has happened to America.
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Fri Nov-14-08 01:21 PM
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101. Many Churhes are pro civil rights for all. The UCC (Obama and Dean are members) one example. |
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Agreed, religion does not excuse bigotry, but using one poll to scapegoat a certain race or religion as being responsible for Prop 8, is of course, no more excusable.
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113. Yes, those of us who are members of A.U. .. |
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Americans United for the Separation of Church and State refer to them as the "Religious Right," rather than put every church into a bad category.
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144. I think we should start calling them the Religious wRong. |
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145. I think that you have a point ... 'cause they ARE WRONG (n/t)! |
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126. my church, the united church of religious science. |
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is pro human rights and welcomes all people.
nice to see you, and thanks for your comment. using one exit poll to scapegoat black people certainly is not excusable. :hi:
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143. Nice to see you as well |
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104. Just turned on the news - and there is Dr.Land |
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of the SBC laying out his strategy for the GOP: to embrace "ethnic voters and be more inclusive", based on what?
A great conservative approach to the economy, environment, job loss, war?
Nope!
Their agenda- to peel off members the progressive coalition with cultural wars: family values and pro life.
That's all they got left folks and they are still thrashing this idea.
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114. Unfortunately, I have some nutty relatives in Oklahoma ... |
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who are members of this Religious Hardright organization.
They give the term "ignorant" new meaning.
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118. Ultimately the attitude of bigotry will be the enemy |
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and we will fights the hard core bigots and at the same time figure out how to negotiate through the attitudes of the people that are open to reason and a change of heart and mind.
We will need allies. Until then, we need to keep fighting in the Courts.
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107. Hear!! Hear!! lionesspriyanka speaks truth. |
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115. SO WITH YOU ON THIS! |
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i have no problem with anyone's religion, as long as they don't use it to oppress me. if they wanna hate me, i don't care. but when they try to turn there hate into law, i'm gonna fight back. LOUDLY.
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116. I wish I could rec this about 112 times |
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I'm really pretty sick and tired of religion being used as the excuse for all sorts of hateful behavior, but these days homophobia is the worst of it.
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122. unfortunately, we share this world with homophobes |
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racists, sexists, and other assorted assholes. these people hate you because of who you love, the color of your skin, your gender, even your politics. no matter how much you decry these people, their thoughts and actions...they still exist. and as we know in california, they had the power to overturn a basic human right. fortunately, we also have a supreme court that will rule in our favor.
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123. My religion isn't homphobic |
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Way we figure it, in the wild dance of creation, some dance with the opposite sex, some dance with the same sex and it's all good. The love shared between two men or two women is the same quality of love shared between a husband and wife so why should we make distinctions on the people that love is between?
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125. If only all religion were so enlightened. n/t |
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"the wild dance of creation"
I like it.
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130. Sounds like my kind of religion! nt |
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I'm sick of having people beat me over the head for saying the Mormon church is wrong in supporting Prop 8. "Religion-bashing!" Bullshit.
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133. this place is infested.nt |
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134. it was hard to tell what the hell he was talking about though |
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136. he is calling you a drama queen.nt |
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139. we and the 40 odd people who rec'd this thread.. you know the ones w,out full civil rights |
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those drama queens.. how dramatic to want to be considered full human beings w.all human rights
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142. If I remember correctly, a bunch of drama queens were behind the Stonewall riots. |
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148. Some thought Act Up were obnoxious drama queens |
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138. He's just trolling and trying to stir shit for no reason. n/t |
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If not, then your civil rights are intact, and you wouldn't understand the outrage. Nor would I imagine that you care, based on the tone of your reply.
Based on the thread title, you knew exactly what the tone of the OP would be before you even clicked the link to read it. But yet, armed with that knowledge, you chose to read it and comment. If the OP is a "fucking drama queen," then I suppose that makes you a "fucking drama junkie."
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Fri Nov-14-08 11:22 PM
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140. i think it just makes him a fucking dramatic bigot, nt |
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Fri Nov-14-08 11:13 PM
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137. Thank you for your stop in the LGBT forum |
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Fri Nov-14-08 11:24 PM
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141. i wonder if you even know where the silence is death comes from |
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i have found bigots to be remarkably stupid and uninformed
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Sat Nov-15-08 12:14 AM
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146. Hear, hear, Lioness! |
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Sat Nov-15-08 01:10 AM
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Edited on Sat Nov-15-08 01:10 AM by really annoyed
Agree 100% lionesspriyanka!
It's time to stop supporting religious institutions that deny gay rights. End of story.
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Sat Nov-15-08 08:02 AM
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You are so right.
That being said, there's no reason to use Prop 8 as an excuse to be racist. You haven't been doing it, most people here haven't been doing it, but I have seen it happen, with people saying things like "Black people are the reason Prop 8 was passed".
We should never give a free pass to bigots, no matter what race or religion they are. However, painting whole groups of people (not just a culture or the teachings of a church) isn't really going to help anyone. No, we don't have to be universally liked, however, reaching out to communities of color, for example, serves us a lot better than alienating them by making racist comments.
Again, not saying you (or pretty much anyone here) is doing this, I'm just commenting on what I've seen and heard of a bit, not just here.
I think it would also serve a lot of the GLBTQQ movement to acknowledge intersectionality more - I wish I had a dime for everytime someone essentially implied all GLBTQQ people are white (or able-bodied, middle-class, etc.)
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Sat Nov-15-08 06:34 PM
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153. You and Me Both, Sister. |
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I'll respect their rights when they respect mine.
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Sat Nov-15-08 06:54 PM
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155. Well said. Kick, but too late to rec. |
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