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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 03:51 PM Original message |
I want to say something about rape and learning to be wary. |
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coffeenap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 03:57 PM Response to Original message |
1. Kick |
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plcdude (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:03 PM Response to Original message |
2. I hope |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:07 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. Thank you. I learned the hard way that men are much stronger than I am (at least in terms |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:07 PM Response to Original message |
3. I'm sorry that it happened to you |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:08 PM Response to Reply #3 |
5. Thank you. It wasn't that big of a deal to me, except that I felt so stupid and blamed myself, and |
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renate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:18 PM Response to Reply #5 |
10. I'm so sorry |
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burnsei sensei (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 12:18 PM Response to Reply #10 |
174. It is for this reason that |
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Maraya1969 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 11:55 PM Response to Reply #5 |
85. Please don't be so cavalier about it. You may think you are over it |
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badgerpup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 12:06 AM Response to Reply #85 |
86. ... |
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Maraya1969 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 12:22 AM Response to Reply #86 |
87. It was. And thank you. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:56 AM Response to Reply #85 |
128. Thank you - I've been diagnosed with PTSD actually - not from that but from events |
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happygoluckytoyou (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 07:46 AM Response to Reply #3 |
111. sorrier still that YOUR SILENCE in this matter for career will allow him to do it again!!!!!!! |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:30 AM Response to Reply #111 |
121. Is your CAPS button on lock or something? I'm sorry I didn't report him too - a couple |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:40 AM Response to Reply #121 |
125. P.S. It's very naive of you to assume anything would have been done about the rapist. Trust me, |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 08:55 PM Response to Reply #125 |
224. Anyone who has paid attention to the resports from the Air Force Academy would know that. |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 04:45 PM Response to Reply #121 |
212. "But when I saw it happening to another soldier - " Isn't it interesting that we can |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 05:55 PM Response to Reply #212 |
214. Thank you, Bobbo. I was punished for crying as a child too. Didn't cry at my own mother's funeral |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 01:41 PM Response to Reply #111 |
185. Nice way to blame the victim, Judy. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 02:40 PM Response to Reply #185 |
193. I do understand the frustration - I suppose those of us who have been raped should fight |
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pinboy3niner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 03:03 PM Response to Reply #185 |
200. + 100 |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 03:10 PM Response to Reply #200 |
204. Thanks, pinboy3niner. It was just a hit-and-run I guess. Not that it matters, but I wonder |
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pinboy3niner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 03:25 PM Response to Reply #204 |
206. Did it remind you of someone we've met before? LOL |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 03:44 PM Response to Reply #206 |
207. Thank you - once a soldier, always a soldier. :) We ARE strong, aren't we? :) n/t |
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Common Sense Party (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:09 PM Response to Original message |
6. Yes, he and he alone was guilty. Undeniably. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:14 PM Response to Reply #6 |
8. Yes. This is how I interpreted what you were trying to say. I "got it" because of my unfortunate |
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Common Sense Party (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:26 PM Response to Reply #8 |
13. I'm terribly sorry that happened to you. |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:08 AM Response to Reply #8 |
99. You are a kind |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:13 PM Response to Original message |
7. They need to know not to be in a situation where it would be easy for them |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:15 PM Response to Reply #7 |
9. That was some smart thinking and action on the part of you all! Kudos! n/t |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:39 PM Response to Reply #7 |
20. And thanks to feminist activism we now have sexual harassment laws |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:41 PM Response to Reply #20 |
22. I am grateful for the activists. I have been an activist too at times...just never for myself. n/t |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:47 PM Response to Reply #20 |
27. True, but you still need to exercise caution in your everyday lives, which is |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 05:32 PM Response to Reply #27 |
43. I can't believe you still act as though women have never heard these things before. eom |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:22 PM Response to Original message |
11. Oh god, that sounds very similar to what happened to a friend of mine a year ago. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:34 PM Response to Reply #11 |
16. Oh, that's so awful. I'm glad she has you for a friend to help her heal. There are |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:49 PM Response to Reply #16 |
28. I bring up that study a lot when posters deny the pervasive misogyny in our culture. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 07:54 AM Response to Reply #28 |
