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alp227 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 02:15 AM Original message |
Black Women See Fewer Black Men at the Altar |
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ZombieHorde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 02:22 AM Response to Original message |
1. "more and more black men are marrying women of other races" |
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xultar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 02:32 AM Response to Reply #1 |
4. ARE YOU FUCKING SERIOUS. I'M LOOKING AT BEING ALONE FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE. |
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Prometheus Bound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 03:09 AM Response to Reply #4 |
6. "Black men won't?" 78% do according to the OP. |
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Raineyb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 02:57 PM Response to Reply #6 |
49. You have no fucking clue what the numbers are like do you? |
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Prometheus Bound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:19 PM Response to Reply #49 |
62. I know there's a fair difference between "black men won't" and "78% of black men will" |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 07:12 PM Response to Reply #62 |
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Prometheus Bound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:00 PM Response to Reply #73 |
76. Where on earth did you get 'callousness' from that? |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 03:17 AM Response to Reply #4 |
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glowing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 04:23 AM Response to Reply #4 |
10. Not to be rude and forget about snapping one's fingers and making our |
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Demeter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:03 AM Response to Reply #4 |
14. My Dear, It's No Easier On the Other Side of the Spectrum |
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yella_dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:31 AM Response to Reply #14 |
21. Yeah, men have no desire for companionship, a nurturing home, that sort of stuff. |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:57 AM Response to Reply #21 |
26. Men often can't recognize how society is geared exclusively for them. |
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yella_dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:58 AM Response to Reply #26 |
27. Yes. |
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Demeter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 01:50 PM Response to Reply #21 |
39. I Said Nothing About Desire--I Address Competence |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 01:59 PM Response to Reply #39 |
42. That inability is, in my experience, a human failing |
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Zix (881 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 01:26 AM Response to Reply #39 |
136. Quite so. Men generally have comprehension difficulties. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 10:13 AM Response to Reply #14 |
32. I'm confused. Are you frustrated because it's hard to find dates... |
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Demeter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 01:51 PM Response to Reply #32 |
40. See above reply. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 02:05 PM Response to Reply #40 |
44. With all due respect |
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xultar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 02:05 PM Response to Reply #32 |
43. I will not date a man who is capable of working but won't. I don't care how rich or attractive or u |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 02:07 PM Response to Reply #43 |
45. I wouldn't either. A woman's gotta earn her keep. I don't kiss frogs. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 12:07 AM Response to Reply #45 |
92. It won't raise mine so long as you're consistent. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 09:16 AM Response to Reply #92 |
95. First, the post was sarcastic. |
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New Dawn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 11:27 PM Response to Reply #92 |
133. Who at DU claims that "women in the workforce take jobs from men"? |
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RedRoses323 (175 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 05:07 PM Response to Reply #43 |
57. Moving is a good idea xultar.... |
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frustrated_lefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:44 PM Response to Reply #57 |
66. Philadelphia is a very progressive city.... |
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RedRoses323 (175 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 10:06 PM Response to Reply #66 |
84. I've never been to Philadelphia--- |
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Hawkowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 07:50 PM Response to Reply #43 |
75. The South is a problem |
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frustrated_lefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:46 PM Response to Reply #75 |
81. Have you considered that economic segregation plays a role? |
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Hawkowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 01:40 AM Response to Reply #81 |
93. Oh most definitely |
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Regret My New Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:02 PM Response to Reply #43 |
77. Your standards are too high! |
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varelse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:16 PM Response to Reply #43 |
80. Come out here to cali |
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awoke_in_2003 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 05:48 PM Response to Reply #43 |
100. that is sad... |
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Confusious (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:55 PM Response to Reply #14 |
70. privileges? |
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adoraz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 08:55 PM Response to Reply #14 |
113. someones having relationship issues |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 09:44 AM Response to Reply #113 |
152. I hope that happens for me soon |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 09:48 PM Response to Reply #14 |
121. great points. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 11:10 PM Response to Reply #14 |
132. Deleted message |
web978 (26 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:19 AM Response to Reply #4 |
15. I am nonblack, I find black women highly attractive! |
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xultar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 02:09 PM Response to Reply #15 |
47. I live in ATL and I have 5 vhihuahuas. Send me a PM! |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:22 PM Response to Reply #47 |
63. Um... maybe it's the chihuahuas |
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keroro gunsou (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 04:31 PM Response to Reply #15 |
54. i was once called |
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ZombieHorde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:18 AM Response to Reply #4 |
16. I did not mean to applaud your lonelyness or one of its causes. |
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xultar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:44 AM Response to Reply #16 |
24. Don't get me wrong. I date everyone, anyone who asks even I ask. But finding love for a |
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ZombieHorde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 11:04 AM Response to Reply #24 |
