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In reply to the discussion: Got some good news today! Equals Glamrock's a piece of shit. [View all]niyad
(125,361 posts)26. sending hugggggs. You and your wife are doing the correct thing, the one that is
bestfor your mom, for all of you. There is nothing for you to feel guilty about. Having done memory care for years, I can tell you that the kindest, most loving thing one can do is realizing that the person needs more help than you can provide.
And because my experience confirmed my intentions set many years ago, I am with you and Robin.
May you all have healing and peace.
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So glad you've found an excellent home for your mom with professional memory specialists.
MLAA
Mar 2022
#3
'here was nothing that red flagged your mother as someone we can't take on or help."'
elleng
Mar 2022
#7
This is going to give her the care she needs, and you will be able to spend quality time with her.
BoomaofBandM
Mar 2022
#10
What's most important? As long as she's in a safe place where she's cared for well,
JudyM
Mar 2022
#12
My mom owned a 2 family house where she lived on the first floor and tenant on 2nd. floor.
3Hotdogs
Mar 2022
#18
Glam, you are a loving and courageous soul. If I were your Mom I'd give you a hug and a kiss.
littlemissmartypants
Mar 2022
#34