112. "Apparently to a lot of men "acquaintance rape" isn't rape. " ITA. nt |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:24 PM Response to Original message |
12. perfect. your post was perfect, with how i see it. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:34 PM Response to Reply #12 |
17. Thank you. n/t |
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KansasVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:28 PM Response to Original message |
14. Thanks for sharing your story! Good Advice for ANYONE!! |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:33 PM Response to Original message |
15. "never trust" |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:35 PM Response to Reply #15 |
18. Yes. And it's a sad lesson to have to learn. n/t |
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Caliman73 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:51 PM Response to Reply #18 |
29. It is an extremely tragic one to have to learn and pass on. |
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AnArmyVeteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 01:40 AM Response to Reply #18 |
88. You can trust some people who you know would never harm you. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 07:58 AM Response to Reply #15 |
113. I'm afraid so. IME, there are many men who think when they're alone with a woman, |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:22 AM Response to Reply #113 |
119. Exactly. I think that sense of entitlement is what drives men to rape more than anything - think |
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BlancheSplanchnik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 12:49 PM Response to Reply #119 |
181. our culture ..... |
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Truth2Tell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 01:03 PM Response to Reply #15 |
183. I don't buy that. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 02:41 PM Response to Reply #183 |
194. Have you been raped? |
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Truth2Tell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 01:00 AM Response to Reply #194 |
223. No, I have not been raped. |
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pinboy3niner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 03:20 PM Response to Reply #183 |
205. Distrust may be as much a psychological reaction as a conscious choice |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 03:45 PM Response to Reply #205 |
208. +1,000 you hit the nail right on the head with that post. Great insight. n/t |
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hamsterjill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:35 PM Response to Original message |
19. Wisdom in your post |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:42 PM Response to Reply #19 |
23. Thank you. :) I told him no a whole bunch of times and physically tried to stop him...n/t |
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pinboy3niner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:39 PM Response to Original message |
21. Thanks for sharing your story, LiberalLoner |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:43 PM Response to Reply #21 |
25. Thank you friend. It's good to see you :) n/t |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 08:02 PM Response to Reply #21 |
63. Garry Trudeau has been dealing with this issue in some of his cartoons. |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:43 PM Response to Original message |
24. I am so sorry about what happened to you |
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Tumbulu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:47 PM Response to Original message |
26. I am sorry that this happened |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:54 PM Response to Reply #26 |
30. Wow, what a disgusting post. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:59 PM Response to Reply #30 |
32. I agree the poster is misunderstanding the true nature of rape - but it's a common |
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Mari333 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 05:01 PM Response to Reply #32 |
33. xactly. its about control and power. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 05:14 PM Response to Reply #33 |
39. Thank you :) n/t |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 06:55 PM Response to Reply #32 |
58. I'm actually skeptical of the "rape is about power" claim when it comes to acquaintance rape. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 07:57 PM Response to Reply #58 |
61. agreed. socially and culturally taught. and an injustice to the issue to create only a monster |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:02 AM Response to Reply #58 |
116. I agree. Rape IS about power, but I think it's also about sex. nt |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 01:50 PM Response to Reply #58 |
186. I have always said that our society is misogynistic, and it is. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 05:06 PM Response to Reply #30 |
37. i responded to poster before seeing if anyone replied. lol. i am so happy to see people reacting |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 05:28 PM Response to Reply #30 |
42. That post isn't misogynist, it's misandrist. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 05:37 PM Response to Reply #42 |
44. This doesn't happen often but ITA with you lumberjack. |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:26 AM Response to Reply #42 |
103. Totally agree |
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Tumbulu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 05:52 PM Response to Reply #30 |
48. I am sorry to be such a clumsy writer and to have offended everyone here |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 05:57 PM Response to Reply #48 |
50. I'm so sorry that happened to you. You know I just posted that I thought you |
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Tumbulu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 01:55 PM Response to Reply #50 |
188. Thank you very much- I saw that - I would like to try to clarify a bit more on my clumsy post: |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 02:21 PM Response to Reply #188 |
191. It's okay. Sometimes on such an emotional topic and one so close to our hearts, we find it |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 05:58 PM Response to Reply #48 |