34. Thanks for understanding I wasn't trying to be callous. |
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Leftist Agitator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:51 PM Response to Reply #24 |
67. "Mainly because of non black men don't consider us as companions and life partners." |
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frustrated_lefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:13 PM Response to Reply #67 |
79. I won't go so far as to call it racist... |
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AspenRose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 02:02 AM Response to Reply #67 |
142. Actually, there's lots of truth to that. Not racist. |
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AspenRose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 09:04 AM Response to Reply #142 |
147. It's too late to edit, but I also thought of two more things. |
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Number23 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 08:33 PM Response to Reply #142 |
170. I don't know how the hell I missed this thread but this is a fantastic post. |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 08:43 PM Response to Reply #24 |
108. is this based on something someone said... |
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Truth2Tell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 09:44 PM Response to Reply #16 |
120. very classy post Zombie nt |
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ZombieHorde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 09:56 PM Response to Reply #120 |
123. I can usually admit when I make a mistake. nt |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:23 AM Response to Reply #4 |
17. My white liberal ex-gf cheated on me constantly and treated me badly so I'm available |
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Sebastian Doyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 09:25 PM Response to Reply #17 |
118. Well, if it's any consolation..... |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 09:20 AM Response to Reply #118 |
149. Haha, I know |
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OhioChick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 10:58 AM Response to Reply #17 |
159. That's terrible........ |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 12:42 PM Response to Reply #159 |
163. I forgave her when I first found out |
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OhioChick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 02:30 PM Response to Reply #163 |
164. Wow....There were other things, too?? |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-07-10 12:06 PM Response to Reply #164 |
188. Yup, and it hasn't turned me off white liberal women either, I view people as individuals |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:23 AM Response to Reply #4 |
18. yup. nt |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:46 AM Response to Reply #4 |
25. Your post highlights the point where cultural benefits sometimes seemingly conflict |
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Tailormyst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 11:57 AM Response to Reply #4 |
37. I can't imagine how much that must suck |
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xultar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 02:10 PM Response to Reply #37 |
48. It is so hard. It is depressing. I'm considering moving to CA to increase |
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Leftist Agitator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:54 PM Response to Reply #48 |
68. Are you over 30? |
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Tailormyst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 10:12 PM Response to Reply #68 |
87. I'm going to take a wild guess and say that you are not a black woman |
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AsahinaKimi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 07:35 PM Response to Reply #48 |
169. Come to San Francisco! |
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MadMaddie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 08:38 PM Response to Reply #48 |
171. Hey whats wrong with Seattle? |
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MadMaddie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 07:48 PM Response to Reply #4 |
74. Where do you live? |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 08:31 PM Response to Reply #74 |
104. good point, MadMaddie...! |
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totodeinhere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 08:42 PM Response to Reply #4 |
107. So are you saying non black women will marry black men but non black men won't marry black woman? |
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goclark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 10:04 AM Response to Reply #4 |
155. xultar thank you for clearing it up |
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Raschel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 11:07 AM Response to Reply #4 |
161. Hang in there. My Black daughter married a WONDERFUL Black man. |
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KamaAina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-07-10 12:11 PM Response to Reply #4 |
189. Not all non-black men are hesitant to marry a black woman |
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struggle4progress (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 02:29 AM Response to Original message |
2. You know, back in January I skidded off the road into a snow drift |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 08:32 PM Response to Reply #2 |
105. lol. |
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Democat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 02:30 AM Response to Original message |
3. Interesting statistics. |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 03:58 AM Response to Reply #3 |
9. I know I'm about to step in it so please be kind |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:59 AM Response to Reply #9 |
28. also, maybe younger generations are becoming increasingly color=blind and are attracted |
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Sen. Walter Sobchak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 10:05 AM Response to Reply #9 |
30. I had a long-term relationship with a professional black woman |
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southmost (528 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 03:05 AM Response to Original message |
5. am i wrong? |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 03:29 AM Response to Reply #5 |
8. It is a bit simplistic to pretend |
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HipChick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 05:17 AM Response to Reply #5 |
11. look at countries in europe..black women are marrying white males |
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Phoonzang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:27 AM Response to Reply #11 |
20. Well as I'm sure you know.... |
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laundry_queen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 03:33 PM Response to Reply #11 |
51. Here too. |
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old mark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 05:34 AM Response to Original message |
12. I believe this is pretty much an American phenomenon, but it is really sad... |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 05:37 AM Response to Original message |
13. So people who are racially prejudiced are facing fewer options in the marriage pool? |
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ProgressiveProfessor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:34 AM Response to Reply #13 |
22. There can be a great deal of social pressure placed on black women to marry black men |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 10:03 PM Response to Reply #22 |
83. Please. |
