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stopdiggin

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4. let it be known that you anticipate a convivial and enjoyable evening

Reply to Joinfortmill (Original post)

Sun Nov 23, 2025, 01:06 PM

Nov 23

And then, if the reality delivers something else - politely excuse yourself ...
I'm almost sure I forgot to feed the goldfish ...

Polite - but firm in your expectations - and boundaries.
ALL guest should be treated with respect.

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Only know one Trump voter personally.... [View all] Joinfortmill Nov 23 OP

Talk about things you agree on Polybius Nov 23 #1

My rule is to be polite & nonpolitical, so as not to ruin the event. CrispyQ Nov 23 #2

I think maybe politely leaving is the better option - (just my two cents) stopdiggin Nov 23 #5

Well, don't start anything. chowmama Nov 23 #3

let it be known that you anticipate a convivial and enjoyable evening stopdiggin Nov 23 #4