51. thanks for clarifying. thanks for explaining your position. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 06:48 PM Response to Reply #48 |
57. Oops, sorry for jumping to conclusions! |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:28 AM Response to Reply #48 |
104. I am so sorry |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:23 AM Response to Reply #30 |
101. I have to agree |
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Mari333 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 04:56 PM Response to Reply #26 |
31. what???? |
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Tumbulu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 06:01 PM Response to Reply #31 |
52. No, I did not mean that at all |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 06:05 PM Response to Reply #52 |
53. I think we have a society where we are taught to enjoy hurting women. Look at the movies |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 06:07 PM Response to Reply #53 |
54. dehumanize. so much of the behavior cannot be, if we see a human. nt |
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Mari333 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 06:42 PM Response to Reply #52 |
56. if every woman could kill the man who raped her |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 10:10 PM Response to Reply #56 |
72. Sounds like someone was a victim. |
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Mari333 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 04:45 AM Response to Reply #72 |
93. its a quote. I was attacked but got away from him. its also reason and logic. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:34 AM Response to Reply #93 |
122. I totally understand. But what I've seen in our justice system is that women get |
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Gaedel (802 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:03 AM Response to Reply #122 |
137. There might be other circumstances...... |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:04 AM Response to Reply #137 |
139. Maybe that is what has happened, I don't know...n/t |
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Rebubula (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 07:34 AM Response to Reply #72 |
110. Sometimes... |
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SocialistLez (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:55 AM Response to Reply #56 |
158. We wouldn't have a lot of men in this world if that happened. NT |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 05:02 PM Response to Reply #26 |
34. Wow. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 05:05 PM Response to Reply #26 |
36. simple biology. do you hear that MEN. it isnt a mans fault raping.... it is biology |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 02:48 PM Response to Reply #36 |
195. "every male on du should be offended." |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 02:59 PM Response to Reply #195 |
196. LOL I was wondering who ate my lunch, darn it! :) n/t |
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jp11 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 05:14 PM Response to Reply #26 |
40. I disagree, we are not animals I'm sure a select few of us people have some brain defect that makes |
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AnArmyVeteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 08:14 PM Response to Reply #40 |
65. That guy violated more than one taboo against a beautiful & innocent person... |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:07 AM Response to Reply #65 |
117. " To be violated by someone you trust leaves unimaginable wounds to one's spirit." A keeper! nt |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:35 AM Response to Reply #117 |
123. Everything he writes is a keeper. He writes profound posts. :) n/t |
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Tumbulu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 04:04 PM Response to Reply #40 |
209. I wrote in a clumsy way- please look to my post 188 for what |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 05:24 PM Response to Reply #26 |
41. Complete fail. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 05:39 PM Response to Reply #41 |
45. i still shake my head... the hundreds of millions of men that have never raped, get pinned |
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ensho (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:41 AM Response to Reply #45 |
154. why haven't the hundreds of millions men stopped rapist men? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:50 AM Response to Reply #154 |
155. firstly... hard when someone tells me what to or not to write back. secondly.... |
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ensho (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 10:32 AM Response to Reply #155 |
161. yes I know how you feel and respect you - my comment wasn't |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 10:46 AM Response to Reply #161 |
163. lol.... well |
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demmiblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 05:47 PM Response to Reply #26 |
46. What the fuck is wrong with you? |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 05:51 PM Response to Reply #46 |
47. Don't know for sure but maybe she has been badly hurt...if I had to take a guess |
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leftyladyfrommo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 07:09 PM Response to Reply #46 |
59. I'm 61 now and I have to say that women just have to be careful. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 07:51 PM Response to Reply #59 |
60. Women aren't raped because of how they're dressed. |
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AnArmyVeteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 08:51 PM Response to Reply #60 |
67. Bill OReilly blamed a girl for the way she was dressed... |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 09:17 PM Response to Reply #67 |
68. It has a lot more to do with how women are treated overall in a culture. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 09:46 PM Response to Reply #68 |
71. autonomy... that is the word i was strugglin so hard for the other day to give to son... |
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AnArmyVeteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 11:50 AM Response to Reply #68 |