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ProgressiveProfessor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 05:09 PM Response to Reply #83 |
99. Please indeed |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 08:38 PM Response to Reply #22 |
106. true. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 03:09 PM Response to Reply #13 |
50. Deleted message |
ampad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 05:05 PM Response to Reply #50 |
56. I am a black woman |
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Raineyb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 07:07 PM Response to Reply #56 |
72. To be honest I completely agree with you there. |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 08:11 PM Response to Reply #72 |
103. perhaps... |
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Raineyb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 09:07 PM Response to Reply #103 |
115. I've always been open to it. |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 09:19 PM Response to Reply #115 |
117. again... |
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Raineyb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 10:02 PM Response to Reply #117 |
124. I haven't limited the pool at all. At least not where race is concerned. |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 10:49 PM Response to Reply #124 |
129. well, whatever you think... |
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Number23 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 08:45 PM Response to Reply #124 |
174. "basically have resigned myself to being yet another black woman with no man." |
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tango-tee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 11:53 PM Response to Reply #56 |
91. Wonderfully stated, ampad! |
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msanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 09:30 AM Response to Reply #56 |
96. Kick-ass post ampad! |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 07:17 PM Response to Reply #96 |
102. ....+10. |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 07:12 PM Response to Reply #56 |
101. ...word! |
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Zix (881 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 01:41 AM Response to Reply #56 |
137. Damn STRAIGHT... |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 10:38 PM Response to Reply #50 |
89. Well, you got me to thinking... |
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Raineyb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 02:37 AM Response to Reply #89 |
94. You've gotten one thing right |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 09:54 PM Response to Reply #50 |
122. Preach Rainey!!! I can "hear" the inflections!! LOL!!! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:25 AM Response to Original message |
19. my full support and understanding to black women in this society... |
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Romulox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:41 AM Response to Original message |
23. Black women need to be more open to relationships outside of their race. |
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DevonRex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 10:04 AM Response to Reply #23 |
29. How about men of other races need to be open to marrying black women? |
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Romulox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 10:10 AM Response to Reply #29 |
31. Agree completely. |
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DevonRex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 10:30 AM Response to Reply #31 |
33. Yep. The issue is very complex. So much so that the studies |
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Leftist Agitator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 07:00 PM Response to Reply #31 |
71. "AA women simply were not interested in me as a white man." |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 11:25 AM Response to Reply #29 |
35. I'm open to black women, but I haven't met many who are open to me though. |
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DevonRex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 11:50 AM Response to Reply #35 |
36. Seriously, I think I should start matchmaking. :) |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 04:09 PM Response to Reply #36 |
53. Go for it! I'm open to DUers. nt |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 10:14 PM Response to Reply #35 |
126. "they want to be viewed as available for the white men." |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 10:40 PM Response to Reply #126 |
128. All my female cousins and sister say it all the time |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 08:55 AM Response to Reply #128 |
146. That's not nearly the same as saying, black women view |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 09:13 AM Response to Reply #146 |
148. You misunderstood me, my comment was about Indian-American women, not black |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 09:28 AM Response to Reply #148 |
151. Thanks for clearing that up. n/t |
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wingnut40 (86 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:15 PM Response to Reply #29 |
61. Or black women open to marrying other men. |
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Raineyb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 10:07 PM Response to Reply #61 |
125. Who says they aren't? |
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AspenRose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 02:14 AM Response to Reply #61 |
143. I did just that, thanks. |
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RedRoses323 (175 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 10:20 AM Response to Reply #61 |
157. Yep.. |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 08:52 PM Response to Reply #29 |
111. but who said they aren't....? |
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FLPanhandle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 01:53 PM Response to Reply #23 |
41. I agree. There are many guys that would be willing to start relationships with black women. |
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wuushew (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 12:01 PM Response to Original message |
38. Altering the natural sex ratio or polygamy are also options |
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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 02:08 PM Response to Original message |
46. This compares with nearly half of American-born Asians choosing non-Asian spouses. |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 08:53 PM Response to Reply #46 |
112. yet we don't see articles discussing that. |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 03:35 PM Response to Original message |
52. I long for the day when none of this stuff matters. |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-07-10 06:53 PM Response to Reply #52 |
190. that's wonderful to hear...! |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 04:50 PM Response to Original message |
55. Has anyone asked those black men why they're not marrying black women? |
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Cetacea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 05:08 PM Response to Reply #55 |
58. As an adjunct they are more likely to be jobless |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 09:28 PM Response to Reply #58 |
119. wait...what? |
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CBR (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:54 PM Response to Reply #55 |
69. Many black men marry women from other races because they fell in love. nt |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 10:12 PM Response to Reply #69 |
86. Profound post. Just because a black man marries outside of his |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 08:46 PM Response to Reply #86 |
109. true. |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 08:06 PM Response to Reply #55 |
