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Wounded Bear

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Fri Aug 27, 2021, 09:57 AM Aug 2021

Worried, but I have to be gentle and careful... [View all]

My daughter has not got vaxxed. I suspected as much, but it was confirmed last night in a text exchange that she hasn't. My two grandsons are under 12 now and going back to school, of course. She thinks she may have had covid from a 'cold' from Jan of 2020 that 'had covid symptoms' in her words.

She is afraid of side effects of the vax and asked me about my experience. I was honest while trying not to be alarmist. My after effects were mild and I said so. She has apparently heard some horror stories, from what she calls 'personal friends' that I suspect are internet 'friends.'

I told her that I recommended the shots, even if she had covid before and even threw in a 'for the kids' comment, because yeah that matters. It all started when she asked me about my booster shot and I assured her that I would get it as soon as I am eligible and the VA calls me with a schedule to do so.

I hope I pushed her (gently) in the direction of getting the shots, but I don't know. She lives in California and I'm in Washington, so I don't see her every day. If I deluge her with texts and FB posts she would probably just block me. Clock is ticking and the virus is out there...

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I would keep saying there is still enough time to get the vaccine and that most people flying_wahini Aug 2021 #1
I feel your angst. ProudMNDemocrat Aug 2021 #2
She is asking. viva la Aug 2021 #3
Have thought about that in the time since. Might go that way...nt Wounded Bear Aug 2021 #4
At least she's asking questions and listening. 70sEraVet Aug 2021 #5
I know. She grew up pretty independent and strong willed... Wounded Bear Aug 2021 #6
having covid wont give you that much protection... soon her job, insurance, social places samnsara Aug 2021 #7
She basically works from home, but I still worry about her...nt Wounded Bear Aug 2021 #9
She thinks she may have had covid from a 'cold' from Jan of 2020... Mariana Aug 2021 #8
The reporting about 'mild' cases may have been self defeating...nt Wounded Bear Aug 2021 #10
Has she talked to her primary care doc? mnhtnbb Aug 2021 #11
She says the kids are up to date on all pediatric vaccinations... Wounded Bear Aug 2021 #13
That's why talking to her primary care doc will give her some perspective. mnhtnbb Aug 2021 #15
Don't give up. I mentioned it each time I talked to my daughter. BoomaofBandM Aug 2021 #12
If side effects are more than mild it means your immune system Merlot Aug 2021 #14
as a military brat I was vaccinated against a lot of things as a requirement for going overseas demigoddess Aug 2021 #16
suggest the J&J one shot. Grasswire2 Aug 2021 #17
Another good reinforcement is if several people she knows - summer_in_TX Aug 2021 #18
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