169. It seems that the more religion influences a culture, the more women are oppressed & abused... |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 11:23 PM Response to Reply #67 |
78. Most rapists cannot even remember what their victims were wearing. |
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AnArmyVeteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 11:54 AM Response to Reply #78 |
170. Good link, thanks... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 07:59 PM Response to Reply #59 |
62. "Most men aren't. But there are some that are." i find it exactly the opposite |
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leftyladyfrommo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 05:56 AM Response to Reply #62 |
96. That's what I meant to say. Most men are just fine. |
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meeshrox (522 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 08:23 PM Response to Reply #59 |
66. If a woman goes to a bar alone dressed with a 3-inch skirt... |
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leftyladyfrommo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 05:53 AM Response to Reply #66 |
95. And that may be absolutely true. |
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meeshrox (522 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:01 AM Response to Reply #95 |
115. That's so tragic! My heart breaks for your friend. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:38 AM Response to Reply #95 |
124. I'm so sorry for your friend. And I understand why she didn't report it. People are so |
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leftyladyfrommo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 10:54 AM Response to Reply #124 |
166. I was going to mention the cost, too. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:10 AM Response to Reply #59 |
118. I agree with some of what you say, but I disagree about the clothes--I used to have problems with |
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myrna minx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 08:04 PM Response to Reply #26 |
64. Not worth it. |
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CoffeeCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 10:41 PM Response to Reply #26 |
73. It's all his fault and it's also a felony... |
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liberation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 10:46 PM Response to Reply #26 |
74. I think somehow what you wanted to say translated horribly wrong into writing... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 11:11 PM Response to Reply #74 |
77. you are exactly right. she has tried to clarify. nt |
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roody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 11:29 PM Response to Reply #26 |
80. He committed a crime. |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 11:52 PM Response to Reply #26 |
84. Are you FUCKING CRAZY? Maybe I'm just an "ANIMAL" but I think people who blame "biology" |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 05:51 AM Response to Reply #26 |
94. No. I'm sorry that you believe the "biology" excuse can rationalize rape. |
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AngryOldDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:48 AM Response to Reply #26 |
105. Wow. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:01 AM Response to Reply #26 |
114. Men ARE in control of their impulses, some of them CHOOSE not to control them when they believe |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:32 AM Response to Reply #26 |
151. it is not natural to force someone to have sex |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 12:35 PM Response to Reply #151 |
177. Unless you're a DUCK! |
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Tumbulu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 04:16 PM Response to Reply #151 |
210. you are right, and normal animals don't either |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 02:39 PM Response to Reply #26 |
192. For the record, no woman who finds herself alone with me is in danger of being raped. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 03:03 PM Response to Reply #192 |
201. Thanks. That's a really cool post. n/t |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:18 PM Response to Reply #26 |
219. Go fuck yourself with a rusty chainsaw. |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 05:03 PM Response to Original message |
35. I'm so sorry. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 05:13 PM Response to Reply #35 |
38. Thank you for the good advice and also for having been an advocate - difficult and important work n/ |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 11:27 PM Response to Reply #35 |
79. As a fellow rape crisis counselor and advocate, I completely agree. |
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Mojeoux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 05:57 PM Response to Original message |
49. This Was NOT your fault for believing a lying Scumbag! |
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Common Sense Party (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 06:12 PM Response to Original message |
55. . |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 09:19 PM Response to Original message |
69. Deleted message |
Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 10:53 PM Response to Reply #69 |
75. Even us men who support rape victims are fight against misogyny? |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 10:58 PM Response to Reply #75 |
76. It's the same brush she uses to apply her clown makeup. |
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femrap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:16 AM Response to Reply #75 |
147. Don't you think |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:20 AM Response to Reply #147 |
149. yup. i tell hubby, i tell boys, when sitting in locker room, or at the bar and friend "jokes" |
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femrap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:32 AM Response to Reply #149 |
152. Exactly! |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 03:00 PM Response to Reply #147 |
197. I'm the one who goes off on people that do say rape jokes, you jerk. |
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femrap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:09 PM Response to Reply #197 |
216. I'm not |
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cbgb2112 (45 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 09:29 PM Response to Original message |