78. I've heard many things regarding race used over the years... |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 09:03 PM Response to Reply #55 |
114. in all fairness... |
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Donald Ian Rankin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-07-10 08:01 AM Response to Reply #55 |
187. Why should they - a better question would be why is it so rare? |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 05:23 PM Response to Original message |
59. Finding the right mate.. |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 09:07 PM Response to Reply #59 |
82. I think its amazing that your example was Jamie Presley, who married Simran Singh |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 07:18 PM Response to Reply #82 |
168. I have a huge crush on Aasif Mandvi |
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OhioChick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 08:53 PM Response to Reply #168 |
176. Oh no girl...... |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 09:20 PM Response to Reply #176 |
177. ooh yes |
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Juche (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:13 PM Response to Original message |
60. Nate McCall wrote about that |
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frustrated_lefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:40 PM Response to Original message |
64. Honestly, as a younger man, I was too shy to ask AA women out. |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 08:50 PM Response to Reply #64 |
110. great point... |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 06:42 PM Response to Original message |
65. Deleted message |
pettypace (695 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 10:12 PM Response to Original message |
85. In defense of black men |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 10:24 PM Response to Original message |
88. All is not black and white, just a friendly reminder that there are other races here too |
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RedRoses323 (175 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 09:48 AM Response to Reply #88 |
97. +1 |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 09:08 PM Response to Reply #88 |
116. yup. |
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boppers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-04-10 11:16 PM Response to Original message |
90. Less racism is good. |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 10:16 AM Response to Original message |
98. Reading through this thread |
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Voluntary1 (11 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 10:22 PM Response to Original message |
127. Why is it always about race? Look at income demographics |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 10:50 PM Response to Original message |
130. Deleted message |
bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-05-10 11:02 PM Response to Reply #130 |
131. hmmmm. maybe.... |
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Drix (232 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 12:38 AM Response to Reply #131 |
134. It's not really my personal experience. It's reality. |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 04:36 AM Response to Reply #134 |
144. yikes... |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 09:25 AM Response to Reply #144 |
150. I thought the same thing bliss when the poster referenced |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 07:10 PM Response to Reply #150 |
167. lol, lol...! |
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RedRoses323 (175 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 09:55 AM Response to Reply #144 |
154. +1 |
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Drix (232 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 10:44 AM Response to Reply #144 |
158. Not really yikes. |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 06:19 PM Response to Reply #158 |
165. interesting... |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 10:00 PM Response to Reply #165 |
179. Deleted message |
bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-07-10 12:37 AM Response to Reply #179 |
181. that's a bunch of bullshit, imo. |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-07-10 01:23 AM Response to Reply #158 |
183. um....yeah. you are. |
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AspenRose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-07-10 07:51 AM Response to Reply #183 |
184. Thank you Bliss. |
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frustrated_lefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 01:17 AM Response to Reply #130 |
135. I dug through some scientific articles on this, because I was curious |
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Drix (232 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 01:42 AM Response to Reply #135 |
138. The issues are complex. |
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frustrated_lefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 01:49 AM Response to Reply #138 |
140. By all means, I don't claim to understand it all. |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 04:48 AM Response to Reply #138 |
145. there was a lot of land... |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 09:47 AM Response to Reply #138 |
153. No. No. It also comes from celebrities telling black women |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 06:28 PM Response to Reply #153 |
166. true... |
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mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 11:06 AM Response to Reply #138 |
160. I think there's more to it than that |
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AspenRose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-07-10 07:54 AM Response to Reply #160 |
185. *hug* |
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RedRoses323 (175 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 11:18 AM Response to Reply #138 |
162. Yes.. |
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opihimoimoi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 01:47 AM Response to Original message |
139. White wemmin also feeling the pinch as more and more white men marrying non whites |
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frustrated_lefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 01:54 AM Response to Reply #139 |
141. Well, it starts with the "top kill" and then... |
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IndianaGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 10:06 AM Response to Original message |
156. 'When you add in the prison population?' |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 08:41 PM Response to Original message |
172. going to have call bullshit on this article... |
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Blue_Tires (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 09:38 PM Response to Reply #172 |
178. good points... |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-07-10 12:39 AM Response to Reply #178 |
182. gracias... |
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MadMaddie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 08:42 PM Response to Original message |
173. I see a lot of potential for a lot of singles here at DU to date |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 08:52 PM Response to Reply #173 |
175. same here... |
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Number23 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-06-10 11:58 PM Response to Reply #173 |
180. 15 years??! |
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MadMaddie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-07-10 07:34 PM Response to Reply #180 |
191. Thanks! |
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AspenRose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-07-10 07:56 AM Response to Reply #173 |
186. Going on 11 years with mine. |
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