What is it with Women? [View All]

[coloradodem2005]

In continuing with the post earlier about a fellow confused male, I would just like to ask why is it that women could make a 180 degree turn so quickly on a guy, especially when he is a good one.

I posted my story before, but once again. This girl started talking to me online. So we started emailing back and forth. The email turned into calling. I was very interested. I used to be into looks, but by the current stage of my life, I feel that the most important thing is that we have common interests and that we can have good conversation. I felt that she and I had a lot in common. In her profile she even said that nice guys finish first. I am a nice guy, so I have been told. We agreed to meet face to face. So I met her. We talked for two hours. I thought it was going well. We exchanged stories, told jokes, then talked about going to a movie. We were on our way out and she said that she wanted to take separate cars so she would not have to backtrack. I gave her a hug and then we were on our way. I followed her until she pulled off into a shopping center. She told me that she got a call from her friend's mom that her friend was in the hospital because she got into an accident. Said she would call me tomorrow.

I went home. Sent her a quick email expressing my concern and hoping that things were alright. I tried calling her the next day. Her phone must have been off because I got one of those automated messages that says "We're sorry, the number you are trying is no longer in service." I think that the phone may have been off. I tried again three days later. The first time, she didn't answer and it went to her voice mail. THe second time, she was on the phone. THe third time it went to her voicemail again. I figured that she had probably brushed me off. I did send her another email expressing my concern on Friday as a last ditch effort. But I figured this one was over.

I know that I was brushed off. This has been my first true date with a woman at 24, sadly. But I have been brushed off in a pretty cold way by women in the past. Which contributed to my not having a date for a long time. My only fault is that I want to care about someone. Even when I don't really care. Maybe that is my problem. It is a quality about myself that I hate. It is also the reason I am writing this post. I will tell you this. I will never hurt a woman. I would never rape a woman, I would never raise my hand to a woman. I would never put a woman down. I would always appreciate her. I may even compliment her too much.

It has lead me to believe that women hate me and has helped to make me cynical. Mind you this was certainly not my attitude during the date.