70. Thank you for sharing that difficult and awful story. You are 100% right. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:53 AM Response to Reply #70 |
127. Thank you . n/t |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 11:35 PM Response to Original message |
81. Oh Liberal Loner, I am so sorry about this. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:57 AM Response to Reply #81 |
130. Thank you so much. I don't feel very strong though. I am glad you are talking to |
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GETPLANING (370 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 11:42 PM Response to Original message |
82. I'm glad you realize what happened wasn't your fault |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:59 AM Response to Reply #82 |
131. Thank you - I hope everyone reads your post and realizes how common rape is. But |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-03-10 11:48 PM Response to Original message |
83. "Learn to be wary"? How about men STOP RAPING PEOPLE? Stop blaming yourself. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:59 AM Response to Reply #83 |
132. LOL. You've got some real fire in your spirit, I like that. :) n/t |
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Kablooie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 01:52 AM Response to Original message |
89. That is so bizarre to me. |
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ZombieHorde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 02:29 AM Response to Original message |
90. I wish I had words of wisdom. I don't look forward to having that talk with my daughter. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:01 AM Response to Reply #90 |
134. I had a million reasons (some of them physical) for not having had children, but one of |
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DesertDiamond (838 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 03:39 AM Response to Original message |
91. Yes! Yes! Well said, LiberalLoner! I'm sorry for what you went through. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:02 AM Response to Reply #91 |
135. Thank you. n/t |
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Sherman A1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 04:41 AM Response to Original message |
92. I am exceptionally sorry that this happened to you, but |
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Pooka Fey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:24 AM Response to Reply #92 |
102. This is excellent advice. Kicking your post. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:03 AM Response to Reply #92 |
136. Thank you. I'm pushing 50 myself. n/t |
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Sherman A1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 10:36 AM Response to Reply #136 |
162. Thanks for your response to my thoughts |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 10:49 AM Response to Reply #162 |
164. you really want to know what helps the girl the most.... |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 05:59 AM Response to Original message |
97. Do not blame yourself |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:03 AM Response to Reply #97 |
138. Thank you. n/t |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:00 AM Response to Original message |
98. Goddamn, that's unfair. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:05 AM Response to Reply #98 |
140. Thank you :) n/t |
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Pooka Fey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:21 AM Response to Original message |
100. I am so sorry this happened to you. |
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ReverendDeuce (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 07:18 AM Response to Original message |
106. So what happened to "Andy"? What did you do when he was "done"? |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:52 AM Response to Reply #106 |
126. I walked out. He let me up and I walked out and I went to take the shower that I |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:56 AM Response to Reply #126 |
129. yup..... |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:13 AM Response to Reply #126 |
146. You know what? Telling that part of the story was way harder than telling the |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:18 AM Response to Reply #146 |
148. i knew it would be |
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leftyladyfrommo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 11:05 AM Response to Reply #146 |
168. That is really what most women do. Date rape or whatever it is. |
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MrScorpio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 07:22 AM Response to Original message |
107. It was never your fault... NEVER. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:05 AM Response to Reply #107 |
141. Thank you :) n/t |
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Solly Mack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 07:26 AM Response to Original message |
108. My heart goes out to you. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:06 AM Response to Reply #108 |
142. Thank you :) n/t |
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onlyadream (821 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 07:28 AM Response to Original message |
109. I'm so sorry that happened to you |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:07 AM Response to Reply #109 |
143. How awful that he tried to attack you - I really wish I could be in a man's head and |
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Mad_Dem_X (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:25 AM Response to Original message |
120. I'm so sorry you had to go through that |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:08 AM Response to Reply #120 |
144. Thank you. n/t |
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GreenStormCloud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:01 AM Response to Original message |
133. That jerk of a "man" has likely convinced himself that it was consensual sex. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:10 AM Response to Reply #133 |
145. I really do wonder what went on in his head. Sometimes I wish I knew. n/t |
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ensho (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:32 AM Response to Original message |
150. true, women and girls can never trust any man or boy |
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nyc 4 Biden (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:38 AM Response to Original message |
153. so sorry that happened to you. |
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SocialistLez (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:54 AM Response to Original message |
156. Please don't blame yourself. |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:55 AM Response to Original message |
157. Dammit! |
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Berry Cool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 10:17 AM Response to Original message |
159. Thank you, so much, for telling what must have been a very hard story to tell. |
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nichomachus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 10:32 AM Response to Original message |
160. There is a huge difference between blame and responsibility |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 10:52 AM Response to Reply #160 |
165. people can't differentiate between responsibility and blame |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 12:14 PM Response to Reply #160 |
172. Pedantic and insulting. |
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Tumbulu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 02:01 PM Response to Reply #160 |
189. such a well written post- excellent to distinguish between the two (nt) |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 03:05 PM Response to Reply #189 |
202. From the person who thinks men are biologically predisposed to rape. eom |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 04:35 PM Response to Reply #202 |
211. from the person that has tried to explain herself |
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pinboy3niner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 04:50 PM Response to Reply #211 |
213. + 100 |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 05:57 PM Response to Reply #213 |
215. + 1,000 She meant no harm and has suffered greatly herself. Please don't attack her anymore. n/t |
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Tumbulu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:14 PM Response to Reply #211 |
218. Thank you (nt) |
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Tumbulu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:12 PM Response to Reply #202 |
217. I do not think that |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 10:58 AM Response to Original message |
167. k |
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nvme (486 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 12:03 PM Response to Original message |
171. Wow |
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colsohlibgal (670 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 12:17 PM Response to Original message |
173. So Sorry This Happened. |
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Daemonaquila (413 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 12:25 PM Response to Original message |
175. I'm so sorry you had to go through that... |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 12:34 PM Response to Reply #175 |
176. Thank you. I think I've learned to trust to a certain extent - I am married to a great man and |
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Blue_Tires (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 12:37 PM Response to Original message |
178. a sad read... |
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benld74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 12:38 PM Response to Original message |
179. Prayers to you - It was NOT your fault |
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Cetacea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 12:42 PM Response to Original message |
180. +10000 |
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awoke_in_2003 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 12:57 PM Response to Original message |
182. And we sometimes see |
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peacetalksforall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 01:33 PM Response to Original message |
184. That man was born with a gift of strength. He misused it. We are here to learn. You shared, |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 01:52 PM Response to Original message |
187. I hope you can find it possible to trust again someday, but I send you warm thoughts and hugs |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 02:10 PM Response to Original message |
190. I would have gotten the nearest baseball bat and that bastard would be hurting |
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Mimosa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 03:02 PM Response to Original message |
198. Co-ed barracks are probably a bad idea |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 03:08 PM Response to Reply #198 |
203. I agree, I talked to my husband today - he's an 0-6 in the Army at the present - asked him |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:20 PM Response to Reply #198 |
220. Raping people is a bad idea. |
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Bobbie Jo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 03:03 PM Response to Original message |
199. K&R |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:28 PM Response to Original message |
221. Eventually you have to make a choice. Either you live in a world dominated by fear, or you don't. |
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AnArmyVeteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 12:32 AM Response to Reply #221 |
222. It has nothing to do with 'making a decision' |
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pinboy3niner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 10:10 PM Response to Reply #222 |
225. + 100--Another excellent, insightful post, AAV |
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AnArmyVeteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 10:54 AM Response to Reply #225 |
226. Thanks for that Pinboy3niner... I like and agree with everything you wrote. |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 11:13 AM Response to Original message |
227. I'm so sorry you went through that |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 11:28 AM Response to Reply #227 |
228. i tell ya, i think she is totally awesome how she walked this thread. and |
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